"Little Dragon Girl" Wu Zhuolin , come out.
Wu Zhuolin and his mother Wu Qili has had a strait between mother and daughter. He has moved away from home for a while. He was previously photographed living with his 30-year-old foreign girlfriend andi and interacting very closely. His gender orientation has attracted much attention from the public. On the 5th, she posted a photo and announced her coming out, generously admitting "I'm gay."
. Wu Qili was not very emotional when she heard about this, and she replied with a wonderful reply: "Grateful, don't have to raise her and raise her grandson!"
As soon as this statement came out, netizens thought of of course Jackie Chan.
Extreme words often contain public emotions. In summary, there are two things: one is that Wu Zhuolin came out as a disgusting nightmare, and the other is that everything is harmed by Jackie Chan. From the comments from netizens, we can see that although there are many voices of support, many people are very resistant to Wu Zhuolin coming out, so they believe that this is a disgusting nightmare, and they also believe that the beginning of this nightmare was Jackie Chan.
But in an era of increasingly openness and increasingly tolerant public sexual orientation, coming out is really as unforgivable as some people question? When Wu Zhuolin comes out, it must be caused by Jackie Chan and his single-parent family environment?
I just want to say: Don’t let Xiaolongnu come out and become an online carnival for the onlookers’ moral judgment.
Xiaolongnu announced her coming out. This time I gave Wu Qili all my strength to call
At the moment when Xiaolongnu announced her coming out, Wu Qili acted like a qualified mother in front of the public for the first time.
According to Hong Kong media reports on October 5, Andi, the close friend of the artist Wu Qili's daughter Wu Zhuolin, uploaded a photo with Zhuolin online on October 5, and also published a declaration of love for Zhuolin in English. The original meaning is roughly as follows: "I have never seen someone like Zhuolin. She gave me a chance to fully express the thoughts in my mind. There is no criticism, just understanding. Everything is against us. We have been pushed down again and again, but it is worth it. I know we will fight together and fight side by side. Overcome us this year We finally went in the right direction after the difficulties encountered. We have our own way. We face a lot of discrimination from family, friends and Hong Kong society. We live in such an international city, but so many people are closed-minded. However, when I know that you will be next to me every morning, nothing else matters. I love you." In the
photo, you can see Andi in sexy pink underwear. Zhuolin, who is almost 18th birthday, is wearing a black top. As soon as Andi posted a post, Zhuolin also uploaded a single photo. She generously admitted to coming out: "In case no one got the memo, I'm gay". However, shortly after the post was released, Wu Zhuolin deleted the status and reposted the declaration that only pictures.
In this regard, on the 6th, Wu Qili posted on Weibo: "No matter how, love you always. Bless (No matter what, I will love you forever. Bless). It should be blessing his daughter Wu Zhuolin who just announced her coming out.
Facing the media, Wu Qili smiled more generously and said, "I'm so grateful. If her close friend is a boy, she might hold her grandson, which is even worse then! So thankful, you don't need to raise her and raise a grandson at that time!" However, she seems to be a little incomprehensible about her daughter dating a 30-year-old partner at the age of 17: "Everyone has 17 or 8 years old and can date (date). Whether it's a man or a woman, Zhuo Lin is always 17 or 8 years old. Even when I was 17, I have never met a 30-year-old (date)."
This may be the first time, and Wu Qili's performance has won unanimous praise from netizens. Netizens said: "Come on! The child has her own choice", "I feel sorry for parents in the world", "Let go is also a kind of love."
Wu Qili can accept that Xiaolongnu comes out, why can't you?
Xiaolongnu's love has always been unique, but what she offended may be your concept of besieging the city
Xiaolongnu's homosexual identity has long been exposed on the first day, but a series that has appeared in front of Hong Kong people for a long time.
According to a report from Hong Kong media a month ago, "Little Dragon Girl" Wu Zhuolin dropped out of school and moved to live with her foreign girlfriend. This is her fourth time running away from home. Now the two are in love very high-profile. Some media have captured the two wearing couple's gray sweatpants and the same slippers to buy daily necessities at a store near their residence. Even in a short journey, the two of them held hands and held hands, showing their sweetness when they were connected. On the way home, they also used the toilet dredger they had just purchased as a sword dance.
The next day, the media discovered again that the two of them were wearing couples' pants and slippers, and did not go home until after 8 o'clock in the evening.
Before this, Wu Zhuolin and his foreign girlfriend went shopping and hugged each other on the elevator in public places, just like a couple in love, having dinner together and feeding sweetly.
It is reported that the rent of the house where Wu Zhuolin lives with his foreign girlfriend is nearly 10,000 yuan per month. In order to live with his Canadian Internet celebrity girlfriend, Wu Zhuolin did not hesitate to drop out of school, and his mother Wu Qili still paid 17,000 yuan a month to study for her daughter in an international school, which invisibly caused great economic pressure.
Wu Qili has long said that she is powerless to do anything about her daughter's behavior. She once posted a message saying: Mom is so sad, but you must also learn to let go. Let's go, I hope you will be happy and love you forever.
