So far, the only Japanese men's figure skating figure skating player Hanyu Yuzuru has been able to compete with Tani Ailing . Someone on Zhihu asked "Why is Hanyu Yuzuru suddenly so popular in China?" The answer that received 7,000+ likes was "Half-like face of the protagonist of a girl comic, but she lives like a passionate animation." Yes, this beautiful boy, who was only 28 years old, ended his game in an extremely tragic posture on the Beijing Winter Olympics —two times 4A Axel failed to jump around twice, ending his game. This may also be his last match in the Olympics. After the game, Yuzuru Hanyu bowed to the ice for a long time. Every audience member who watched the game was moved.
Every top athlete has a time of failure. Why does Yuzuru Hanyu's failure make everyone feel so tragic and regretful? So far, no figure skater has jumped out of Axel's quadruple jump in the official competition (I'll say that Axel is the most difficult one in figure skating jumping, and needs to rotate 4 and a half in the air. Generally, figure skating players stay in the air for less than 1 second each time. If you want to rotate 4 and a half in 1 second, you must have a very fast rotation speed. To obtain enough rotation speed, the player needs to "hugge himself" in the air and tighten his whole body. The closer to a chopstick, the smaller the moment of inertia, the faster the angular speed will increase, so you can turn so many circles in one breath.), and if Yuzuru Hanyu does not choose Axel's quadruple jump, he is very likely to win the gold medal. But he did not. He did not choose a gold medal, but chose to challenge himself and choose a faster, higher and stronger Olympic spirit.
After the competition, when Yuzuru Hanyu saw the familiar Japanese media, he lost control of his emotions and said, "I really tried my best. This may be an effort without reward, why does the effort not return ".
Yeah, why? Why is hard work unpaid? This is actually a question that many visitors asked when they walked into the consultation room. Especially some clients with depression. They really worked hard. Just like Yuzuru Hanyu, these people are often successful people in people's eyes. They have been very smart and hardworking since childhood, and have achieved a lot of results in their growth. Some people enjoy this process very much and feel that being able to do what they like is a kind of happiness, and it doesn’t matter the result. But there are also some people who, when they enter a group of masters in a certain field, find that no matter how hard they work or work hard, they cannot complete it. Then they will be unwilling to give up, and will work harder and force themselves. A small number of people are very lucky, talented and hardworking, and they will go to the next level. Most people gradually find that this is useless, and then feel disappointed in themselves and enter a state of depression. At this time, many relatives and friends will come to persuade you, for example, you are already very good, don’t make things too difficult for yourself. Not everyone will succeed, etc. But these kind words seem useless to persuade. The client will still fall into depression, which gradually affects work and study. In fact, the persuasion of relatives and friends is correct, but why can’t the visitors listen?
Grandpa Freud wrote an article "Mourning and Depression" many years ago. If a person cannot enter into mourning, he cannot get out of depression. Work hard, no reward. This is a regret, a disappointment. The harder you work, the more disappointed you are. If the client tries his best to avoid this disappointment, he will fall into depression. For example, some visitors will avoid the things that make them fail forever. For example, academic masters are beginning to hate learning, doctors avoid surgery, athletes choose to retire, etc. Some visitors will use double their efforts to defend themselves, thinking that they must be because they have not worked hard enough, and they may eventually experience serious physical and mental illness, so they have to stop.
But Yuzuru Hanyu did not stop. His belief in challenging himself prevented Yuzuru Hanyu from falling into a vortex of depression when facing unrewarded efforts.Although Yuzuru Hanyu felt regret, he did not choose to escape, but instead turned this disappointment into motivation to continue moving forward. In an interview on February 14, he said he would continue to work hard to jump out of the unfinished Axel quadruple jump on the field.
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