Shen Yulin over there is much better. She talks a lot about her married life with her wife Yaya, and directly expresses her efforts to pursue a second child. She has been married for 12 years and is very stable. Looking at this temperature difference, I am afraid that Shen Yulin'

Hello everyone, I am a boxing sister who is a professional movie fan.

Today's Taiwan Entertainment, also known as human beings' joys and sorrows, are not connected -

Here Huang Jiaqian and Xia Keli are fighting fiercely, and the divorce drama may have just begun;

Over there Shen Yulin is better, He talked about his married life with his wife Yaya , and directly expressed his efforts to pursue a second child. He has been married for 12 years and is very stable.

Looking at this temperature difference, I am afraid that Shen Yulin's words of gloating are true:

"Those who thought we were going to divorce will all be divorced now."

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Having said that, who didn't doubt the two of them back then?

Since then, Shen Yulin has lived up to the title of Master of Absurdity, always showing a nonsensical attitude.

casually said, "It is remarkable that a modern marriage can last for three years." It breaks the normality of human nature.

Secondly...Looking at the harm he did to his ex-girlfriend, it's too many to mention, but at least he owes a lot.

Peizhen, his girlfriend of eight years at the time, cried in front of the camera and accused Shen Yulin of cheating and being cold and violent. She had no feelings and was unwilling to say a clear breakup.

Before her ex-girlfriend could fully recover from her emotional pain, Shen Yulin hurriedly married Yaya.

The embodiment of "hurry" is that Shen Yulin and the new couple held a wedding on the show, while the old couple was invited to another room to watch and send blessings with tears in their eyes.

Back then, Peizhen started as Shen Yulin's assistant, and Yaya did the same.

The breakup has been brewing for nearly a year. Naturally, everyone has a small calculation in their hearts:

The prodigal son has come ashore, but it is just a short rest. The three of them will stick to each other, let's see.

But the relationship thing is really ridiculous here -

Not even mentioning the scumbag behavior in the previous relationship, Shen Yulin has completely changed now.

When his former girlfriend came closer, his first reaction was to hold his head and said that he didn't like anyone to touch him;

Now, he has to maintain strong physical strength even if he takes medicine.

When his ex-girlfriend had a high fever, he was unwilling to accompany her to the hospital;

Now, Shen Yulin was completely controlled, and once Pan Ruodi caught him kneeling in front of his home.

When his ex-girlfriend comes to communicate with her, he will refuse it outright;

Now, facing Yaya's supervision, he chooses to become transparent and hide everything.

His ex-girlfriend was always criticized by Shen Yulin when she appeared on the show, and he couldn't even think of the "lotus root in the desert";

Now, it's him who is being blamed by Yaya, because the old man just doesn't understand the humor of young people;

is angry with his ex-girlfriend, That's because I want to "be myself" when I get home;

Now, I have learned to pay attention to expression skills and emotional management, even small expressions must be in place.

In addition to the rhetoric, the most practical economic aspect has not been left out:

asked his ex-girlfriend to guarantee him 30 million yuan;

naturally said that all the money will be managed by his wife, and he can just pay for his own living expenses.

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The gap is so obvious that viewers can’t help but marvel.

Generally speaking, when answering this question, they will always subconsciously jump into the stereotype of "female competition":

After all, the former is old and senile and lacks sense of humor, while the latter is young and beautiful, which makes people look good.

But behind the comparison, it is clear that the needs of the man being fought for have changed drastically.

In 1999, Peizhen broke into Taipei from Taichung and became Shen Yulin's assistant;

In the same year, "Taiwan is Red" produced by Shen Yulin became the first program in the history of Taiwanese television to be ordered to stop broadcasting.

- In contrast to the soaring ratings, the pranking sessions are becoming more and more excessive. The artists being pranked are becoming more and more famous, and they are criticized for violating public order and good customs .

However, this did not stop Shen Yulin, whose career was on the rise, from making a comeback in a different package, and there was naturally no shortage of money.

When he was in his early thirties, he could afford to reward himself with two houses and a luxury car. When

was satisfied, Shen Yulin got engaged to Peizhen, who had been in love for many years.

She probably really loved her back then, but Shen Yulin, who was suddenly rich, did not delay her and used her girlfriend thoroughly.

Pei Zhen has to drive, run errands and buy lunch boxes on weekdays, and works hard by his side.

Shen Yulin produced "No Laughing Under the Constitution". The host designed various sessions and the guests had to suppress their laughter. In order to save money,

arranged for Peizhen to play the role of a crazy female instructor. Once the guest violated the rules, he would use a prop stick to slap the buttocks hard, which was full of madness.

Yes, it saves money, the woman helps for free at first.

In the next "Kangxi", Peizhen talked about her bizarre love life with Shen Yulin. The ratings soared and attracted major programs to follow suit, making her an advertising celebrity and her monthly income exceeded six figures.

Shen Yulin kept doing nothing and sent a promotion to her girlfriend. The price was 30% of the promotion fee according to the rules of the new couple.

But for such a successful man, how can you expect him to keep his integrity? At least that's what Pei Zhen comforted himself.

Shen Yulin had eaten secretly more than once.

For example, the Harbin milk tea shop tycoon he met in Sanya and dated in Shenzhen who he revealed in "Kangxi" many years later almost matched the details of Peizhen's accusations.

Pei Zhen never thought that in the past years, they would get back together after separation and reunion. This time when they met Yaya, why did they really have to leave?