However, Wu Qili also slowly began to figure it out. She revealed in an interview before: It doesn’t matter anymore, gender really doesn’t matter anymore, it’s mainly to love my daughter. This is more important than anything else, and everything else is acceptable.
After all, Wu Qili broke through the siege of concepts earlier than those netizens who abused Xiaolongnu.
Those who scold Wu Zhuolin just because she came out and scolded her are four words: deviant. Does this charge sound like a time travel? In fact, the people behind this still live in a whole set of ancient morals.
Wu Zhuolin was angry with the public. It was her coming out, shattering the repeatedly self-consistent moral system that others had already established.
If these are all personal inner dramas, it is completely understandable. Everyone has the right to choose their own sexual concepts, but what is terrible is that when you not only curse, but also gather with so many abuses, a terrible online judgment is formed, because your sexual concepts have become an exclusive moral at this moment.
But what did Xiaolongnu offend you? What she offended was actually maybe just your concept of besieging the city.
You can stick to your own ideas, there is nothing wrong with this, but is this the reason for you to abuse Xiaolongnu?
must come out and be related to single-parent families? Don’t turn scolding Jackie Chan into your online carnival
The more common doubts are: All of this is harmed by Jackie Chan.
In fact, every time Xiaolongnu runs away from home, reports Wu Qili, or even commits suicide, her doubts about Jackie Chan will become a torrent of online public opinion.
Interestingly, this time when Xiaolongnu announced her release, online public opinion began to wield moral sticks to criticize Jackie Chan, as if everyone was a gender psychology expert.
Then the truth of gender psychology is: coming out, homosexuality has no direct relationship with single-parent families, and even if there is, it is just a potential possibility.
From a rational perspective, it involves coming out. There are too many inner changes that outsiders cannot speculate. Just because she comes out, she blames Jackie Chan for all the blame. Should all the children from a single-parent family come out and the parents should bear the responsibility?
The moral judgment of public opinion here has obviously become a rock that has been cast towards Jackie Chan, but most people have no idea why they cast.
The fact is that Wu Zhuolin, who is about to be 18, has gradually reached the age to be responsible for his actions. Before
, Wu Zhuolin teared Wu Qili up on the Internet again and again, ran away from home, dropped out of school, and even self-harm. He has announced his coming out. At the same time, her homosexual girlfriend Andi was also revealed to be a 30-year-old Canadian Internet celebrity. She used to be a kindergarten teacher and often posted large-scale hot photos like dolls on social network websites, which was quite happy to show off her beautiful figure.
In the past, Wu Qili revealed that after Wu Zhuolin met this close friend, he caused a major change in temperament. Not only did he often take the other person home for the night, he would also close the door. Later, he was even more suspected of having bad habits and having strange behaviors.
A child from a single-parent family must face various obstacles in life. This is a fact, but will all children from a single-parent family let themselves go so far?
This is just Wu Zhuolin's choice.
In such public opinion events, the reason why people are keen on moral judgment and are unwilling to think more from a rational perspective is, in addition to the information homogeneity and herd effects brought by the mobile Internet, it may also reflect the uneasy and anxiety of the social population on the impact of gender on open society.
However, the ancients knew that it was difficult for honest officials to make up for family affairs, but today people, without understanding the entire story of the incident at all and unable to verify the information received, were determined to conduct a moral judgment on the "scrap father" Jackie Chan. Isn't this using other people's stories to sow themselves?
How could you really care about Wu Zhuolin’s life?
In my heart, I insist that I like women, face my sexuality, publicly admit and continue my life, and receive the blessing and understanding of my mother. What's wrong with Wu Zhuolin's choice?
Rather than saying that opponents lack understanding of homosexuality, we have always lacked tolerance for different kinds of lives. Just follow the crowd. Being independent means mistakes or even sins. In short, deviating from the mainstream concept is out of control. It is this concept that has created countless tragedies of my wife.
You can stick to your own ideas, but don’t deny others’ coming out, including Wu Zhuolin’s.
Don’t simply push all the problems in Wu Zhuolin’s life to Jackie Chan. Family is not the ultimate answer to all problems of children. Those who can attribute all problems to their families should understand: single-parent families are just boosters of bad life and will not be the culprit. Facing single-parent families, some go against the current, some go with the flow, and some live in disarray, and their stories vary greatly. We must eventually step out of our family and piece together a complete picture of our independent life.
Nowadays, Wu Zhuolin’s problem has long been not given by Jackie Chan, but by herself, whether she has the ability to live her own life well.
Not every single-parent family child comes out, nor every single-parent family child is deviant. This is just Wu Zhuolin's life. It was not caused by Jackie Chan, nor was it even caused by Wu Qili. We all need to be responsible for our lives, rather than counting all the accounts of life difficulties to our parents.
What's more, coming out is not a sin at all.
Xiaolongnu is coming out. I agree very much that she is calling Wu Qili for her performance this time, but please don’t rush to scold Jackie Chan.
