In the Chinese music scene, Alan Tam is definitely considered a master singer, but his love was once criticized by others.
Alan Tam was born in North Point, Hong Kong in 1950. His family conditions are average. His father is a football player, and he has two older sisters and three younger sisters.
Alan Tam has a wide range of hobbies since he was a child. He not only loves football, but also likes singing very much. However, he did not choose a major related to his hobbies when he was in college, but followed his family's advice to study economics in Singapore.
When Alan Tam was in his third year of junior high school, he suddenly contracted a serious illness and was tortured by the pain. In desperation, Alan Tam had to suspend school and return to Hong Kong to recuperate. But after he got better, Alan Tam gave up his studies. Although
failed to finish college, Alan Tam had the opportunity to sing on stage as a resident singer. At the same time, he was able to return to the Loosers band.
Loosers band was founded by Alan Tam with his friends when he was 18 years old. Because his father was very strict, he did not agree with him to take the road of music. Later, he reluctantly accepted it after seeing Alan Tam's sincerity and devotion.
At the age of 23, Alan Tam was the lead singer of Winner Band. Although he debuted early, he was still an unknown little singer.
During his unknown career as a singer, in 1974, Alan Tam and his wife Yang Jiewei met. Afterwards, the two established a relationship. At that time, Yang Jiewei was a beauty consultant for a cosmetics company, and she had her own unique aesthetic vision for stage image, appearance costumes, choreography, etc.
In order to better help Alan Tam, Yang Jiewei resigned from the company and devoted all her energy to Alan Tam. Holding concerts, shooting record commercials and even making movies are all handled by Yang Jiewei.
Gradually, Alan Tam's career has improved to a certain extent. In 1981, his solo album "I Can't Forget You" directly established his status as a first-line singer in the Hong Kong music scene. The movie "If I'm Real" he participated in also won the 18th Taiwan Film Golden Horse Awards Best Actor prize.
Yang Jiewei also became Alan Tam's wife this year.
1981 can be said to be a very memorable year for Alan Tam. And he has also become very busy since then, because the two get together less and leave more, coupled with Yang Jiewei's multiple miscarriages, without emotional maintenance, the relationship between the two slowly appeared.
Later, Alan Tam met the young and beautiful Zhu Yongting , and started an underground love affair.
At this time, outsiders did not know that Alan Tam was already married. It was not until Yang Jiewei's father passed away in 1993 that the public knew about their marriage because "Son-in-law Alan Tam" was published in the obituary.
At that time, Yang Jiewei was still immersed in the happiness that Alan Tam had woven for herself. It was not until Yongting Zhu gave birth to Alan Tam's son Tan Xiaofeng that she suddenly realized.
In order to get Yang Jiewei's forgiveness, Alan Tam handed over the family's financial power to her, and the family did not recognize Zhu Yongting's identity, which made Yang Jiewei somewhat comforted.
However, Yang Jiewei would not have imagined that this would be a turning point in her unfortunate fate.
Yang Jiewei and Alan Tam have been married for more than ten years and have no children. Although he has always declared that he is a DINK, the issue of family succession has always been unavoidable for Alan Tam. This also made Tan Xiaofeng receive unprecedented love after his birth.
Yang Jiewei endured the pain of marital betrayal, but she couldn't control the whole family's thoughts.
In 2006, Alan Tam's father passed away. In order to give Zhu Yongting a name, Alan Tam endured insults and publicly admitted that he had an affair and a child. In his father's obituary, Zhu Yongting's name appeared, which made Yang Jiewei heartbroken.
At the same time, Yang Jiewei discovered that although Alan Tan had entrusted the management of the family's financial power to himself, he had already transferred the assets to Tan Xiaofeng's name. Yang Jiewei finally woke up at this moment. After
, Yang Jiewei chose to escape into Buddhism and devote herself to practicing Buddhism.
At his 61st birthday party, Alan Tam officially brought his lover Zhu Yongting back to life. A relationship of more than 30 years has finally come to an end.
Some people say that Yang Jiewei accompanied Alan Tam to fight in the country, and Zhu Yongting accompanied Alan Tam in the country. But no matter what is right and what is wrong, everyone has their own final destination, and what will happen in the future, I believe time will give us the answer.
