" I want to find someone who is sincerely interested in my money " The person who said this was the 64-year-old Uncle Meng. He is really unique and unconventional in finding a partner. Is he a stupid person with a lot of money or is he rich and willful?
Uncle Meng earns 7,000 a month, owns a house, and has accumulated wealth long ago. He is considered a high-quality man in the elderly dating industry. When he was young, Uncle Meng had a keen sense of business, a quick mind, and his ability to endure hardships. He really put a lot of money into his pocket. In that era when he could only earn two to three thousand a year, Uncle Meng was already a local businessman. The famous Ten Thousand Yuan Household.
Uncle Meng is very open-minded about money, and would rather pay more as long as it makes him feel comfortable. At that time, he was interested in an 83-square-meter river-view house. The rest of the apartment in the community only cost 260,000 yuan, but he would rather spend 365,000 yuan to get it. Just because he liked it, it was hard to buy for a lot of money.
Now that he is older, Uncle Meng is even more open-minded about money. Money is something external to the body, and people at this age should know how to enjoy it. There is a saying: "The greatest sorrow in life is that people leave without spending the money. Finished".
Uncle Meng's career was going smoothly, but his marriage was not satisfactory. He chose to divorce after 18 years of making do with each other. When it came to finding his partner, Uncle Meng made surprising remarks. He wanted to find a woman who truly wanted his money.
These words shocked the matchmaker. She had never met such a generous old man in her matchmaker career.
The matchmaker disagreed and said, You should find someone who really likes you, instead of exchanging money for love.
Uncle Meng has his own opinion on this: She has to like money first before she can like me. Why? I am showing off my age here, and I always want to find someone younger, preferably 50 years old. Those who are ahead of their time, good-looking and in good shape, don’t like fat people.
It seems that the uncle understands human nature very well and is self-aware. If you are looking for someone young and beautiful at your age, then why should they follow you and show you your old pictures without taking a shower? If you are rich and generous, it will be different. It will be easy to attract the right people.
Uncle Meng’s mentality when looking for a wife is the same as when he bought a house. He would rather spend more money to live comfortably, but when looking for a woman, he would spend more money to be happy.
The uncle’s understanding of happiness is biased. Happiness cannot be measured by money. As the saying goes, if you pay and she will show off, marriage will be risky sooner or later. Only a man who is in love and a concubine who is willing can stay together forever.
Uncle Meng added, He will give the woman 4,000 yuan a month to save, take care of food and housing, and after I leave, she can still get 300,000 yuan. The premise of all this is that the two people must have the same three views and love. Get along well, otherwise there is no need to talk.
It turns out that the uncle is not stupid and has a lot of money. He puts feelings first. Not to mention, the uncle’s generosity is full of sincerity.
According to Uncle Meng’s request, the matchmaker helped him match up with the 52-year-old Aunt Yang, who is young and beautiful. Aunt Yang got married at the age of 18 and is now a grandmother. After divorcing her alcoholic ex-husband, Aunt Yang raised her two children alone. Now when she is looking for a wife, she wants to find someone who is older and has good conditions. It will hurt.
One is older and rich, the other is young and beautiful, they both meet each other's requirements, maybe there will be some sparks.
Unexpectedly, the two of them had nothing to do with each other after meeting. Uncle Meng felt that Aunt Yang was average-looking and did not have the kind of feeling that made his heart beat faster, while Aunt Yang felt that the uncle was too old and his appearance was not what she liked.
Although they didn’t call each other, they couldn’t run away just after they met. Under the persuasion of the matchmaker, the two of them were willing to sit down and chat again.
The two of them chatted about each other, and the atmosphere was a bit awkward and depressing. The impatient Uncle Meng decided to end this awkward blind date, not wanting to waste each other's time.
Unexpectedly, Aunt Yang stopped hiding and said whatever she wanted. She felt that the uncle was a bit old, and he felt more like her father, and he could be considered just a friend.
After talking, the two of them relaxed, and Uncle Meng even enthusiastically wanted to treat her to dinner. Unexpectedly, Aunt Yang's words changed the uncle's view of her.
Aunt Yang said that she had learned to be a chef and was good at cooking. When he heard that the other party could cook and loved to be clean, Uncle Meng immediately regretted it and changed his mind. The look in Aunt Yang's eyes became tender and sweet, from being lifeless to She talked so much that she couldn't stop. She kept praising Aunt Yang, and even confessed directly, " I'm attracted to you. "
It's really a man's heart. He changes his mind too quickly. This rhythm has become even the matchmaker. Not even used to it anymore.
Aunt Yang said that she had no protection. Now she earns 4,000 yuan a month as a housekeeper, so she wanted to find a man she could rely on.
Uncle Meng patted his chest and said, I just want to find someone who is not guaranteed. I will save 4,000 for you every month and spend it as you like. I will take care of food and drink. After a few years, we feel that we are suitable and we can make it to the end. I will make my promise clear. , after I leave, I will ask my son to give you 300,000. If my son does not give it, then this house will belong to you!
Uncle Meng’s plan to spoil his wife is so thoughtful and tempting that few aunts can withstand it. I thought Aunt Yang would be moved and nod in agreement, but she had her own insistence. She felt that the two of them were not suitable and their relationship could not be resolved. At the end of the day, she politely rejected Uncle Meng's enthusiasm.
In terms of appearance and temperament, the two really don't match each other. Uncle Meng is slovenly, with gray hair and looks old, while Aunt Yang is fashionable and beautiful. Sitting together, the two look more like father and daughter.
There is another important reason why Aunt Yang rejected Uncle Meng. Through chatting, she felt that the uncle was impatient and had a strong personality, and she also had the same personality. Two stubborn people were not suitable for being a couple, but were only suitable to be friends playing cards together.
Everyone has their own conditions for choosing a mate. It is understandable that Uncle Meng wants to find someone who is young and beautiful. For this reason, he is willing to give him something practical in return. It can be seen from his words that he is sincerely looking for a partner, and even puts aside his personal affairs. Everything is well arranged, and the sincerity and responsibility are impressive.
However, the olive branch he extended failed to impress Aunt Yang. Aunt Yang has a clear understanding and pursuit of love. She does not lose herself in the face of material things and knows what she wants. At this age, she can still deal with feelings without compromising. Admirable!
I hope every elderly person will not be alone and have a happy and happy old age!
