Shenzhen, 2014, the filming scene of the movie " Dear ".
Zhang Yi rushed to the couple in front of him with his hands clasped together.
Opposite is the prototype of the character (Han Dezhong) in Zhang Yi's movie, Sun Haiyang and his wife.
Han Dezhong searched for his son for more than 10 years and finally gave up; Sun Haiyang, who is off-screen, has never stopped looking for his son.
After filming the movie, Zhang Yi had mixed feelings and could only send silent blessings.
Sun Haiyang, however, chased after the crew and requested to include photos of his children and his mobile phone number in the end subtitles of the movie.
html Seventeen years later, at noon the day before yesterday, Zhang Yi’s blessing finally came true.
Sun Haiyang found his son Sun Zhuo. It took 14 years and 57 days.
Because of the movie, and the congratulations of Chen Kexin, Huang Bo, Zhang Yi and others, everyone is concerned about every move of the Sun family. After the reunion of
, the whole network became excited and became a hot search topic.
Then, there was an immediate "reversal":
The child Sun Zhuo's hesitation was like an "ethical drama."
cannot completely leave the "buyer's parents" behind and return to his biological parents. Should Sun Zhuo's hesitation be justified?
The "buyer's parents" are controlled by the law. Should the biological parents issue a letter of understanding to let them off the hook?
The initial joy of reunion gradually turned into anger and confusion...
In this search for relatives, reunion is the ending.
But Yu Sunzhuo's life is only the beginning.
Sir noticed that there was a boy named Fu Jiantao who was on the hot search together with Sun Zhuo. Who is
?
’s popularity stems from an interview with his mother.
was asked whether she would issue a letter of understanding to the buyer. Although Fu Jiantao’s mother’s answer was emotional and well-founded, netizens applauded her.
I cannot issue this letter of understanding .
I can’t forgive him at all. I didn’t let him raise him, it was because he stole my child. It’s not that I couldn’t raise him. If my child was lost and you found it and you raised it, I want to thank you. I really do. I will give you alimony for more than ten years. It's because you stole my child and made me work hard to find it for 14 years.
I understand my children (being grateful), I will not say that I hate traffickers and buyers, I will let my children deny them, I will not stop my children (being) grateful.
Love and hate, disappointment and anger.
Both sides have their own reasons and starting points.
But Sir still can't bear the end of the matter - How many people care about what their children think?
At present, many media have reported on the matter in detail. Today, Sir will only add a relatively "left out" perspective.
Fu Jiantao and Sun Zhuo were both abducted in December 14 years ago. If it weren't for Fu, Sun Haiyang's family might have to wait a little longer.
But too few people know his story.
html was abducted and trafficked to a small mountain village 1,899 kilometers away from home at the age of 14. He found his biological mother at the age of 18.
What has he experienced in these 14 years? How to escape from
?
How is he trapped today?
1
"If you don't obey me, I will sell you"
December 28, 2007, Friday.
At 8 o'clock in the evening, Fu Jiantao went home and changed his slippers, getting ready to continue playing.
My brother is very envious, but he has not finished the test paper and cannot be with him.
Fu Jiantao’s mother, who thought the child came home because he was afraid of the cold, didn’t pay attention. She glanced at the lollipop in his hand and asked casually, who gave it to him.
Fu Jiantao replied a little anxiously, There is an uncle next door.
After saying that, he quickly changed his shoes and went downstairs to find the little yellow dog.
-year-old Fu Jiantao is a little monkey at home. He is very greedy and smart. He can teach his brother, who is 2 years older than him, to hide the packaging bags of stolen chicken legs and buy candies for the children around him to "buy" the hearts of the children.
is lively, cute and articulate. Likes to interact with people and is not afraid of strangers.
is thin and small, but has thick hair.
On Friday night, he originally went to another building in the community to play with friends, but he was attracted by an uncle holding a small yellow dog.
The uncle said that he could take him to find the little yellow dog.
After changing his shoes and going downstairs, he followed the uncle to a corner of the community. It was a safe corner with no monitoring or security.
Fu Jiantao was carried by his uncle and carried out of the community.
Fu Jiantao, who was not alert all the way, was a little scared when he got on the bus.
"If I don't go home, my mother will look for me."
