What did Trial Marriage Gege in the Qing Dynasty do? Why do the ladies avoid it?

Z0z Marriage is the most sloppy thing in people's lives. The other half of the choice is to accompany the person in the latter half of their life. Choosing the right marriage partner is the primary guarantee for a happy life in the latter half of their life. Today, social civilization has been very developed, we can love freely and choose the marriage partner.

However, in ancient times, people got married mainly by the orders of their parents, so many people didn't know who they were getting married, and they didn't even see their significant other before they got married and entered the bridal chamber. In the imperial palace, it is difficult for a princess to decide her marriage. Usually, the emperor personally assigns a consort.

Picture: Princess stills

In feudal society, the royal family is definitely the top family in a country. People in the royal family have wealth that can't be enjoyed in their entire life, and they have power that ordinary people can't reach. People who are not royal will also work hard. Thought has a relationship with the royal family. Therefore, in ancient times, the royal princess didn't have to worry about finding a consort at all, because there were countless men squeezing their scalp into the palace and becoming the princess's lover.

In this way, the royal family’s selection criteria for the princesses will be very strict. In order to better select the princesses, a system called trial marriage appeared in the Qing imperial family. The maids in charge of the trial marriages must go to the princesses before they get married. At home, the "kung fu in bed" of the husband is examined, and then the emperor decides whether to let the princess marry him. This court lady is also called the trial marriage gege.

Trial marriage is indeed something that sounds very embarrassing. So what is the trial marriage system and how did it come about?

Picture: The princess and her husband marry stills

1. How did the trial marriage come about?

said above, the emperor must have extremely strict criteria for choosing a husband for his daughter. First of all, the family married to the royal family must be powerful and powerful. It can help the emperor consolidate power and bring benefits to the royal family. and princesses generally live in honey pots since they were young, and their eyesight is never low, so the prince who can enter the palace must be talented, tall and handsome.

Family conditions, talents, appearance and other aspects can be directly observed, but there are also some invisible conditions that are difficult to examine and need to be carefully distinguished by the emperor, such as the physical fitness of the quasi-counsel. Harmony in life is an important factor for a happy marriage. The marriage of a princess is not a simple political marriage. It also requires a normal married life.

Royal marriage is a very serious matter. Once you agree to the marriage, you can’t easily go back, so it’s normal for the emperor to think so thoroughly. In modern society, trial love before marriage has also become a hot topic on the Internet. Many couples live together before marriage is the process of trial marriage. However, in ancient times, certainly did not have premarital sex like it is now. How should the emperor check whether the quasi-cohort has a physical defect?

Picture: The princess entering the bridal chamber and the marrying horse stills

So the trial marriage is born. Trial marriage is an ordinary maid in the palace. When the emperor finds a good princess’s marriage partner, he will send the trial marriage to the court. The Ma family lived for a period of time.

Trial marriage is not randomly selected. The maid in the palace will pick a clever and well-behaved maid to perform the job. Trial marriage goes to the quasi-husband’s house and has sex with her. After the trial marriage work of is over, Gege will be taken back to the palace to report to the princess the various performances of the quasi-colonies as a judge of whether the princess can marry him.

From now on, the trial marriage system in the Qing Dynasty is amazing, even a bit "destroying the three views", but in the feudal dynasty, the trial marriage system is very necessary, which can avoid a lot of embarrassment for the royal family and guarantee the princess's happy.

Picture: Trial Marriage to Quasi-Private Marriage stills

2. Trial Marriage What is the outcome of trial marriage?

Some people may think that Trial Marriage Grid can help the princess in trial marriage, and her status and status will definitely be greatly improved in the future. In fact, this is not the case. Trial Marriage is not a job that palace ladies yearn for, but something that everyone avoids.

Trial Marriage is essentially a sexual tool of the royal family, and has no status at all. Trial marriage is not only seriously hurt, but also after trial marriageWill not get good treatment, under normal circumstances, trial marriage will have two endings. Picture of

: The ladies of the palace are waiting to be selected as the stills of Trial Grid

. Another ending is that Trial Grid's investigation of the cohort is not satisfactory, causing the princess to give up her marriage with the cohort. After this happened, the trial marriage Gege was very difficult. In order to comfort the cohort who had lost the chance of marriage, the royal family would usually leave the trial marriage Gege at the house of the concubine and serve as a concubine for the concubine.

You must know that marrying a princess is the lifelong dream of all the sons and brothers. It should be a matter of course, but because of the investigation of the trial marriage, you can imagine the attitude of the husband to the trial. There must be no good face to her. , So this kind of trial marriage ending will definitely have a bad life in the husband's house, and may even be severely beaten. It is difficult to guarantee whether he can live the rest of his life safely.

In addition to these two situations, there is a more special situation, that is, Trial Marriage Gege and Cuma get pregnant after trial marriage. Pregnancy and childbirth are a happy event, but for trial marriage Gege, even children Whether or not he can be allowed to be born has to be said otherwise, so the fate of Trial Marriage is usually tragic.

Picture: Trial Marriage Gege and the son's elder brother

The first ending is that after the trial marriage, the quasi-counsellor has excellent abilities, and the princess successfully married the quasi-council. After the trial marriage Grid completes the task, he may return to the palace and continue to live a boring life year after year, but this should be the best ending.

Under normal circumstances, Trial Marriage Gege will follow the cohort and become a servant girl by the cohort. Because the two have been a husband and wife, the trial marriage is equivalent to the concubine's concubine, but this type of concubine often has no right to speak, even lower than the status of ordinary maidservants.

Trial Marriage The reason why Gege is not seen in the husband’s house is mainly because the princess is jealous. After all, every normal woman does not want her husband to have sex with other women, so she will be very I hate trial marriages. Princesses are usually spoiled and have a bad temper. Therefore, they will naturally make things difficult for trial marriages in future life.

Picture: Becoming a servant girl by the side The ridiculous identity of Trial Marriage was also born. Z1z

Trial Marriage Gege is the person with the most miserable destiny. Not only can he not have the life he wants, he has to be "used" as a tool, and the ending after the trial marriage is often very unfortunate. Even the status of ordinary maids cannot keep up. People are sad and sympathetic.

author of the article: sub-Hao Jun

entire original graphic produced by the sub-Hao film and television production studio!

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