I don’t know when, but Liu Luanxiong ( Da Liu ), which was originally only supposed to appear in the “Fortune Edition”, frequently appeared on the “Entertainment Edition”.
Thanks to the "efforts" of entertainment reporters, Liu's "prestige" in the entertainment industry is getting higher and higher day by day. The rich man's emotional life has also become a "talk" for people after dinner.
In the early days, Liu liked to "be friends" with beautiful actresses, such as Michelle Reis, Cai Shaofen, Hong Xin, Rosamund Kwan, Yuan Jieying, etc...
Later, he began to appreciate career-oriented women, such as Lawyer Wang Yingyu, Ph.D. in chemical engineering Lu Lijun ...
But no one thought that Liu Luanxiong, who had "seen countless women", ended up marrying an ordinary-looking entertainment reporter.
How could this "ordinary" girl named Gambi be able to "defeat" a group of so-called "high-quality women" and securely occupy the position of Mrs. Liu Zhenggong?
There is really a bit of "knowledge" here.
Reason 1: Gambi has a high emotional intelligence and can handle complex interpersonal relationships.
(1): When working as an entertainment reporter, I can handle the relationship with celebrities well.
Most celebrities don’t like the “paparazzi”. Of course, you can’t say that for today’s celebrities, because many celebrities have learned to promote themselves and have become indispensable “good friends” with the “paparazzi”. They will cooperate with each other to achieve a win-win situation.
But the stars of that era were relatively "innocent" and they didn't like these paparazzi who were "ubiquitous".
is Gambi, but he is an exception.
Gambi was born in 980, and his real name is Chen Kaiyun.
She gave herself this pen name because she liked the little pink goldfish "Gambi" in the cartoon "Goldfish Eyes" very much.
"pen name" is of course used for writing articles.
So Gambi was once an entertainment reporter engaged in writing work.
▲Things are different now.
Gan Bi's father had a bad temper and often beat and scolded his wife and daughter. Unbearable, Gan's mother decided to divorce Gan's father, remarried with their children and lived in a village house in the suburbs of Hong Kong.
Because of his poor family, Gambi had to work in a fast food restaurant to support his family when he was 16 years old.
When she was 18 years old, Gambi finally graduated from high school preparatory school, and then she found her first formal job.
We call this job "paparazzi".
In fact, Gambi’s job cannot be completely regarded as a “paparazzi”, because she is only responsible for writing text, while the photography and videography are completed by her colleagues.
Therefore, in Hong Kong during that period, we could often see an entertainment reporter with short hair and big eyes in the entertainment pages of newspapers and magazines, holding up a small book and pen, interviewing celebrities who were "in various situations".
Compared with other "unpopular" entertainment celebrities, Gumby's popularity is pretty good.
We all know that Stephen Chow is not a very chatty person in private. In the eyes of entertainment reporters, he belongs to the "difficult" category, but Gambi can get along with him and become good friends.
If other reporters ask some questions, Xingye will refuse to answer, but if it is Gumby, Xingye will definitely answer a few questions.
At the celebration banquet of " Shaolin Football ", Stephen Chow deliberately crossed He Chaoqiong and reached out to pinch Gambi's face. Everyone was surprised that Star, who has always been difficult to deal with, would be so kind to Gumby.
Gambi is indeed very different. Her colleagues once said with admiration:
She can always handle the interviewees very easily, no matter how famous the other party is. Is
really "easy"?
Colleagues don’t know that every time Gambi writes about entertainment events, he will try his best to protect the stars and leave a little space for the other party. This kind of "human touch" is rare in the entertainment journalism industry.
▲ Liu was suffering from illness, but Gambi’s appearance achieved a counterattack, and the difference between before and after was huge.
In order to make the interviewees less nervous, Gambi would take pains to prepare a few "memes" every time. Coupled with her flexible brain, the atmosphere would never be too embarrassing.
was also interviewed, and celebrities preferred to be opposite her.
However, although his "popularity" is not bad, Gambi's professionalism is not bad at all.
In 1999, Gambi, who had only been an entertainment reporter for a year, "stepped" into a "big event" with his colleagues - Shuangqi stole the show.
Gigi Leung was photographed going to the home of Ekin Cheng (alias "Yi Mian") to celebrate her birthday, but at that time Ekin Cheng was still dating Shao Meiqi. The appearance of Gigi Leung made the incident confusing.
