Text / Ziyu
A man's career is largely built by women at home, including his mother and his wife.
During the Chu-Han battle, Liu Bang led countless Han soldiers to fight bloody battles in front, but a group of people were fighting another war without gunpowder in an invisible place. This war was even more fierce than the battle ahead and tested a person's will.
pair, it was the families of the Han army soldiers who were arrested by Xiang Yu and took hostage after Liu Bang suffered the defeat in Pengcheng . They were in a dark prison, and what they had to endure was not only physical torture, but also mental torture.
But what is certain is that as long as they do not surrender to Xiang Yu for a day, Liu Bang's team will continue to fight with Xiang Yu's group to the end with the fullest fighting spirit.
Yes, everyone is fighting.
Fortunately, these people took Luhou as the center and stood firm until Xiang Yu took the initiative to let them go back after the Chu-Han Honggou peace talks. They are stumbling along the way, fighting desperately every moment.
Historical records show that at that moment, the Han army camp was completely boiling, and the voice of "Long Live" resounded throughout the sky.
Yes, the Han army soldiers defeated Xiang Yu in the front, and at the same time, their families also won another war in the rear.
This is a group of people who are not seen by the public, but their stories have to be mentioned. The most representative one is the story of Wang Ling mother -
When Liu Bang came out from east to attack Xiang Yu and the Western Chu State, Wang Ling joined Liu Bang's team with thousands of people in his hands as the original shares.
▲Liu Bang TV series "The Legend of Chu and Han"/stills
Like many families of Han soldiers, Wang Ling's mother was also captured by Xiang Yu and served as a hostage.
But Wang Ling's situation is quite special. He is a rich man in Pei County. Before Liu Bang started his business, he was the eldest brother of Liu Bang in the world. After Liu Bang started his business, Wang Ling refused to submit when Pei County elites joined Liu Bang's team one after another.
Perhaps, in Wang Ling's heart, he looked down on Liu Bang at all. Now that he joins his team, he only makes a choice when his living space is constantly squeezed and has no choice.
Therefore, Xiang Yu felt that Wang Ling would definitely have the possibility of fighting for it.
When Wang Ling sent an envoy to negotiate with Xiang Yu, Xiang Yu deliberately let Wang Ling's mother sit in the main seat. The purpose is just to ask the envoy to go back and tell Wang Ling about the scene he saw to shake Wang Ling's mind.
, given the special situation of Wang Ling, as long as Xiang Yu insists so, Wang Ling may be fought over by him.
But Wang Ling's mother cried a mess when she bid farewell to the messenger. She said to the messenger:
"Go back and tell Wang Ling and let him follow Pei Gong do it well -
Pei Gong is an elder, Wang Ling follows him, I don't worry."
After saying that, he pulled out the sword from the messenger and committed suicide decisively.
Yes, she just wants to relieve her son's psychological burden in such a heroic way, so that he will not be in the Han camp and be in the Chu, so that his son can go into battle lightly in the Liubang Group.
Xiang Yu was completely angry by Wang Ling's mother's behavior. He immediately made a violent move and placed Wang Ling's mother's body in a steaming pot for cooking.
Yes, Xiang Yu's cruelty is fully reflected in this incident.
▲Xiang Yu Movie "Hongmen Banquet"/ Stills
I believe that when this story spreads, the combat effectiveness of the Han army soldiers will definitely be more motivated under the influence of spiritual power; those families who are hostages in Chu Camp will continue to stand up in the dark prison under the support of this story.
Sometimes, the spiritual level gives people more power than material . Or, some stories can also become collective beliefs of a group.
In the end, the Han army completely won the victory against Xiang Yu. I believe that Wang Ling’s mother’s story is also one of the important factors that inspire everyone to fight for the enemy.
In this story, we see the heroic spirit of Wang Ling’s mother, but the author also sees wisdom behind her heroic behavior.
As a mother, what she cares about is actually very pure, nothing more than her son's safety and future.
At that time, only the elites like Han Xin and Chen Ping could have a clear and comprehensive understanding of Xiang Yu's behavior and concluded that Xiang Yu would lose.
, while Wang Ling's mother, a woman, also sentenced Xiang Yu's future to "sincere": Xiang Yu can't do anything, and the winner will definitely be Pei Gong Liu Bang .
This is amazing.
From this we can see that Queen Mother is definitely not a simple character. She must have very clever logical analysis skills when she can judge Xiang Yu's ending at the peak of her life.
The reason why Wang Ling was later respected by the Han army was to stand in the first echelon of the heroic school with a respected label, one was his identity before his debut, and the other was his mother's story. When Empress Lü was in power, Wang Ling even became the prime minister of the Han Empire.
It can be said that Wang Ling's future is also determined by his mother .
Yes, A mother can influence three generations of . There is another mother in the Chu and Han Dynasty who is definitely a wise man -
Under the violent burning of the flames of the uprising at the end of the Qin Dynasty, the young man in Dongyang County also killed the county magistrate and jointly elected the county magistrate's former subordinate, Chen Ying, as their leader.
Chen Ying is a cautious person, very loyal, and proficient in management, law, and military affairs. He is the most suitable candidate.
is over, and everyone wants to jointly recommend Chen Ying as king and build a special force.
Ha, it seems that this is a group of people with ideals.
Chen Ying was actually hesitant at that time, and his heart was swaying. To be honest, for a man, the title of king will definitely make him tempted.
But this is a troubled time, and you will finish it if you are not careful.
Chen Ying's mother helped her son choose the first time -
"Since I married into your family, I have never heard of any noble people from your family's ancestors. Now, you are suddenly pushed to the front desk by everyone, which is not a good thing."
"Otherwise, you should choose a promising person to lean on it. If things are done, you can still be named a marquis. If you lose, you are not the leader and will not be overly investigated."
is indeed a smart mother.
Chen Ying listened to his mother's words, and then joined the Xiangliang team with the 20,000 people in his hands as capital. After Xiang Liang established the grandson of King Huai of Chu Xiong Xin as the King of Chu, Chen Ying has always been a core member of the King of Chu team and served as the post of the Shangzhuguo .
After Xiong Xin was killed by Xiang Yu, Chen Ying became a member of Xiang Yu's Western Chu State.In the fifth year of the Han Dynasty, after Xiang Yu was defeated at Gaixia, Chen Ying also surrendered to the Han Dynasty, and pacified the military achievements of establishing himself as king in the area of Yuzhang and Zhejiang in December of the sixth year of the Han Dynasty, Liu Bang was named the marquis of Tangyi and Hou, with a fief of 600 households.
Later, because he became the prime minister of King Yuan of Chu, Chen Ying's fiefdom was increased to 1,800 households.
is OK.
But to be honest, if Chen Ying listened to his subordinates' persuasion, he would probably not have avoided Xiang Liang's fate and was as focused as annihilation by the Qin army.
▲Xiang Liang TV series "The Legend of Chu and Han"/stills
Chen Ying, a person who has been living in the elite group for many years, does not have a clear understanding of himself and the situation at that time, and is not as clear as his mother and long-term. How to say
? The first thing about Chen Ying’s mother is calmness. She did not float in the face of wealth that was within reach, but made a rational analysis first. Most importantly, she had a clear understanding of her son and the people under her, and was not a person who did big things at all. The best solution for
is of course to find a big tree to lean on.
We don’t know if she understood the development laws of the situation at that time. In this regard, it was already amazing.
Therefore, Chen Ying was able to spend his life smoothly and gained a certain social status and wealth, which is closely related to his mother.
So, men still have to marry a good wife, because it is not only related to your future, but also deeply bound to the fate of the next generation.
encourage it!
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