Han Emperor Gaozu Han Emperor 2The concubine of Liu Bang, the biological mother of Emperor Wen of Han, Liu Heng Han, Bo Ji , from Wu County, Kuaiji County (now Suzhou City, Jiangsu Province). Bo Ji married King Wei Wei Bao in his early years. Wei Bao was defeated by Han Xin and was captured. Later, Wei Bao was killed by Zhou Ke due to his capriciousness. After Wei Bao's death, Bo Ji was sent to the weaving workshop in the palace. Once when Liu Bang came to the weaving workshop, he saw that Bo Ji was quite beautiful, so he included him in the harem.
Bo Ji has been in the palace for more than a year, but because she is not favored, she has never received the blessing of Liu Bang. Later, Liu Bang felt that Bo had treated Bo Ji, so he felt pity. One day, Liu Bang summoned Bo Ji and had sex with her. Bo Ji said to Liu Bang sweetly, "Last night, I dreamed of a dragon lying on my stomach." Liu Bang was very happy when he heard this, so he said to Bo Ji, "This is a good omen for being a noble person. I will make this good thing for you."
Liu Bang and Bo Ji
After this time, Bo Ji became pregnant. In the fifth year of Emperor Gaozu of Han Dynasty (202 BC), he gave birth to his son, Liu Heng, the King of Dai. Since Bo Ji gave birth to Liu Heng, she has rarely had the chance to see Emperor Gaozu of Han again.
In the 12th year of Emperor Gaozu of Han (195 BC), Emperor Gaozu of Han Liu Bang died. After Liu Bang's death, those concubines who were favored by Emperor Gaozu of Han, such as Concubine Qi, were imprisoned by Empress Lu, unable to leave the palace and tortured. When Emperor Gaozu of Han was alive, Bo Ji was not favored by Liu Bang, so he was able to leave the palace and follow his son Liu Heng to his fiefdom Dai Kingdom, and respect him as the Empress Dowager Dai.
In 180 BC, Empress Lü died of illness. After Empress Lü passed away, the ministers discussed supporting the succession of the emperor. Everyone hated the powerful, arrogant and domineering relatives of the outside world, and praised the kindness of the king of Dai Liu Heng. So Zhu Xuhou Liu Zhang , Prime Minister Chen Ping , Taiwei Zhou Bo and others joined forces to kill the kings of the Lü family, and welcomed the Dai king Liu Heng ascended the throne as emperor, namely Emperor Wen of Han, and Bo Jizun was the empress dowager.
In today's utilitarian society, each of us faces more and more temptations. Because of the mentality of eagerness for quick success and instant benefits, people's hearts become more and more impetuous. The quiet working environment can no longer let go of an restless heart. There are many people who are ambitious and have low expectations. I wish I could wake up overnight and become a rich man.
eager for quick success and instant benefits
Tang Taizong Li Shimin said: " Using copper as a mirror can correct clothes and hats; using history as a mirror can know rise and fall; using people as a mirror can understand gains and losses ." It means: using copper as a mirror can correct clothes and hats; using history as a mirror can understand the reasons for the rise and fall of all dynasties; using others as your own mirror can discover your right and wrong and gains and losses.
For today's working people, if they want to do something big and make a difference, what should they learn from Bo Ji? People who can truly become great and do great things often know how to be patient and calm.
▍1. The meaning of "sustaining your energy"
" can calm your energy " has two meanings, referring to a person's spiritual realm and excellent qualities when encountering the following two situations:
1. When encountering difficulties, setbacks or emergencies, he can remain calm and will not be confused;
2. When encountering misunderstandings, When you are unfairly treated or frustrated in life, you know how to tolerate it, be able to handle it calmly, be in a stable mood, be impatient or impatient;
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▍ 2. Typical characteristics of calm
1. Be low-key and good at protecting yourself
When Bo Ji was young, under the education of her mother Wei Ma, she was gentle and formed a cautious and cautious style of doing things. After she deeply felt the cruelty of the palace struggle, she devoted herself to studying the "Tao Te Ching" and appreciated the essence of the thought of Taoist " Pure and Inaction ".
Under Bo Ji's careful guidance, Liu Heng restrained his edge, tolerated and low-key, making people seem to have no intention of competing with other princes for the right to inherit the throne.Liu Heng chose to go to the remote and desolate Dai Kingdom to be the King of Dai, so as to eliminate the wariness of Lu Zhi, escaped Lu Zhi's persecution, and saved his life.
Lu Zhi is cruel and ruthless, and has always treated Liu Bang's favorite concubines with cruel means. The reason why Bo Ji was able to escape from Lu Zhi's claws was not because Lu Zhi was kind-hearted, but because Bo Ji's attitude of keeping a low profile and " without desires and no struggles " did not pose a threat to Lu Zhi's power and status. However, Concubine Qi, who was favored by Emperor Gaozu of Han, was regarded as a major concern by Lu Zhi. Concubine Qi was made into a terrible " person hound " by Lu Zhi.
Lu Zhi's film and television image
In the workplace, some talented and outstanding employees think they are great, look down on their leaders, show their ambitions and show their sharpness, which arouses suspicion, exclusion and suppression of their leaders, making them have no place to stand and have to leave in shame.
2. People who can endure loneliness and accumulate strength in suffering
. The purpose of being patient and being calm is not to live in vain or to give up, but to wait for opportunities and accumulate strength to realize their ambitions.
After Liu Heng was appointed as the king, Bo Ji followed Liu Heng to the fiefdom Daiguo . Liu Heng was very wise and had a calm and calm personality, gentle and kindness. In the more than ten years of the generation of the country, he praised the Taoist thought of " to govern " in , vigorously developed agricultural production, reduced taxes, reduced labor and military service, and allowed the people to recuperate and live and work in peace and contentment.
When ordinary people encounter setbacks, frustrations, and fall into a low point in their lives, they often lose their fighting spirit and become depressed because they feel that their future is bleak. People who are unwilling to be mediocre and able to do great things are optimistic and open-minded. They regard pain and adversity as God's training for themselves, and in a lonely situation where no one cares about it, they reflect on themselves, accumulate strength, and watch over changes. Once the opportunity comes, they will take action like " to escape the rabbit " to seize the initiative.
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3. Stable emotions, strictly prevent disasters from coming out of your mouth
Those who can eventually become winners in life have a calm personality and are well aware of the practical significance of " silence is golden ". They are calm when encountering problems, and they will not be influenced by their own emotions when dealing with problems and conflicts. They can suppress negative emotions such as complaining, irritability, anxiety, etc., and will not say excessive words or do things that intensify conflicts, so it is difficult for others to pull their pigtails.
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