Gamby's report caused quite a stir at the time, and also opened up the reputation of "Entertainment Journal Gamby".
A year later, Li Ka-shing ’s youngest son Li Zekai broke up with Yingke’s flower Lin Huiyi.
When the paparazzi arrived, Lin Huiyi was sitting in the car crying. While handing over a tissue, Gambi took advantage of the chaos and pushed aside Lin Huiyi's front bangs, allowing his colleagues to take a photo of Lin Huiyi with tears streaming down her face.
Gamby was involved in both major events, and Gamby even took photos with the parties involved. It has to be said that as an entertainment reporter, Gambi's "professionalism" is unquestionable.
So, that year, the "professional" Gambi decided to interview the rich Liu Luanxiong with his colleagues...
Although Liu Luanxiong was not an entertainment star, he was always surrounded by beauties, including some of the first-line actresses in the entertainment industry. Therefore, he is very "loved" by entertainment reporters.
In 2001, it was reported that Liu proposed marriage to financial elite Chen Qiwei but was rejected. In fact, this news is a bit "fantasy", and Chen Qiwei is not ranked among Liu's female friends at all. If Da Liu published a "emotional biography", it would not be included at all, but in this spirit In a "professional" spirit, Gambi decided to try his luck and try to interview Liu Luanxiong and get the "truth".
As a result, there were a lot of people there, and Gambi’s photographer was very anxious, so he pushed the camera very close to Liu.
A group of people pushing and shoving made Da Liu angry. He asked loudly:
Why are you (we) so close? !
Seeing Liu getting angry, the atmosphere at the scene suddenly dropped to freezing point. Only Gumby replied with a smile:
Wow, you are afraid that I can take a picture of the big mole on your forehead!
Liu Luanxiong does have a "big mole" on his forehead. The location of the mole makes him "prosperous" from the perspective of physiognomy. Liu also likes his "big mole" very much.
When he heard Gumby's answer, he immediately felt that this girl was interesting. Not only was she not afraid of him, but her speech was also very interesting and witty.
So you understand, Gambi's "good popularity" is not obtained for nothing. She always does her "homework" silently behind the scenes and puts in more effort than others.
In short, Liu was in a very happy mood this time and happily accepted the interview.
For example, in 2002, the relationship between Fu Mingxia and Liang Jinsong was exposed.
Fu Mingxia refused to speak no matter how other reporters asked her, but she admitted it as soon as the competition was over.
Not only that, Gumby also accompanied Fu Mingxia to pick out a wedding dress. Fu Mingxia, who had always been low-key since then, even drove Gumbi off personally.
These "glorious achievements" cannot be achieved without high emotional intelligence. Whether they are financial giants, entertainment stars or even sports celebrities, they can all get along happily with Gumby.
On the other hand, among Da Liu's other girlfriends, some have better looks than Gumby, and some have higher IQs than Gumby, but their emotional intelligence is not as good as hers.
give a few examples.
Michelle Reis.
When Li Jiaxin was with Da Liu, Da Liu had not yet divorced his original wife Bao Yongqin.
Bao Yongqin and Liu Luanxiong are "partners in adversity" who started from scratch together. Bao Yongqin witnessed the history of Liu Luanxiong's fortune and played an indispensable role in it.It can be said that this "kingdom" was built by two people together.
▲Reis Li’s remarks caused a relatively large-scale discussion at the time. Some people support it, and some people don't agree with it.
Liu did dote on Li Meiren in the early days, but later "new people came out in large numbers" around him. Since he "couldn't become a full-time official for a long time", Li Meiren decided to force him into the palace.
She arrogantly called Bao Yongqin and cursed her, hoping that she would take the initiative to "abdicate."
Once, Da Liu was there when Bao Yongqin received the call. Bao Yongqin couldn't bear it and handed the phone directly to Da Liu.
Several times later, Da Liu really divorced Bao Yongqin, but he did not marry Li Meiren, but intensified his efforts to "take care of" more beauties.
The frustrated Michelle Reis had no choice but to quit.
Li Meiren overestimated herself, or overestimated Da Liu's "love" for her. Although Da Liu still liked Li Meiren, there were many "beautiful women" and the one in front of him was so good at making things happen. , then let’s change to a good one.
▲Lv Lijun.
