Lin Huiyin is simply a perfect woman in the Republic of China period. She was born in a famous family. Her father tried his best to support her daughter's pace of study and study, and also spent a lot of money to send her daughter to study abroad. This was a rare thing in that society at that time. After returning from school, Lin Huiyin married Liang Sicheng , so the couple started the road of searching for architecture together. This marriage with the same three views also benefited Lin Huiyin a lot, and she was portrayed as a more charming person.
But the better the person, the more criticism he will encounter. She has more or less conflicts with many celebrities in society, such as female writer Bing Xin , and big writer Qian Zhongshu . Qian Zhongshu had a conflict with Lin Huiyin because of the cat at home, and he had always been unable to stand Lin Huiyin's pretty bold social style, and even repeatedly thought that the other party was a very chaotic woman in terms of relationships.
He wrote about Lin Huiyin's fickleness in one sentence in his work, and for this even attracted his wife to come to the door to apologize in person. What is Lin Huiyin's attitude towards Qian Zhongshu's description? Is she really as unpredictable as people say? Let’s take a look at Lin Huiyin in the eyes of different people.
Woman's living room , social occasions
may be because Lin Huiyin's personality has always been very generous and open. In our society today, it is a commendable thing for girls to have such a cheerful personality. However, although people have already had a certain degree of ideological liberation in the Republic of China, backward thoughts still affect people's lives in the corners, so such a personality cannot be accepted by everyone.
However, as a great and wise woman, Lin Huiyin will not take the evaluation of her by irrelevant people seriously. After marrying Liang Sicheng, she did not take the initiative to give up her social circle because she wanted to return to her family. She also has her own independent career and personal connections, and does not intend to cut off her.
Liang Sicheng very well understands his wife's personality and behavior. Or he already knew Lin Huiyin well before getting married, and also appreciated Lin Huiyin's independent and free soul . So when he learned that his wife was going to hold a wife's living room and various parties at home, he did not object. He is not suitable to be a central figure in these parties because he is more restrained, so he will propose to withdraw early.
No one in their own husband is unwilling to do so, but some bystanders feel unhappy for them. For example, Bing Xin, she satirized Lin Huiyin in the article " Our Lady's Living Room ". She believed that Lin Huiyin's actions did not conform to the traditional virtues of women, and even refused to give her husband face in public, Liang Sicheng must be very depressed.
Although some people agreed with Bing Xin's words in the early years, as people continued to understand Lin Hui's personality charm, more and more people mocked Bing Xin. It is hard to say that Bing Xin is not so slandering Lin Huiyin in the article because of jealousy.
Because of a cat, describes the flower-heartedness
Among the literati at that time, in addition to Bing Xin, there was another person who particularly hated Lin Huiyin, and this person was Qian Zhongshu. Unexpectedly, these two people who seem to be incompatible with each other have a long-standing relationship.
At that time, Liang Sicheng and Qian Zhongshu were neighbors, so they could not tell each other's lifestyle clearly, but they were very familiar with each other. Qian Zhongshu has always been disgusted with Lin Huiyin's practice of holding parties at home , especially since there are many male social celebrities in this party, which makes him even more sneer.
For people like Qian Zhongshu who have a slight social phobia, being stuck at home all day long and not socializing with others is the most comfortable state for him, so he completely cannot understand why Lin Huiyin did this. But we have to say that Qian Zhongshu's disgust is actually a bit cautious. Everyone has their own lifestyle, and they should not give guidance on other people’s lifestyles because of their own preferences or dislikes.
This is not the most important thing. The most important thing about is that the cats of the two families actually hit the . Qian Zhongshu loves his cat the most. When he learned that the cat was bullied by Lin Huiyin's cat, he couldn't let go of his anger. How should literati use to retaliate against the enemy? That is naturally writing an article.
So Qian Zhongshu was very sarcastic about Lin Huiyin in his article "Cat". On the surface, Qian Zhongshu is writing about how annoying cats are, but in fact he is just accusing Lin Huiyin.
has a sentence in it, probably saying this: is the most beautiful, cheerful, and even the most socially-oriented, and her husband is also the most silent and restrained, the most untrue thing. The sentence is saying that Lin Huiyin is very fickle and wanders between different men every day. Liang Sicheng is watching from the side, and it won’t even get in the way. This statement is too much, so Mr. Yang Jiang and also took the initiative to apologize for her husband's mistakes.
No matter what, a man should not use the words he wrote to do such humiliating behavior to another woman. Social behavior may not be understood by everyone, but it should not be misunderstood by people as fickle.
Make friends with celebrities and improve yourself
The reason why Qian Zhongshu and Lin Huiyin have this conflict is ultimately because the two people have different ways of thinking. Although both of them received Western education, Lin Huiyin was truly influenced by advanced Western ideas, while Qian Zhongshu still retained some of the dregs of traditional ideas in his mind.
As a woman, Lin Huiyin doesn’t feel that she is much worse than those men. Men can make friends with celebrities and broaden their social circles. Why can’t women? , especially Lin Huiyin, also has social talent and is good at dancing. Of course, she has to use this advantage to constantly meet excellent people and improve herself.
One-sided understanding of this social ability as fickle, or even a more disgusting word, debauchery. This statement really makes people disagree. Since we want to liberate our minds, women should first be liberated from oppressed thoughts.
Conclusion
Lin Huiyin is really a very dazzling person. She has always stood in the central circle of people talking about. Her splendor is still remembered by many people even after so many years.
What she embodies is the independence and freedom that women need most. Women should not be defeated by rumors. At any time, we must see what we want most.
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