It is said that women are weak by nature, but mothers are strong.
It seems that in people's eyes, children are the catalyst for women to become stronger.
Does anyone know that the child is also a mother's weakness? She is afraid of melting when she holds it in her mouth, and is afraid of falling when she holds it in her hand. is worried that he will not eat well or sleep well, and even more afraid that he will get sick!
Some people say that when a child gets sick, the parents are thrown directly into purgatory. Only when the child recovers can they return to the world.
Wanting an ordinary, healthy child is the biggest luxury wish for us parents in this life.
Taking a break from my busy schedule over the weekend, I watched the second season of " Human World ". The theme of one episode was "Fireworks".
Fireworks are cold and fleeting, just like Anzi's short life.
Anzai, whose name is Cai Xuanan, is 11 years old and a bone tumor patient. To prevent the tumor from spreading, his left hand had to be amputated.
From then on, he was no longer willing to go out. Even if he went out, he would pinch his empty left sleeve into shape and stick it tightly to his mother's right side.
His mother felt sorry for him and took him to a prosthetic limb factory. Anzai asked if he would be able to carry a schoolbag and go to school after being fitted with prosthetic limbs.
But before school started, his cancer cells spread to his lungs.
The targeted drug he took was called Aitan . This drug made his tumor smaller, but the disadvantage was that the wound could no longer heal.
So his lungs were leaking air and he had to be intubated to remove the air from his lungs.
Adults all know what this cancer cell metastasis means.
Looking at the child who should be bouncing around in front of her, the mother's wishes become smaller and smaller. From excellent grades, to good health, to eating less junk food... only has one sentence left in the end: "live".
When he was dying, Anzi looked at his mother who was crying in front of the bed. He weakly raised his hand and gently wiped away his tears.
The boy who shouted every day to take care of his mother when she gets old can no longer wait for that day.
Sometimes even if we spend a lot of money on treatment, we may end up losing both life and money.
This is the horror of disease. A disease may destroy a family!
Mothers are the last thing they will give up when their children are sick. They are willing to put down their dignity and do everything possible to save their children.
But even if we give everything we have, is it really enough in the face of a serious illness?
In order to raise money for medical treatment, almost every mother will go through this path:
First use her own money to sell a house or a car,
Then borrow money from relatives and friends,
Finally, launch a crowdfunding to expand the scope of help.
Do you still remember the news some time ago that a mother in Hangzhou sold a house worth 5 million yuan to treat her son's illness?
My 14-year-old son was diagnosed with lymphoma. He went to various major hospitals and received 65,000 yuan for a box of medicine, which cost him millions.
This mother is from a middle-class family with certain strength. She can sell her property to meet emergencies, but for most ordinary people, crowdfunding is the last resort.
So we can see crowdfunding information for children in WeChat Moments every few days.
While we feel sympathy for these children, we might as well think about it, can they really raise the money as they wish?
I observed a well-known platform two days ago. There were nearly 30 projects that were being funded through review. Most of the target amounts were between 200,000 and 500,000, but none of them were successful in the end.
Why can’t I raise enough money? Because of a cruel fact: the poorer a person is, the narrower his social circle. The information you publish cannot be spread, so naturally not many people can help you.
There are only a handful of cases that are able to break through the original social circle and are fortunate enough to be exposed by the media online.
What defeats the poor is money, and what sustains life is also money!
Who in this world doesn’t desperately want to live, but they never thought that once a child gets seriously ill, it would be so difficult to find a way to survive.
Some parents may be proud to say that my children have children’s medical insurance, so don’t be afraid! In response to this idea, I can't help but point out the truth: you are too naive.
Serious diseases in children are often difficult to detect and easily misdiagnosed. For diagnosis and treatment, children can only be taken to large hospitals in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou or provincial capitals.
However, medical insurance reimbursement is affected by factors such as deductibles, medical insurance reimbursement catalogs, caps, and medical treatment in other places. The actual reimbursement ratio for most children is less than 50%, which is simply a drop in the bucket.
As Yan Jie, director of the Tianjin Children's Oncology Department, said, comprehensive treatment is very important in children's cancer medical treatment. Many chemotherapy drugs can be reimbursed, but the cost of auxiliary and supportive treatment is the bulk.
"For example, some children are brought to the advanced stage. After one course of treatment, their bone marrow is empty, and they have to keep receiving blood transfusions. It is a bottomless pit."
Do you still remember 4-year-old Haoyu?
suddenly felt chest pain while playing. After being sent to the hospital, he was diagnosed with neuroblastoma, the most dangerous cancer among children.
Chemotherapy and bone marrow injection became the final treatments. Only in the second course of treatment, Xiao Haoyu's treatment has already cost more than 60,000 yuan. If he wants to be cured, a total of more than ten courses of treatment are needed.
I dare not think about it. If it happened to my own child, what would be done to save the child? How much impact would the child's growth be affected?
Watching young children endure pain, what makes parents most heartbroken is that there is obviously hope of cure, but there is no life-saving money!
Life is unpredictable, so we can only prepare for a rainy day.
I have always advised everyone to provide themselves and their children with support as early as possible.
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