There is a disease that cannot be detected by medical equipment, but it is indeed a disease. This is a psychological disease, and people of all ages will suffer from this disease.
For example, Mr. Yu is 40 years old, but he is in a state of depression all day long, repeating the phrase "life is really boring" over and over again. His wife dragged him to the hospital for a full body examination, but no organic disease was found. He was suffering from a mental illness.
It turns out that Mr. Yu's wife often told him that the husbands of so-and-so sisters got rich and became officials, which made Mr. Yu feel full of frustration.
Psychological research shows that the biggest threat to contemporary people is heart disease, which mainly includes: sense of loss, frustration, sadness and depression, etc. Especially after people reach middle age, life seems to have entered a process of continuous loss: health deteriorates, energy and physical strength are not as good as before, and they often feel tired. It will increase feelings of loss and frustration.
Teenagers can also suffer from heart disease.
Wang Hai, an 18-year-old high school student, took the college entrance examination last year. There were disagreements with parents about filling in the application form. When he was in high school, Wang Hai was admitted to an ordinary high school, but his mother insisted on transferring him to a key high school at a high price. As a result, his grades could not keep up, and his academic performance plummeted. When he was admitted to the liberal arts and science classes, Wang Hai wanted to study liberal arts, but his mother insisted on transferring him to a key high school. She asked him to choose science; when he filled out his application form after the college entrance examination, he wanted to go to a local university, but his mother asked him to go to an out-of-town university. In the end, he was only admitted to a junior college in Inner Mongolia, and it was not his favorite major. Wang Hai hated his mother very much and suffered from anxiety neurosis, neurasthenia, etc. He was depressed, downcast all day long, had no interest in anything, was upset, uneasy, and panicked all day long.
Experts point out that heart disease needs heart medicine to treat it. When middle-aged people suffer from heart disease, first, they should see a psychiatrist to help them unload their psychological burden; second, they should accept the psychological changes, pay attention to their own health, increase physical exercise time, consciously adjust their bodies, improve their diet, and cultivate health The third is to learn to deal with work pressure, develop new interests, be able to take things on and let them go, and stay young mentally.
Teenagers should learn to accept imperfect life. Parents should help students build confidence and communicate more with their children. They should listen to their children's opinions on some matters and should not impose their parents' opinions on their children. Nowadays, some parents send their children to school. Choosing a career, and even when to get married are all arranged, and the children are asked to do it step by step, which makes the children feel powerless when they become adults and have no independent opinions at all. Parenting styles lead to children's personality deviations, so parents should give their children space to develop freely.
When it’s time to fill in the application form again, parents and children should communicate more!
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