"I will meet a Ukrainian woman under 40 years old. A bachelor with an apartment", "I am looking for a Ukrainian woman: I have my own apartment and a good salary" - According to Gazeta Wyborcza, in recent weeks, Similar ads from polish men flood social networks. So, in the open space of Facebook, the closed group "A Polish man is looking for a Ukrainian wife, a Ukrainian woman is looking for a Polish husband", which until recently was quiet, has apparently regained its vitality. . NEWS.ru decided to find out why Polish ladies suddenly started losing to girls from across the border.
How old are you, foreigner?
As the newspaper noted, nearly seven thousand members have gathered in the closed Facebook group. Some people were outraged when administrators added Polish women to the mix, and without unnecessary politeness demanded that Polish women be excluded.
Since the events began in February, nearly 4 million refugees from Ukraine have crossed the Polish border, most of them women and children!
Some Polish men, after having failed relationships with Poles, see the presence of Ukrainian women as an opportunity for a successful marriage. Poles get their knowledge about themselves from the Internet. Ukrainian women are believed to be loyal and beautiful, while Polish women are lazy and spoiled, Lukasz from Warsaw quotes Gazeta Wyborcza.
Some people are looking for brides under the age of forty, while others, on the contrary, are older. "Hello!" - wrote Irina in a public group, with a Ukrainian flag on her profile picture. "How old are you?" - a single man asked her directly. The girl was obviously irritated by the Polish's bluntness: "It's so rude!" This kind of treatment obviously does not conform to the idea that polite Europeans should not ask ladies any questions. "But you don't think about Russian women at all?" - an uninvited competitor accidentally inserted a comment.
It must be said that the flirting did not develop too quickly. Polish men are in no hurry to bring Ukrainian beauties into circulation, the bravest will only offer their help in Polish courses.
But in her opinion, Polish men are very naive: "They need a 'guardian' wife. Therefore, many Poles come into contact with Ukrainian women: in their opinion, they are known as pie , borscht and Famous for being flexible. At the same time, no matter what others say, they become dependent on a man. In fact, Poles themselves speak openly about it, they just express themselves more politically. "Ukrainian women are not favored by Western Europe. The good is spoiled,” Gazeta Wyborcza quotes “The Groom” Lukash.
Even in Poland there are opinions that Ukrainian women are prettier than Poles, but Anya disagrees.
Slavic beauty – Slavic beauty is everywhere. Just Polka dots look more natural: they do not make the lips lift, nor are they injected with Botox and fillers. The eyelashes will be tinted as much as possible and the feet will be in sneakers - keep going, - from . Anya from Wroclaw said.
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The interlocutor is convinced: First of all, the institution of marriage in Poland is basically dying, if something happens. , too troublesome.
.Divorce at the request of one of the parties is not possible. Poles are divorced for many years, even decades. Spouses install bugs to catch the treasonous partner, and our detective agency is better than the bank. The family earns more," Anya said. -My acquaintances in court say that litigation can continue indefinitely until one of the spouses finally gives in. Before doing so, they managed to pour huge amounts of dirt on each other.
However, local bureaucracy did not make it easy for Poles and foreign citizens to marry.
"Everything about the application was very strict. When my husband and I moved to Poland, we had already spent ten years officially married in Russia. Since I became an EU citizen, Lyosha had the right to reunite with her family. We were summoned Went to the local authorities to talk and spent about an hour each. What we had for breakfast, where we went on the weekend, how much the rocking chair in the living room cost - all kinds of questions were asked of them who were tasked with making sure our marriage was on point! Real, not fiction,” the former compatriot explained.
According to her, the Polish government is now making it easier for those entering from Ukraine to find jobs, obtain insurance and other pressing issues. But Ukrainian women still need to prepare for a serious exam if they try to marry a local.
A few years ago, an article in Polish Newsweek titled "The Wife from the East" outraged Poles. Poles are collectively looking for wives in Ukraine and Russia. ” Fiery battles unfold beneath it – a topic that clearly touches readers’ hearts. Ladies lash out at lazy Polish men, men brand self-righteous Poles, and Poles accuse mercenaries women of “coming from the East” Love commits all its deadly sins but common sense prevails