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Yes, why is it Yaya?

’s initial fate is easy to understand. It can be said that it was love at first sight, and he became interested in writing.

Looking at Shen Yulin's comments, you can also feel the criteria for choosing a mate. What she loves is a bird that is gentle, gentle and considerate.

If we look at it according to the secular standards for choosing a spouse, Yaya may not be worthy of her.

After all, the woman is divorced, has a child, and there are rumors of a hotel girl. There is no shortage of pretty and charming people, right?

But more importantly, the encounter is at the right time.

In a sense, Yaya accompanied him through the trough and back to the top.

When we first met, Shen Yulin had not been beaten down by the tide of the times. She was also a well-known producer of seven programs, but Yaya claimed that she did not know who he was;

Later, she owed a debt of 30 million because of the production of the program. The building was about to collapse, and Shen Yulin had to sell the house to pay off the debt, but Yaya was as tolerant as the Virgin Mary, with no anger, no roar, only support;

and Yaya's wedding was all sponsored by merchants, and the dishes were criticized by many artists. . Although

finally made a net profit of 3 million, it was only a drop in the bucket in the debt black hole.

William Shen said that he also stood on the balcony and hesitated, but was rescued by Yaya.

Shen Yulin, who had no way out, was completely desperate.

He smashed cakes on his face and smashed rocks on his chest. What he used to do to others was now his turn.

At that moment, Shen Yulin rarely became serious -

completely forgot about the aura of being a producer, and it was a complete rebirth.

At this point, facing the popular chat programs in Taiwan, he can chat from one to a hundred, from space to and uterus . When money comes, he can do it. Kangxi's first announcement king finally rises.

And Yaya has completely kept up with him.

helps with career management and is often praised by her husband as "a prosperous and lucky star".

In life, I can still cope with the regular calls from my mother-in-law who have three meals a day.

would occasionally miss a call and would call back the next day to explain.

Tired? really.

But Yaya looks innocent, but is actually smart and does not hesitate to use Shen Yulin's platform to improve herself.

still remembers that when she first went to Kangxi, her style was hard to describe, and she looked like a non-mainstream Taiwanese girl.

later changed to temperament, which can be said to be a complete transformation.

Do you think Yaya is really stupid? She was not angry when it was rumored that she was a hotel girl, she just publicly expressed that she was worried that her husband would be troubled.

On the contrary, Peizhen, who looks shrewd in appearance, is always bruised and bruised on the way to find love.

Peizhen, who was broken up, later gave birth to two children out of wedlock.

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She had just broken up with Shen Yulin at that time, and she was captured by a man who was full of love words.

This man who said "let me take care of you" is actually a married man. After his lie was exposed, he naturally still said a set of scumbag quotes:

The relationship is not good, but he cannot divorce because he does not want to affect his promotion. La;

has been successfully promoted and cannot get divorced, so let’s ask the woman why she doesn’t want to trust her?

With comparison, Shen Yulin was willing to settle the matter with a breakup fee of 5.8 million, which was not bad at all...

And Peizhen, from being deceived to falling to being unwilling to give up the sunk cost even after knowing the truth, finally became She is a single mother and was scolded by her own father for being shameless.

She always seems to look for emotional sustenance in others, and then loses herself. The same goes for

's relationship with Shen Yulin -

In fact, the man wanted to break up long ago and kept emphasizing to the girl his personality differences.

Shen Yulin refused to communicate, refused to have close contact, and even refused to return to the house she bought because Peizhen lived there.

later complained privately to a friend: There was nothing she could do, she couldn’t drive him away.

But what about Peizhen?

is so humble that he has no friends and basically lives in Shen Yulin’s social circle;

Even if he becomes popular by complaining about his boyfriend, he is not willing to engage in revenge dramas, but hopes to create a decent image for him;

went online several times later The program accused the man of being unjust, but she also held on to a glimmer of hope that she would be forgiven if she apologized.

Looking back at Yaya, some reactions are always just right -

Even if Shen Yulin went behind her back before marriage and went to Harbin to have a private meeting with her ex-lover, and embarked on a tangled and entangled "redemption journey"...

She was just from beginning to end. Pretending not to know.

Listening to Shen Yulin's sigh after returning home, she still didn't say anything.

For some true feelings that cannot be touched, she does not poke fun at them. Instead, she cares about going on the show and having close contact with female guests.

said it was to control the husband, but it was just a little fun to make the man feel jealous.

Similarly, Shen Yulin exhausted her energy on the show and didn't like to talk when she got home, but she also cooperated.

On the other hand, Ya Ya often went out to play, and did not come home at the agreed time or answer the phone, which made Shen Yulin complain.

is not to praise them.

But the choices of Peizhen and Yaya are really very contrasting: one seeks spirituality, the other seeks materiality.

Materials can be firmly held, but feelings are never unreasonable.

It's useless to manage the household well, it's useless to be stubborn, and it's useless to be caring and caring. As long as you don't love
, it's useless even if you praise it to heaven.

Besides sighing, there is more regret -

Sacrifice your self-esteem, act like a cow, and expect a man to love you with a little gratitude? It seems that

can only make oneself live more passively, and be in a life of hard pursuit.

Take this kind of thing as a little bit, not the whole life.

On the contrary, they can live at their own pace and better grasp the initiative, including emotions.

Perhaps, the prerequisite for receiving love is not to give love, but to learn to love yourself.