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The 84-year-old generation writer Ni Kuang was once known as the "Four Great Talents of Hong Kong" together with Jin Yong, Huang Zhan and Cai Lam. The famous science fiction novel " Wesley " was written by him. He is a novelist who has influenced several generations. Recently, Ni Kuang appeared in an exclusive interview with Hong Kong media, during which he talked about his daily interactions with his wife who suffers from dementia, which was very touching!
It is reported that Ni Kuang came to Hong Kong as early as 1957. Although he is now a well-known writer and has no worries about food and clothing, he bluntly said that his home in Hong Kong Island is very civilian, without luxurious decoration, and even the living room has There was no sofa, only two massage chairs, one for himself and one for his wife.
Ni Kuang, who is deeply in love with his wife, said that although the home decoration is simple, the most important thing is that he and his wife are still by each other's side, accompanying and taking care of each other. He said: "There are two massage chairs. We are sitting there watching TV together. She must hold my hand."
It is known that Ni Kuang and his wife have been married for 60 years. The two have witnessed the changes of the times, regardless of After going through many ups and downs, we have always recognized each other and held each other's hand through it together. When talking about the past with his wife, the old man with white hair on his temples always raised the corners of his mouth, always looking sweet. Obviously, that memory was the most beautiful in his life.
Ni Kuang said: "When she came out in Guangzhou in 1957, she went to night school to study. You know that night school studies are so-so, and you learned it by just looking at each other. We were in love with each other and fell in love with each other at first sight.
My wife is 3 years younger than me. She is so beautiful. 60 years ago, not long after we met, we rented a room and started living together. Later, her father scolded her for being inappropriate. She had to at least register for marriage first! Okay, let’s go and register. She still needed her father’s signature at that time. , because she was not 21 years old yet. "
In this way, the two registered their marriage casually without any secular proposal.
Ni Kuang continued: "If you like it, let's be together. There's no need to kneel down and get a ring. I don't have anything. I haven't bought a ring for her until now. She doesn't need it either. She doesn't ask for it at all. There's nothing." A woman is so good. Recently, she suddenly asked to open the safe. She didn't have any jewelry. Who knew that when she opened the safe, she saw some gold particles inside, so I said to her, "Give me all the gold particles." La! 』She agreed immediately, so generous, haha!
When we were first dating, she went to teach when I was in the most difficult period. I made money by posting articles, and today I received $3.5 as a contribution fee, and each person had a bowl of barbecued pork rice . She was full and I was not full, but I had no money to eat a second bowl. At that time, a bowl of white rice with braised sauce in a tea restaurant cost 20 cents. It was delicious. I ate one bowl and when I was full, I went out and there was a stall at the door. They sell egg waffles for 1 cent a piece, buy a piece of cake as dessert, and then walk together to catch the tram. "
As the old saying goes, the two of them went from being young to being old in the blink of an eye, and they are already 84 years old. Ni Kuang claims to be half dead and has long been able to face life and death with an open mind. However, whenever he sees his wife suffering from dementia , it becomes his Achilles heel.
Ni Kuang said with emotion: "She must leave. She wants to go in front of me most. She can't bear it when I leave. It seems that she is so unhappy in the room now. When she comes out of the living room, I don't know how long it will take to coax her." There are two massage chairs, and we are sitting together watching TV. She will hold my hand. If I move, she will ask me where I am going. I am actually very optimistic. Now I think she is 7 or 8 years old. Little girl, it's fun."
On the glass cabinet in the living room, there are photos of his wife when she was young. Ni Kuang likes to hold the photos of the two of them together and silently recall the past! He smiled and said: "Zhuzhu girl and sister pig! She was only 19 years old when we dated. I called her Amei. I am a pig. She called me Zhuzhu. Sometimes she called me Zhuzhubao. She had to respond to her sister Bao." , otherwise she would keep shouting. "
But birth, old age, illness and death are the unchanging laws of nature. As he gets older, Ni Kuang's health also begins to sound the alarm. He admitted that now he cannot move for more than three minutes and his family even bought an electric wheelchair for transportation. Now he is so old that even going downstairs to buy a lunch box and take home is very difficult.
Ni Kuang said: "The doctor said that I am old, fat, and 60 pounds overweight. I am now 185 pounds. I can't imagine someone as short as me to be so fat. I am precarious and have more than 70 ailments from head to toe. I have also had eczema for more than 30 years. In the past two years, I have become inflamed again. Three doctors said it was skin cancer, and four doctors said it was ringworm. I refused to get checked because I am afraid of illness and not even old age. "
Now that I am open-minded about life and death, Of course Ni Kuang had already thought about his funeral in advance. He said that he hoped to be buried at sea and did not want to spend hundreds of thousands to buy ashes. As soon as he finished speaking, he turned back to the living room and whispered to reporters: "I have already bought a rope. If it is really cancer , I would rather hang myself. The pain of cancer is too terrible." The staff immediately fell into deep thought, and the atmosphere was very solemn.
Or, when people get old, they really feel a lot of helplessness. When it is as simple as walking and you feel powerless, people will have to admit that in the face of time, no one is exception. The love story between Ni Kuang and his wife is certainly touching, and not many people can do it in today's society. However, everyone is always an individual, and it is inevitable that there will be a time of separation. I hope that in their final years, the two old people can have more happiness. , enjoy your old age. bless!