Unfortunately, young Fu Jiantao's vigilance and resistance are not enough.
was taken to an unknown place. The uncle pointed at a dark man and said that was his father.
Fu Jiantao's father was stationed in Yangzhou at that time. He vaguely remembered that his father was not that dark.
Uncle had to explain that it was posted in the sun.
Seeing what his uncle said, little Fu Jiantao had no choice but to accept it, and took a bus with his "parents" to Liaocheng, Shandong.
Later he found out that "dad" was the uncle's second brother. There were already three daughters in the family, and he was the fourth child.
And that uncle also became his third uncle.
Everything in life has changed.
Friday ago, his home was a small shop with many delicious candies. He had many toys and the food at home was delicious.
Overnight, his family was replaced by people with unfamiliar accents, and the white rice on the table was replaced by steamed buns.
He didn't dare to think about this change in a too scary direction.
Fu Jiantao vaguely remembers that when he was naughty, his mother once joked, "If you don't obey me, I'll sell you."
He couldn't tell it was a joke.
is just a little worried about whether this change is the result of "consensual consent" between uncle and mother.
It took him 14 years to overturn this result.
2
"I dare not go anywhere"
December 28, 2007, Peng Dongying will remember this Friday for the rest of her life.
If she could hold on to her youngest son Taotao for a while, and wait until her eldest son finished writing his test papers before letting him go out to play; if she could be more vigilant about the unidentified lollipop, and ask her son more questions after changing his shoes... ...
"if".
- This is probably the word she has thought about most in the past 14 years.
That night, she watched her eldest son finish his homework. At 8:30, she went downstairs to find her son and come back to take a bath.
There was no one downstairs; my son’s classmate’s house where he played well in the community was missing; he searched around the community several times, but to no avail.
She thought of "The First Scene" that was playing on TV while eating three days ago.
News about an old man kneeling on the ground holding up a poster looking for his son, The old man was looking for her grandson, Sun Zhuo.
saw at that time that she also told her two sons to be careful of strangers.
Peng Dongying’s feet were so weak that she immediately called the police and continued to search.
html In the past 114 years, Peng Dongying participated in family searching activities and issued missing person notices.
also changed the ID of his social account to "Xuner Fu Jiantao". The
avatar was replaced with a photo of my son when he was 5 years old.
In 2007, the Internet was not very developed and there was no computer at home.
After she posted the missing person notice, she went to the Internet cafe and stayed up all night, learning to register for QQ and post.
As long as there is a way to find the child, she will try it.
accepted interviews, participated in family-searching programs, posted missing person notices on social platforms, and even sold his property just to find clues. He formed a group with other parents of victims to search for their children in various places across the country...
went out every day and made wishes toward the sun; Go home at night and make a wish to the moon.
She couldn't let Taotao have no "mom and dad".
She knows too well the pain of not having biological parents - She lost her mother when she was 5 years old, and lost her father when she was 9 years old. Her younger brother who depended on each other died unexpectedly in 2001.
Without the care and support of relatives, I feel lonely and helpless.
The eldest son needs her, but he is also afraid that the younger son will not find him when he returns home.
htmlShe hasn’t moved in 114 years.
The rent for the rental house on the second floor has increased from five to six hundred yuan to three thousand yuan. The rent paid is enough to buy a house.
She kept her favorite red suit during the summer vacation that year when her son was lost. She kept it with her and put it under the pillow.
talks to it every night before going to bed, like coaxing a child to sleep.
Son, let’s go to bed.
Come back early to accompany your mother.
After the child was lost, she was most afraid of the holidays.
During the Mid-Autumn Festival, every "full moon" hurts my heart.
On New Year’s Eve, there is always a pair of dishes and chopsticks on the table left for Taotao.
I worry about whether my children will have a happy New Year and whether they will have any New Year's money .
She wants to share every important day at home with her children.
Her eldest son was taking the college entrance examination. She posted the status, hoping that her son could see it. I post photos of my childhood and recent photos of my eldest son over and over again.
I just hope that when the children are surfing the Internet, they can glance at this familiar face and think of their own past.
also went out of his way to remind anyone who sees this news or has doubts about his or her background to go to the public security bureau for DNA.
Every year on August 12, Fu Jiantao’s birthday, she would buy a cake.