Give another example.
Lv Lijun.
In the early stage, Liu liked female stars, but in the middle stage, he preferred career-oriented women.
Lv Lijun is a doctorate from King's College, University of London, UK. She has high academic qualifications and good looks.
Lu Lijun met Liu when she was working as a clerk in a luxury store. After that, Liu became very fond of her. Not only did he give her a luxurious house and a luxury car , but he also spent a huge sum of money to take pictures of the "I LOVE U" license plate and give it to Lu Lijun as a high-profile show of love. .
(Aside: Lu Lijun, who graduated with a high degree of education, did not find a suitable job, but went to a luxury store to "shine and shine", which is puzzling...)
Later, Lu Lijun gave birth to a daughter for Da Liu.
Due to childbirth, Lu Lijun was absent from many public occasions. At this time, Gambi filled this "vacancy" as Liu's assistant.
As time went by, scandal rumors spread between Gambi and Liu.
At first, Lu Lijun was very disdainful. Everyone knew Liu was a carefree person, but for such an ordinary-looking assistant with no education, Lu Lijun really had no interest in taking her seriously.
In 2008, Lu Lijun suddenly found that she had "underestimated the enemy" because Ganby gave birth to a daughter for Liu...
The anxious Ms. Lu responded quickly, claiming to be "Mrs. Liu" and taking the position of the couple. Send an open letter, let’s read it:
▲Lv Lijun’s open letter, pay attention to the content marked in the red box.
In a long article, Lu Lijun first regarded herself as "a man's wife (Mrs. Liu)", and then said:
Even if we don't know who is the father of the baby girl, my husband and I will try our best to Various assistance is provided.
Let’s not talk about whether Dr. Lu wrote these sentences fluently or not. Everyone knows that Gambi’s child is Liu Luanxiong’s. She suddenly wrote “I don’t know who the father of the baby girl is.” Isn’t this a slap in Liu Luanxiong’s old face? Moreover, Liu Luanxiong had not officially married Lu Lijun, so she made such a statement with a "definitely determined" attitude.
As expected, Lu Lijun's behavior made Liu very disgusted, and he immediately replied:
(Lv Lijun) All the books he read were in vain!
then quickly sent Lu Lijun to the UK to "study" (reflect).
Even though Michelle Reis has learned from the past, Lu Lijun still hasn’t learned her lesson!
Da Liu doesn't like his " aggressive " girlfriend. He prefers a well-behaved, sensible and gentle little girl.
Gamby understands this very well.
Gambi, who is good at reading people's hearts, never has a direct conflict with others. She does not fight or fight, and keeps her attitude to the lowest level. Instead, she wins Liu's pity and is eventually married.
So, "emotional intelligence" is a good thing.
(2) takes good care of Da Liu’s mother.
In addition to showing super high emotional intelligence in the "Harem Battle", Gambi also has a good relationship with Liu's mother, which also makes her journey to a wealthy family much smoother.
After Li Jiaxin married Xu Jinheng, she has not been getting along well with her mother-in-law Jian Jianxun. It is said that "Mrs. Jian is not easy to get along with". I don't know whether it is true or not, but Mrs. Jian does not like Li Meiren very much.
▲Mother-in-law Jian Jianxun (the old lady in red in the middle) does not like Li Jiaxin.
In fact, Da Liu’s mother, Mrs. Liu, is also described by outsiders as a “difficult old lady to get along with.”
But coincidentally, Liu's ancestral home is in Chaozhou , and Gambi is also from Chaozhou. When he talked Chaozhou dialect with Mrs. Liu, she felt particularly friendly.
Gambi often takes his children to accompany the old lady, and he also personally cooks Chaozhou dishes for the old lady to eat.
As long as Gumby is here, she will never leave Mrs. Liu when she goes out, taking care of the old lady and making her smile.
Let’s take a look at a photo:
▲Gambi is holding the child and carrying the bag, and is also supporting Mrs. Liu.
In the photo, Gamby is holding his daughter in one hand and carrying two bags. He is supporting Mrs. Liu with the other hand, with a humble attitude like a maid. How many wealthy wives can do this?
Anyway, Wenyu thinks that Li Mei and Lu Lijun can't do it...
Reason two: Gambi doesn't smell like money.
