"I am the original author Kang Zai, and I really like to chat with you about some things in the film."
The TV series " Xinghan Brilliant " has been very popular since it was aired. Although the key points of the plot have not yet surfaced, The family feud between the heroine Cheng Shaoshang is indeed very interesting. Cheng Shaoshang, who has been separated from his parents since childhood, grew up under the knee of his grandmother. He originally thought that it would be a good thing not to follow his parents to the battlefield to suffer, but he never thought that Cheng Shaoshang would be at home. She was deprived of food and clothing and was even thrown into the countryside. However, when the mother came back and found out about this, she not only did not stand up for her daughter, but she was even stricter on her daughter.
In fact, this kind of plot is really sad for me as a daughter. As soon as Cheng Shaoshang was born, her parents left her to go to the battlefield. Having lacked the love of her father and mother since she was a child, she longed for the love of her father and mother more than others. , she originally thought that after her parents returned from the war, she could finally take care of those misfortunes and live a happy life with her parents. However, after her parents came back, her mother's attitude towards her made her expectations shattered. She even felt that it was better to let her fend for herself. .
My daughter was raised by someone else. She didn’t know a few Chinese characters and was raised useless. As a mother, it was very sad, so others didn’t teach Shaoshang how to read and write. Regardless of Cheng Shaoshang’s words and deeds, Xiao, as a female general, came to teach her. , fasting, admonishing, beating and scolding, she did everything that others did to Cheng Shaoshang, but she forgot to give her daughter family affection first and then educate her daughter. Time and again, Cheng Shaoshang longed for the love of his parents. , but she used harshness and harshness to completely break Cheng Shaoshang's heart.
Maybe Mrs. Xiao didn’t love her daughter Cheng Shaoshang that much, otherwise she wouldn’t have made a new dress for her daughter after she came back, punished her daughter with countless endorsements, and didn’t find that the desk her daughter used was still a tattered one for toddlers. Her daughter just She replied and blurted out that it was a serious crime of disobedience. But the irony was that she had never said a harsh word to her niece Sisheng. She only remembered that Sisheng was weak, but she never thought that she had been abused for more than ten years. Cheng Shaoshang, who had just recovered from a serious illness, could not withstand her military punishment.
One person who impressed me particularly deeply was my childhood friend. She had excellent grades since she was a child, so naturally she became what my parents said was someone else’s child. But now when I think back to her entire growth process, I feel a little creepy. What time does she go to bed every day? Her mother clearly arranged what time to eat and what time to do the questions. She had to report at any time when she went out to play on weekends or holidays. What's more, she was already 23 years old, and her mother still treated her like this.
I have actually envied her since she was a child, because her mother would not hit her or scold her. It was not until she had an emotional breakdown that I realized that she also envied me. Although my parents often beat and scolded me, I was free. Yes, at least when I go out to have fun and come home, I get nothing more than a scolding, and she doesn’t dare to disobey her mother at all, because once she is a little disobedient, her mother will only control her more strictly. In comparison, I suddenly I feel that Mrs. Xiao in the play is not that annoying anymore.
Such a mother resonates with many viewers. Many parents in modern society are the same. They either nag or urge their children and rarely communicate with them. This also leads to separation between the two parties and the children cannot listen. When it comes to parents, parents don’t consider their children’s thoughts, and often beat and scold their children when they don’t get what they want. This is the Chinese-style education we often talk about. Is this kind of education really advisable?
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