Financial report on January 17, 2022 # Ren Zeping said that the post-90s generation should not count on the post-90s generation #printing more than 2 trillion to let women between 75 and 85 hurry up to give birth. "It sounds exciting at first, but it makes sense when you think about it"? The comments all had their own opinions. Most netizens laughed it off and said, forget it, I don’t even want to get married. To solve the problem of low fertility, those born in the 90s and 00s laughed, while those born in the 70s and 80s shivered! Three children, do you still think life is not chaotic enough?
You may start to catch up with the trend of having three children. If you sit down and think about it seriously, you still fail to take into account the overall situation. There is a lot of social pressure and you do not think about your own actual conditions. If you have three children casually, will you feel regretful?
What we are facing is 70. At the advanced age of 80 women, fertility is not what they want.
There is a report in the entertainment industry: Big S40 Elderly mother : After receiving a death notice, Vivian Hsu lay in bed for more than 100 days.
Zhao Xiaoqiao, who is also in the entertainment industry, gave birth to a child at an advanced age, which is extremely dangerous. He experienced test tube failure twice, had injections of , took various medicines, and suffered from various physical discomforts. Unfortunately, she still suffered a miscarriage, which caused great physical and mental harm.
Well, most of us are ordinary people with average families and average economies. We cannot afford the high cost of pregnancy preparation. If you want a happy family, you should love your wife more. Women need to be treated with a certain amount of respect.
Housing, childcare, education, and medical care are the four major mountains. The 1970s and 1980s were filled with hardships.
Books given by the Shanghai Livable Real Estate Research Institute show that starting from 2020, the national average price-to-income ratio is 9.2, far exceeding the international reasonable level. Therefore, buying a house has become a major problem commonly faced by Chinese residents.
With prices continuing to rise, everyone is under tremendous pressure to consume. At present, the average income per person born in the 1990s is as high as 130,000 yuan, and they cannot afford to buy a house. Since ancient times, no one has died, and a good house can be found in this world. This makes everyone feel that life is more than just the sloppiness in front of them, but I have been defeated by the sleazyness in front of me. We can't afford a house, so we can have children. After all, there are three types of unfilial piety, the greatest of which is not having children. Then the ensuing childcare costs are another problem that families must face.
For some time, the topic "childcare cost is about 700,000" has been on the hot search list of Weibo .
Some financial media conducted a detailed investigation on the cost of childcare. The results showed that a middle-level family needs to invest about 700,000 yuan to raise a child. If the investment is higher, it will exceed 1.3 million yuan. They say we should not let our children lose at the starting line. What should we do as parents? The cost of childcare and has already diverge. The most important thing to think about is whether we can afford the cost, and the scary thing is that childcare is long-term and continuous.
Well, we made corresponding choices based on our own abilities.
The next long-distance race is education expenses. A latest survey by the National Bureau of Statistics shows that high education costs have become a heavy burden on families with school-age children, and 70% of parents find it unbearable. These expenses mainly include tuition fees, school selection fees, accommodation fees, living expenses, etc.
Derek Bok, former president of Harvard University , once said a famous saying - If you think the cost of education is too high, try the cost of ignorance. I wonder how many parents dare to try this on their own children?
For us born in the 70s and 80s, there are still more serious problems. Our parents are still there, and we can barely solve the problem of children. However, the elderly care and medical care of both parents cannot be eliminated.
Chutian Metropolis Daily: A woman posted her father’s medical bill in her circle of friends. The bill showed that the patient was hospitalized for 61 days and spent 1.04 million yuan. However, according to the hospital, Chen’s actual cost was 1.7 million yuan. After decades of hard work, I returned to the pre-liberation period.
The scary thing is that when our parents need us, we may not even be able to shed tears. When our children need us, we can do nothing but sigh. Huge housing prices, education, and medical expenses have become our heaviest burden.
They have three children and four apartments, a salary of several thousand, and a couple with high debts. It really happened, I went to work all over the world, and I kept the responsibility of the third child in mind!
wanted to have higher pursuits, and said goodbye to the second and third children.
My friend, for the sake of career ideals, did not want to have another child after giving birth to a child. A child has exhausted all the energy of the couple. From now on I just want to live happily and never cut leeks. A friend took a very open view and said: "Flowers are not only about their fragrance, but having many children is about their strength. Parents will worry if their children are not good. We must also leave a space for our own career development in order to give our children a better space." "
The second and third children were originally meant to be a happy addition to the family, but at some point it became a catalyst for everyone's pain. When everyone heard that procreation was encouraged, there was not much joy anymore?
Encouraging childbirth benefits both the country and the people. Although it is urgent, please let go of those born in the 1970s and 1980s. We must also take a long-term approach to solve the trap of low fertility rates. Reduce the national burden on housing, childcare, education, medical care and other aspects, and improve people's sense of happiness and well-being. For the sake of national prosperity and long-term peace and stability of the country, please give birth according to the laws of nature and let those born in the 70s and 80s smile more!
