The most terrifying trend in Asian society is that he likes to point fingers at others. As long as the words and deeds of others are not what he wants, he will stand on the commanding heights and teach the other person like a saint. Especially for celebrities, they are required t

The most terrifying trend in Asian society is that he likes to dictate to others . As long as others' words and deeds are not what he wants, he will stand on the commanding heights and teach the other person like a saint. Especially for celebrities, they require the other party to be like a perfect person, without any flaws or omissions. When I see that the other person has two children who are not parents, and the mother is beautiful and slim, I want to criticize. applies a template to everyone, and will approve those who do not conform, regardless of other people's difficulties and free will.

is like Ye Haiyang who gave birth to two daughters independently and has been criticized a lot. After Ouyang Jing gave birth to her child, she was raising children alone. She often shared her life generously with her fans, but she became the subject of criticism from others, which made her uncomfortable.

The mother is not unwilling to teach

well because her son likes to lie on the public floor. She found that many mothers also have this problem, so she posted a lot of photos of her son laying on the floor for everyone to discuss. Many Internet celebrities used this as material for criticism, saying that she could not teach children. Many times it’s really not the mother’s unwillingness, she has tried her best. Your child doesn’t have this problem, it’s just that you haven’t encountered it.

Every child has shortcomings. Being a mother is to guide and tolerate them, but cannot completely control them. Independent parenting is hard work, and Ouyang Jing has tried her best to stop it, but the child is too strong and cannot be controlled. After hearing the instructions, she couldn't help but say, "The child will be taught by you!" "Being corrected by a public figure with a completely different social status I think the parenting style is very unfair, but there is no way to refute it. A bag she just picked up may be my entire year's income, and her education and appearance are much better than mine."

"She has a happy family, and. I am a single mother who has been abandoned."

's mother Tan Aizhen also came forward to support: "Whose daughter is doing nothing? Why don't you care about the disadvantaged? How do people raise children and care about her? Maybe she uses it. Do you criticize others to achieve your own goals?"

She said positively that children just see the world from another perspective. Many netizens also supported it. They will stop it when they grow up, so don't embarrass young children.

After the Internet celebrity criticized it, he indeed said, "Since everyone is here, let's make a group purchase for reference. " Ouyang Jing posted again a few days later: "My child may be rude and uneducated to you. , but he will never become a person who earns Internet traffic by criticizing others, because damn, I am not such a person either.”

"I will give you the number of fans and everyone will be happy? After all, I am not setting up a group to sell anything or making money from the number of fans."

Conclusion

The behavior of public figures will naturally be criticized by the public, but the starting point is very important. People You should also make a judgment before choosing whether to support the other party. If it is for social justice, you can support it. If it is for personal gain, you should not encourage his behavior. We don’t know what the internet celebrity’s intention is in this news, only she knows it, but what she said is indeed misleading.

If Ouyang Jing's son's behavior affects others, then I think the affected people have the right to speak out, and other unrelated people do not need to put more pressure. After all, the child's behavior is not worthy of severe social punishment. level of evaluation. You shouldn’t give advice on other people’s lives. Just wish me well. This happens even when I raise a dog. My furry child is very well-behaved, but she barks when she is happy. I try my best to stop it, but she is very persistent. I The only option is not to take her into situations that trigger her barking.

A long time ago, a dog friend saw her and said, "She can bark! None of my dogs can!" looked like it was noisy, and soon she saw her dog peeing on the floor mat of the car. She said nonchalantly that she could just wash it when she went back.If I were like her and said, "My family doesn't pee like this!" How would she feel? But I didn’t, because I was different from her, and when I met her later, I stopped taking my baby with me.

I knew that she would get very excited and bark when going to department stores, so my friend who liked her invited me to go shopping and asked me to take her with me, but I refused because I was afraid of disturbing others. Don't criticize other people's favorite things at will. That is a kind of impolite behavior, because you or the people and things you like also have shortcomings.

It is not easy to live a good life for yourself, and you have no time to care about others. Moreover, I find that people who like this kind of random criticism usually don't live a very good life themselves, so they seek a sense of superiority in others.