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Everyone has said “white lies” in life
Adults unintentionally set an example of “lying” to their children
Let children mistakenly believe that
As long as they lie, they will Can do a lot of things
Mom easily believed
because she had been learning graphics during that time
It was almost time to learn circles
But it was not until school was over
that mother discovered
There was only an eggshell and one person was holding the ball
Other children It's not as bad as
. Danke actually thinks that lying is normal.
And it's so natural.
What should we do?
Lying is what you are doing. He is learning.
Children are still young.
His behavior is generally imitation. And mom and dad are the first ones to imitate.
The relationship between adults is very complicated.
It is inevitable to rely on some "white lies" to deal with it.
This is a normal communication, but you must avoid children.
Don't think that children can do everything. If you don't understand
, you can't use your children as a "shield"
because this is tantamount to setting an example for your children.
It is almost impossible to not be affected.
Parents must also keep their word.
They must do what they promise their children.
Some parents send their children to kindergarten on the first day.
The child cries and refuses to leave.
The mother starts to lie to him.
What is the result?
The children waited all day.
Lying to satisfy vanity
One day
Danke was late for kindergarten.
The children were all quietly listening to the teacher telling stories.
When the children heard that "my brother is a policeman"
they all turned to her. He cast admiring glances at
, but all the teachers knew that
Danke only had one younger brother, so how could he have an older brother?
Besides, Disney doesn’t open so early~
My mother couldn’t believe it when she found out~
That’s right, we always think that children
should be simple
without the complex emotions of adults
In fact, they are not.
Every Everyone has vanity
No matter men, women, old people or children
Adults live in a complex society
It is impossible to avoid some kind of vanity social interaction
Children may be subtly affected
When parents find out that their children
In order to satisfy vanity When your heart is lying
don't rush to reprimand
After all, he hopes that he will be "excellent"
This is also a positive idea
Parents should patiently guide
and let the children learn to compare vertically and horizontally
Compare with yesterday's self, and constantly surpass
This is better than surpassing others. More to be proud of!
He lied to avoid punishment
One day
Danke happily said to his mother:
However, when he went to school the next day...
Danke looked at the teacher for a long time before telling the truth:
I saw a similar one in the supermarket a few days ago.
but her mother refused to buy it.
Danke liked it so much that she wanted to borrow it to play with for a day.
She would quietly return it early tomorrow morning.
And she had really returned it.
But Danke was afraid that her mother would "beat" it. I
so I dare not tell the truth
In fact, a child
simply cannot tell the difference between reality and imagination
If he likes that toy
, he will think that he has one too.
This is not a deliberate lie
If parents blindly reprimand
the child is right You may not remember clearly what happened
but the fear at that time is really imprinted in your mind
So lying may be the best way to "escape being beaten"
If your child never refuses to tell the truth
then don't lose it. Confidence
Temporarily let him go
The harder you push him, the more lies he will tell
If the child is willing to tell the truth
Take the initiative to admit mistakes
Parents should also praise him in time ~
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