She celebrates her birthday by herself, and her birthday wishes have never changed in the past 14 years.
I will wait until you come back next year to sing happy birthday with me.
3
"Mom, I am Fu Jiantao"
"Mom, I won't lose it. I will call 110 and tell the police uncle."
On December 25, 2007, my mother saw Sun. After hearing the news about Zhuo, he told his two sons not to follow strangers casually. This is how 5-year-old Fu Jiantao answered his mother.
Unfortunately, he did not expect that the uncle with the puppy would be the "stranger". After
was brought to Liaocheng , he became the youngest son of that family.
"Parents" go out to work, and he lives with his grandmother.
After entering junior high school, he will live on campus.
Other students had their parents escort them all the way to the dormitory, carrying bedding, making beds, buying daily necessities, and giving them endless instructions.
He can only do it by himself.
It’s not true that “parents” are not good to me.
"Father" works two jobs outside and saves money on food and expenses. Even "Adoptive Mother", who is ill, always gives him delicious food.
But when he was young, he said, "If you don't obey me, I'll sell you off." The older he got, the more suspicious he became.
usually joked that he would ask his grandma at home if he had been abducted, but she didn't take it to heart.
When he was in junior high school, he went to the village clinic to have his blood type tested.
After that time, based on the biological knowledge in the textbook, he was basically sure that he was not his biological child. What can
do?
quietly made up his mind to find his biological parents after graduating from college and making money.
Before I could take the college entrance examination, things took a turn for the better.
At the beginning of this year, the Ministry of Public Security launched the one-year " Reunion Action " to expand the collection scope of DNA databases and portrait databases. Guangdong Province has also begun to comprehensively organize photo files of missing children.
html In September, good news appeared.
A boy from Liaocheng, Shandong Province, is very similar to Fu Jiantao, who has been missing in Shenzhen for 14 years.
The Guangdong anti-trafficking team immediately went to Shandong to collect blood samples, compared and confirmed them, and visited again...
"Uncle, I know you are the police, I was abducted, and I still remember my name."
The boy said firmly.
My name is "Hu Jiantao". (Affected by accent and time, he could not remember the correct pronunciation of his name)
After being informed by the police of his possible real name, he searched on Weibo and found the @XunerFujiantao who always posted a missing person notice every time he updated.
An encounter begins.
Peng Dongying still remembers her calm mood when she received a call from her son for the first time.
html It has been 114 years, and her expectations have been disappointed so many times that she dare not have hope.
"Mom, this is Fu Jiantao."
Of course she couldn't recognize the child's voice when she received the call.
But the details the child spoke next made her finally break through.
Fu Jiantao remembers playing with snakes at the zoo with his brother. The snake was around my brother's neck, and he was holding on to its tail.
Peng Dongying has always kept this photo, but has never posted it in a missing person notice.
There is also a little secret between her and her son:
On the morning when the child is going to school, if the child refuses to get up, the mother will take a few pieces of his favorite candy and put them out of his reach. The greedy Fu Jiantao will always They have to leave the bed and hold it in their hands.
She was a little confused.
After seeing the photo sent to her by private message from her child and confirming it with the anti-trafficking police, her heart dropped 100% to her stomach and she started to get excited.
The child was found.
She can finally change her name.
Is this the end?
After Fu Jiantao recognized his mother, he discovered Sun Zhuo's name while searching for lost children in Shenzhen online.
The name that happened to be connected with him when he was 5 years old appeared again.
When he looked through the surveillance video of Sun Zhuo's abduction, he made a surprising discovery.
The man in the white shirt who took Sun Zhuo away looked so familiar. Isn't
the "third uncle"?
It looks different to people who are familiar with it.
can be recognized at a glance.
I also recognized it at that time.
He quickly called the police, and the police followed the clues.
Sure enough, a boy suspected to be Sun Zhuo was found near Fu Jiantao's "home" in Liaocheng. After the DNA comparison of
, there was this reunion that shocked the entire Internet.
Sun Zhuo and Fu Jiantao were abducted and found in the same year.
The attitudes of both parties towards their parents have also been compared.
Sun Zhuo was at a loss when he recognized his parents. Because his sister and "parents" were very good to him in the "buyer's parents' home", he was hesitant about whether to stay at his biological parents' home.
