Chongqing Internet Radio and TV Station reporter Chen Zhandi
Regarding this approach, many netizens praised the "Wives Army" approach and believed that their behavior of reopening their lives by facing death in this way is very inspiring and contagious. But many netizens also expressed doubts about this.
So what they did is correct? The reporter consulted Chongqing marriage and relationship expert Li Anna about this. Teacher Li said that as long as they participate voluntarily, there is no problem with this method. In fact, there are many ways to psychologically treat inner trauma, including cognitive therapy , hypnosis, traveling or talking to your best friends. The core of Ms. Liu's practice of creating a "grave classroom" is to divert attention and eliminate inner trauma through experiencing death, so that she can easily start a new life.
Teacher Li also told reporters that in fact, people living in this society will be exposed to many negative emotions, such as pessimism, negativity, jealousy, etc. The more these emotions accumulate, the more negative energy they will form. Then we must learn to release and vent this negative energy, and learn to reasonably choose methods that suit us to eliminate and clean up the negative emotions in our hearts, so that we can feel relaxed.
On February 20, 2017, 13 women came to a field of wild cauliflower on the hillside of Gele Mountain in Chongqing. There were six dug graves on the hillside. Six women lay down in the tomb and meditated inside the tomb, while other women who had participated before stood aside.
It is understood that this is a tomb classroom founded by a Chongqing lady named Liu Taijie who was born in 1987. Liu Taijie told reporters that she got married at the age of 19 and became a mother at the age of 21. After her business failed at the age of 27, she was ruthlessly abused and abandoned by her husband. She bravely ended this failed marriage. After more than two years of hard work, she once weighed 158 pounds and now only weighs 99 pounds. At the age of 29, she has tens of millions of assets, bought her favorite luxury car, and led more than 20,000 women to start businesses, most of which are Women who have lost hope in life.
Everyone comes naked, and everyone will die. This time by opening the "Grave Classroom", we hope that through this way of experiencing death, they can face the past, learn to be grateful, learn to repent, cherish life, and be more positive Face failure, face life with the correct attitude, and start a new future. The women who participated in the experience were deeply moved, and some cried bitterly on the spot.
Mr. Liu Jianguo, a well-known sociologist, believes that this is a very good way. People directly experience death by sleeping in the grave, assuming that they have died, thereby changing their personal interpretation of the past, present, and future, re-seeing life, and gaining "rebirth."
