Two strangers become husband and wife and form a family. Can they depend on each other, learn from each other's strengths and offset their weaknesses, run the family well, create a loving and harmonious family tradition, run a prosperous family business, and run a strict charity? Good tutoring does require intensive work and careful care from every family member to live a good life, live in sunshine, live with fireworks, human touch and positive energy. It is necessary to develop good habits and cultivate good feng shui for living at home.
1. Cleanliness and tidiness are the best feng shui for a family, and the family living environment must have a good aura.
2. Home is a place for love, not reason, nor a major issue of principle. It really doesn’t matter who is right or wrong.
3. Housework cannot be done by one person. Active and tacit understanding of the division of housework can reduce many conflicts.
4. All the hard work is in vain without a healthy body. Regular physical examinations every year, early treatment if you are sick, and early prevention if you are not sick.
5. A simple meal is the best way to nourish your body, a kind talk and a pleasant look are the best way to nourish your family, and a cheerful face is the best way to nourish your heart.
6. There should be a detailed account of household income and expenditure. A solid economic foundation requires careful planning.
7. Everyone has their own little secrets. For example, it is reasonable and appropriate to save some private money.
8. White lies are also a spice in love life, as long as the starting point is for the family.
9. Every year, I take my family with me to travel around, enjoy a free and unrestrained life, and temporarily get rid of the hardship of daily necessities.
10. Don’t be too stubborn about some of your hobbies and don’t impose them on your family members.
11. Try not to bring work from work home, let alone emotions from outside. Bad emotions spread quickly and are very lethal.
12. Be sure to have a good relationship with your neighbors and take care of each other. "Distant relatives are not as good as near neighbors" is a true saying.
13. Keeping pets is your choice and hobby, but you must keep them in a civilized and disciplined manner and not cause inconvenience to others' lives.
14. Everyone must have their own unique skills in living at home, such as being good at cooking and organizing housework.
15. It should become the norm to always stock up on some necessary daily necessities. In particular, it is best to save water, electricity, heating, property, parking, etc. in advance to avoid being blinded when the time comes.
16. Cook and stir-fry less but better. You would rather not have enough than leave any leftovers. Not only is it a waste, the most terrible thing is that many diseases are caused by eating leftovers.
17. Clean up the things at home regularly, and decisively pack away or donate things that have not been used for a long time. This is also a kind act, and don’t overwhelm the space at home.
18. Remembering each other’s birthday expresses your feelings, which can make people feel more cordial and warm. Because many people forget their birthdays.
19. To run a small family well, you must not forget everyone, but also remember your hometown. Go home often to release and evacuate your homesickness.
20. You must learn and master some basic tinkering skills and tips, and be able to solve problems yourself. "It is better to ask for help than to ask for help yourself."
21. Eat less takeout, buy less from e-commerce, don’t be blind, don’t follow the trend, don’t be fashionable, don’t ride on the popularity.
23. "Spread your legs and keep your mouth shut" is respect for life, the best feedback to the body, and responsibility to the family.
24. Take good care of your family’s money bag and use the three-thirds method to manage your finances accordingly. That is, one-third of the savings should be deposited in bank deposits to ensure safety and emergencies. One-third buy financial products to get more income. One-third choose lower-risk funds that earn higher dividends. Of course, while being optimistic about the country's economic resilience, one must have the mentality and ability to bear risks.
25. Always remember: "There is no free lunch in the world" and "There is no pie in the sky." Stay alert to illegal fund-raising, high-interest loans, and the trap of making huge profits. If you are not careful, you will fall into it. In the pit, Zhu Lan failed to get water, and returned to the pre-liberation period overnight, regretting it beyond measure.
26. The cold war is the natural enemy of family harmony. If there is a conflict, it should be resolved in time. If there is harm, the loss should be stopped in time. If there is any estrangement, it should be eliminated in time. Don't let conflicts accumulate, let the harm ferment, and let the estrangement spill out.Really strong people in family life are cultivated through tolerance, patience, and endurance.
27. Speak well if you have something to say. It is taboo to use harsh words to hurt others. "A good word warms the winter for three months, but a bad word hurts a person for six months." "You can eat until you're full, but you can't finish your words." This is the truth.
28. Young couples stay with each other all the time, and couples in adversity are true love. Keeping the three treasures, "wife, old house, and old money", will make your later life more dignified and confident, and less entangled and embarrassing.
29. Don’t run away from home unless you have no choice but to feel disheartened. "The threshold for leaving is shallow, but the threshold for entering is deep." Reason, reason, and understanding will prevail at any time.
30. "Family scandals should not be publicized", "Every family has its own scriptures that are difficult to recite", "The speaker has no intention, but the listener has the intention". You should shoulder your own difficulties. Others have no responsibility or obligation to solve your problems. Moreover, "an honest official cannot stop the family affairs," and the interference of outsiders will only make things more chaotic.
Good Feng Shui in a family is a blessing for every family member in his life. Only by nourishing with heart and nurturing with affection can the life be prosperous and lasting forever!
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