Fu Jiantao vaguely knew that he was abducted, but in fact the "buyer's parents" had always been kind to him.
Although it is true as the news said, Fu ate KFC for the first time after meeting his biological parents. In the past, his family was not well off, but whatever delicious food he had at home would be left to him (of course, maybe because he is a boy) .
On one side, he is his "parents" who raised him; on the other side, he is his biological mother who has been searching for him for 14 years and refused to give up.
Guilt and gratitude tore at him.
Fu Jiantao finally decided to return to Liaocheng to prepare for the college entrance examination. Peng Dongying also respects her children and plans to let her make his own decision after his child takes the college entrance examination.
What decision will they make in the end?
Will they regret this decision in the future? Will
change?
- To be sure, the tragic ending cannot satisfy everyone.
Sir cannot comment on the choices made by the parties involved in the incident.
After all, no one has ever experienced such long-lasting, silent, and capricious torture.
in addition.
Precisely because we are currently unable to grasp the full picture of the matter in detail and objectively, we need to criticize or "convict" cautiously. Overly noisy public opinion cannot help any of them. We can only hope that the law will give a fair result.
Of course, even the law can give a temporary verdict.
But the blood relationship is 14 years late, and it takes more 14 years to make up for it.
Reunion is far from the end.
The movie "Dear" actually has four prototypes.
Peng Gaofeng found Peng Wenle in 2010, Wu Liping found Wu Yulong in 2018, and Sun Haiyang found Sun Zhuo in 2021.
Du Xiaohua, I haven’t found Du Houqi yet.
saw his friend find the child, so he drove eight hours to Shenzhen to congratulate him as promised.
After counting, he found his child’s friend. He slowly said, “I hope I can have this good luck too.”
then smiled comfortingly and lowered his head.
Under this hot search, there are too many lonely family seekers.
Du Xiaohua bowed to the media, shouted to the traffickers, and even bowed to the buyers in advance to thank them for returning the child to him.
and familiarly began to search for the person:
"Du Xiaohua, a native of Baini Village, Huaiyu Township, Yushan County, Shangrao City, Jiangxi Province. His son Du Houqi was 1.18 meters tall when he disappeared. He was thin and had a round face. There was an old scar at the corner of his right eye and a scar on the bridge of his nose. New scars, extrovert, timid."
Zhang Lihua, a seriously ill mother, was afraid that her lost child, like her two daughters, would inherit rectal cancer and begged the camera.
I just ask you to take him for a gastroenteroscopy.
△ In 1994, they got lost on the highway from Chuxiong to Kunming, Yunnan.
Can they wait?
What will be the ending after waiting?
For many orphaned families, even imagination may seem too luxurious.
Today, Sir can only request as much as he can:
If you have clues, you can call the police directly, or call the "anti-trafficking" reporting hotline opened by the Ministry of Public Security, the number is 010-65204666;
If there are women and children suspected of being abducted around you, They can be mobilized to collect blood for free at the nearby criminal police team. The Ministry of Public Security provides free blood collection and DNA comparison services for lost families (nearby blood collection points can be obtained through the WeChat official account of the "Criminal Investigation Bureau of the Ministry of Public Security" and the "Anti-Human Trafficking Office of the Criminal Investigation Bureau" Audio html No. 2, or search "Tuanyuan" on Alipay).
If you have no clues but want to help, you can join the " Reunion System " of the Ministry of Public Security. As long as you have "Taobao, Alipay, Amap, Sina Weibo, Tencent QQ, Today" on your mobile phone Toutiao, Baidu Maps, Didi Chuxing, , Ele.me, ” and other apps, if you choose any one of them to turn on the push notification function, you can become a link in the family search chain.
If your child is unfortunately lost at home, please remember the following two steps:
. There is no need to wait for 24 hours. Once you find that your child is missing, you can call 110 immediately to call the police;
. Provide a recent photo of the child so that the police can immediately follow the rapid search mechanism for missing children. Investigate, and at the same time contact the anti-trafficking police as soon as possible to publish information on the "Reunion System".
In September this year, the Ministry of Public Security announced the number of lost children recovered in recent years:
,142, spanning a longest period of 61 years.
hope is still there.
But hope is sometimes too cruel.
The pictures in this article come from the Internet
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