In fact, the media once asked Liu Luanxiong why he chose to remarry Gambi among his many girlfriends. Liu responded this way:
Gambi is not greedy for money. She is simple and not a bad woman. She has always taken good care of me and my children and is kind-hearted. In addition, unlike others who have often gone on business for more than ten years.
In fact, this statement is not unfamiliar to us. When the super-rich Terry Gou commented on his wife Zeng Xinying, he also used this sentence.
Da Liu also felt this, and it was his previous girlfriends who were "very motivated" who gave him this "inspiration".
The reason why female celebrities like to "make friends" with Da Liu is because Da Liu has always been generous to his girlfriends.
▲Da Liu’s emotional experience is complicated.
For every girlfriend, Liu would give him a house, a car, and a bag. Even if he wanted stars in the sky, if he could buy them at a price, Liu would not hesitate to pick them off and give them to his girlfriend.
In 1996, perhaps because he wanted a girlfriend with a good IQ to inherit his "good genes", Liu Luanxiong, who had been obsessed with Hong Kong sisters, suddenly changed his style and fell in love with Wang Yingyu, who was born in a lawyer's family.
(I didn’t say “female stars don’t have high IQs”, but most of the “popular female stars” don’t want to have children for the sake of their future.)
Lawyer Wang obtained the lawyer qualifications in the UK and Hong Kong at the age of 23. His IQ and ability are not high. You have to say (as for appearance, it’s a matter of opinion, I won’t comment).
However, Wang Yingyu has a "problem" that Liu can't tolerate - she is a drama queen.
Wang Yingyu, who is a drama queen, spends Da Liu's money lavishly, but at the same time claims that she has not spent much of Da Liu's money at all. She said that she has been relying on her own strength to pay off the mortgage.
In anger, Liu came out and revealed that he had spent millions to buy Ms. Wang a bag, and he had to buy 100,000 bird's nests a month, which he couldn't even finish gargling with.
said that he was about to break up with Ms. Wang. This Ms. Wang was not willing to fight, and directly asked for a breakup fee of 200 million. After being rejected, she took the initiative to lower the price to 20 million...
really doesn't have a nice tone.
Give another example.
In 2016, Liu issued a statement stating that he had broken up with Lu Lijun as early as 2014.
Pay attention to the part outlined in red in the picture below. Liu Luanxiong said that during the period of "making friends" with Lu Lijun, he gave Miss Lu property worth more than HK$2 billion. Now Miss Lu is already a super rich woman.
Let’s take a look at what Gumby does.
After Liu Luanxiong got together with Gambi, he bought some brand bags for Gambi based on his experience in "making friends".
But after receiving the gift, Gumby was " frightened ". When taking the bag in the car, Gambi would even put a white towel under the bag , for fear of staining the expensive gift from Liu...
html For many years, Gambi rarely asked Liu for money. Want gifts.Da Liu has applied for unlimited credit cards for each of his girlfriends. He has observed for many years that his previous girlfriends always swiped Da Liu's cards directly to death. One of them even wanted to swipe Da Liu's card for a small expense of 300 yuan, which was so frustrating. Liu directly called his girlfriend too stingy. Only Gumby never brushes randomly, never brushes too much, and never uses any hair.
So, if a man has money, how to spend his money is also a science. Gumby obviously scored high again.
▲Da Liu and Lu Lijun.
Liu Luanxiong's career was "created" by himself. Unlike the rich second generation like Xu Jinheng who has no concept of money, he understands that every penny he earns is not easy.
Da Liu understands very well that excess wealth can only buy excess "things", but money cannot buy a person's "soul".
In addition to his original partner Bao Yongqin and Gambi, what do other women like about Da Liu?
Do you like his handsomeness? Does
fancy his talent?
Do you think he is kind and reliable?
is not a word yet, money.
Walking through thousands of flowers, Da Liu was tired of seeing this ugly "eating appearance". A simple girl like Gumby looks more pleasing to the eye.
Reason three: Gambi treats Liu sincerely.
If we want to choose who Liu loves the most, we may not really be able to tell who is Chou Yinmao, but if we say who loves Liu the most, his original wife Bao Yongqin will definitely be ranked high. In order to support Liu's business venture, Bao Yongqin even sold her dowry and a house.
It's a pity that after Liu got rich, he fell in love with Yingying Yanyan outside. Yi Qi Jue Chen ran away without looking back.
