Wu Qian and Zhang Yujian officially announced their divorce: Congratulations to Wu Qian, she finally sees the truth that marriage will not be happy

And Wu Qian's official announcement is more like she has seen the true face of the person she loves. She understands that there is no happiness in her marriage, and she has already been disappointed in her marriage.

I especially want to congratulate Wu Qian, she finally sees the truth that her marriage will not be happy.

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Love and marriage without official announcement

Filmed the youth drama " I only like you". I also followed this drama at the time, and the relationship between Yan Mo and Qiao Yi is enviable. Who would have thought that the two of them would come together because of this drama.

In 2019, Wu Qian and Zhang Yujian were exposed hand in hand, and the woman's staff responded that the two were friends; in July, they shot a magazine together; in October, Wu Qian was revealed to be 5 months pregnant; November 1 After Wu Qian and Zhang Yujian were photographed picking up the woman's parents together, gossip media revealed that the two returned to the hotel lobby to hug each other after the filming was over.The man even staged a head-touching kill, while the woman leaned against Zhang Yujian's chest.

The relationship between the two of them is so open, but Zhang Yujian did not announce it to Wu Qian.

In April 2020, Wu Qian wore a ring on her ring finger during a live broadcast, sparking speculation about marriage. The staff said, "This has no special meaning. I like to wear rings since I was a child, that is, little girls like to wear jewelry." Having said that, we can clearly feel that Wu Qian is different from before.

A woman's real maturity and transformation begins when she gives birth to a child. Wu Qian gives the impression that she has given birth to a child. During that time, a gossip number spread wildly, saying it was "Little Princess Hua Ce" who was in love, because she liked someone so much that she gave birth to a child during the rising stage of her career. Since the birth of the child, her career has been greatly affected. But she didn't get any response for her efforts. When the man was still acting, he set up a single person.

caused a lot of public uproar for a while, and it has already spread to this, but Zhang Yujian still did not respond.

Until March 15, 2021, some media revealed that Wu Qian took a child out, and she was suspected of having a daughter with Zhang Yujian. Zhang Yujian finally admitted it in a post, "Normal love and marriage, with a lovely child, Legal procedures are complete.”

Zhang Yujian's official announcement is particularly impressive. Since it is a normal love and marriage, why don't you dare to admit it generously?

And what makes Wu Qian feel distressed? It's all over, Zhang Yujian didn't say "Wu Qian is my wife".

What is the official announcement about?

When they first admitted to having a daughter out of wedlock, I guessed that their marriage would not last long.

Think about it, a man who is unwilling to be open to you when he is in love, and a man who is unwilling to be open to you when he is married, do you think he is responsible? You love him without hesitation. You fantasize about how wonderful your marriage will be after marrying him, but reality tells you that your marriage will not be happy, because this man has never really cared about you.

What's the truth about marriages not going to be happy?

If he loves you, it's fine, if you've always given it unilaterally, you love him but he doesn't respond to you, then your love won't last long, and you won't even after you marry him Happiness, but just slowly getting to know the man in front of him in the broken reality marriage. Because you don't love, so don't care; because you are too humble, so he takes your love as a matter of course, he thinks you should compromise for him, such love you will see yourself sooner or later.

Wu Qian got divorced, she knew the truth of this unfortunate marriage: With an irresponsible man like Zhang Yujian, what happiness can there be? Instead of wasting her life on marriage, a woman might as well let herself jump out of it and work hard for her career. Men are unreliable, only your career is truly yours.

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Wu Qian Zhang Yujian officially announced his divorce: Congratulations to Wu Qian,She finally sees the truth that marriage will not be happy.

The TV series "I Only Like You" is really sweet, I really hoped they would be together when I was watching the show, but when I found out what kind of person Zhang Yujian was, I only felt bad for Wu Qian . Wu Qian was such a spirited girl before she met Zhang Yujian. She has good acting skills and will definitely have a bright future in the future; but she has turned herself over in love.

Perhaps, only by experiencing it can you understand what is most important to you.

We will find that the thinking of modern women is very different from the past. In the past, women still took marrying a good man as their lifelong goal. As long as they marry a good man, they will have a happy marriage. , then it can be said to be a winner in life; but modern women are different, they no longer take marrying a good man as their lifelong goal, but are more committed to realizing their own value.

There are too many risks for a happy family and marriage. Instead of hoping to get it from a man, a woman might as well place her hope in achieving it through her own efforts.

More and more women are beginning to realize that it is better to have a career than a man. Even women in a happy marriage place their hopes on self-worth, not just around their husbands and children. Not to mention a woman who is not in a happy marriage. A husband who doesn't love you and doesn't take responsibility, an unhappy marriage, these will only be a stumbling block in your career, and all you have to do is jump out of it.

There is a saying: The biggest stumbling block for women in career is the rotten peach blossom .

Like Zhang Yujian, it belongs to Wu Qian's rotten peach blossom,Wu Qian has good looks and strength, can't she work hard in her career? If you have to provoke some rotten peach blossoms, what benefits will it bring to your career, it is purely a hindrance. Fortunately, now that I have chosen to divorce, it is not too late.

The poet Bartok once said: "For the strong, setbacks are a stepping stone to success; for the weak, it is an endless abyss."

"I am divorced" "In this book, there is another sentence that is worth pondering: "Divorce is not a panacea, it cannot solve your own problems once and for all. If a person cannot grow from a failed marriage, then divorce It’s no use getting married a hundred times. Because it’s always us who made us reborn and become butterflies, not divorce.”

I hope Wu Qian has experienced this incident and can truly recognize herself The truth that marriage will not be happy, work hard on your career, as for men, go to hell.

For divorced women, career and children are the most important things.

Bless Wu Qian, she is not too late at 29 years old; as for Zhang Yujian, I don't bless and I don't look forward to it.

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Author: YIBAO; Emotional original author,Write the warm feelings of this world.