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No matter what age you are at, girls should save some of their own private money. Especially for families that prefer boys over girls, there is nothing wrong with women keeping themselves alone, after all, no one can help you live.
lives by yourself, and happiness is also achieved through hard work. For parents who prefer boys over girls, sons are far more important than daughters. When a daughter gets married and starts a family, she will become a family in other people's families. When a son gets married and starts a family, she will continue her descendants for her family.
No one likes the wife who blindly helps the mother's family, and no one will blindly tolerate your brother-supporting demon behavior. A woman either chooses to stop loss by herself or can only be divorced and her husband is separated.
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Since Luo Tingting graduated and made money, she has become the ATM for parents to raise their sons. Although she had strongly opposed it, her parents said, "If we raise you, you should repay us." Luo Tingting said that she was silent and could only respond to her parents' requests.
Luo Tingting lived in a family that favored boys over girls since she was a child. Her parents always treated her very strictly and harshly, but she treated her younger brother relaxed and tolerant. When Luo Tingting got her first month’s salary, her parents called to ask for money. The reason for asking for money was that you have the ability now, and it’s time to repay us.
Luo Tingting is a sensible and filial daughter. She can only do this if her parents say this. Luo Tingting's easy-to-talk and her parents' requests have evolved into the fact that whenever her parents need money, their parents will call her to ask for money as soon as possible.
The request from parents has made Luo Tingting very embarrassed and headache for a long time. Even if many people confess their love to pursue her, she dare not accept it, for fear that others will know that she is a demon of helping her brother.
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Luo Tingting worked for 5 years, but her parents asked for 5 years. The money she saved from working hard was also left by her parents for various reasons and excuses. Occasionally, Luo Tingting resisted, and her parents took the grace of raising her for more than 20 years as an example, forcing Luo Tingting to compromise.
Until later, Luo Tingting met her current husband. The other party did not dislike him for subsidizing his parents' home, and resolutely accompanied her to bear the burden. Only then did Luo Tingting dare to relax and accept her husband's proposal.
It’s just that when they were talking about marriage, Luo Tingting’s parents extorted 100,000 yuan in brides, and the money for the brides was ultimately unable to get back the dowry and was intercepted by their parents, saying that they were saving for their younger brother to get married. Luo Tingting had a long argument with her parents, but her parents didn't take it out. Instead, she said that this was the pension fee for her parents.
Fortunately, my husband and I didn’t say anything, but Luo Tingting felt ashamed and worked hard to save money to buy a house with her husband as soon as possible. Just as the couple finally saved up 300,000 yuan, their parents called again to ask for money.
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The parents called and said as soon as they opened their mouths, "You can help you for the last time, your brother can't make up the down payment, you saved 300,000 yuan, which is just enough for him to buy a wedding house." As long as you help your brother this time, we will not ask you for money again in the future.
The parents said earnestly, we have no choice. Your brother got married, and the woman insisted on a wedding room. If she didn’t have a wedding room, she was still yelling to abort the child in her belly. If you don’t help your brother, then your brother will really be a bachelor for the rest of his life.
Luo Tingting asked her parents sadly and sadly, "You are only thinking about your younger brother, what about me?" Have you ever considered my feelings? We saved up for several years and saved up 300,000 yuan to buy a house. I gave 300,000 yuan to buy a house for my brother. So how can we buy a house?
parents quickly replied: You are all married, so you don’t have to worry about buying a house. If you can’t afford it this year, just save a few more years before buying it. But your younger brother is different. If he doesn't buy a house, he will never get married and get married.
The more her parents talked, the more Luo Tingting's heart sinks. My parents didn't take her seriously at all, so they never considered her family and marriage. Luo Tingting decisively hung up the phone.Later, my parents called many times, but she refused to listen. Even my parents rarely went back.
Today's topic:
When faces parents who prefer boys over girls, should women be protected by it?