▲Liu Luanxiong’s original wife.
Liu Luanxiong was born in 1951 and is known as "Big Liu". He has been at the top of the wealth pyramid for many years.
Liu at the top of the pyramid has a very domineering nickname, "Actress Sniper".
Of course, the reason why Da Liu makes friends with female stars is not the value of force, but the "power of money"...
▲Da Liu in his youth.
Liu had been working hard to make money for the first half of his life, until one day, he discovered something more interesting than making money.
There are so many female stars in the entertainment industry, but none of them have boyfriends!
So, Liu decided to "save one by one" and "rescue" Li Jiaxin first...
It was just Liu's "plan to save single female stars", and he had always been the one to pay.
For example, Li Jiaxin dropped out of school after running for Miss Hong Kong in 1988. After falling in love with Da Liu, Li Meiren said she wanted to study, and Da Liu immediately arranged for her to have a British professor to help Li Meiren improve her knowledge.
One night, Li Meiren, who lived on the 20th floor, said she was hungry. However, there happened to be a power outage in Li Meiren's community that day and there was no elevator. What should she do?
In fact, for Da Liu who occupies the "top of the pyramid", this is not a problem at all. He can let his subordinates buy some food and send it to the 20th floor. But in order to see Li Meiren, Da Liu dragged Pang Pang with him. body, bought rice rolls and climbed up to the 20th floor step by step...
Later, Li Meiren lamented that she had no place to put her clothes. When Liu heard this, he felt that Li Mei was so pitiful. This problem was quite serious and must be solved immediately. Dragging his fat body, he hurriedly bought a luxury house for Li Meiren to put clothes in, regardless of the fact that he had already bought two luxury houses for Li Meiren before...
Liu is really considerate to his girlfriend, not only He contributes money and effort, and always accommodates his girlfriends unconditionally, so it makes sense that he is very popular with women.
On the other hand, the attitude of the girls towards Da Liu is mostly that of being pampered and arrogant, which is not good.
After giving birth to her daughter, Lu Lijun believed that her status as the "main palace" was very stable, and she no longer had the good attitude towards Liu Luanxiong as before. She often yelled at him and even cursed him.
What was Liu’s reaction?
At that time, Da Liu felt that Lu Lijun was sincere and unpretentious, and her love and hate were expressed on her face. She was a good woman without any scheming, which was very good.
After being "very good, very good" for a while, he suddenly came to his senses one day and felt that women should be as gentle and considerate as Gumby...
In 2013, due to long-term fatigue, 62-year-old Liu Luanxiong's health began to deteriorate. Going downhill. Heart disease, diabetes , kidney failure and other diseases took turns to find him. When Liu was ill and hospitalized, it was Gambi who stayed with him in the hospital as his girlfriend.
Old Mrs. Liu later fell ill and died, and it was always Gambi who was busy.
In 2016, Liu Luanxiong was unsteady when going down the steps. Although Gamby who was accompanying him immediately went to help him, Liu still fell down the steps with lightning speed.
This fall made Da Liu's condition even more serious, and there was news that his "physical condition was very unstable."
During Da Liu's illness, Gambi stayed in the hospital every day, talking to Da Liu and taking care of his daily life.
Lu Lijun has not been to the hospital a few times at all. She leaves in less than 10 minutes every time, just to "complete the task."
In addition, there are rumors that the kidney that Liu spent 300 million to replace was from Gambi’s mother. Of course, neither Liu nor Gambi made any response to this matter, so we cannot make any conclusions and just treat it as rumors.
Later, Da Liu turned around, but his health was always worse than before. Every time Liu appears, Gumby will transform into his "crutch" and take good care of him.
▲Da Liu became very thin after falling ill and needed to use a wheelchair or crutches to get in and out.
Perhaps it was Gambi’s care for more than ten years that finally moved Liu. In 2016, after Liu issued a breakup statement with Lu Lijun, he married Gambi, who was 29 years younger than him.
Our life is very strange. The people you thought you would spend your life with will turn out to be insignificant passers-by later on. When you get to the end, you realize that the man is already standing in the dim light.
However, from Gambi’s perspective, is it really happiness to be married to a husband who is 29 years older than him and to be willing to share his husband with many women for more than ten years? They say "love should be selfish", but how "selfless" should Gambi's "love" for Liu be?
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