At noon a few days ago, I saw the colleague on the other side groaning and frowning. Under curiosity, I asked him what difficulties he encountered. My colleague told me that someone borrowed money from him. I can’t help but smile. It’s impossible for everyone to encounter such things as adults, but borrowing money depends on the distance and the amount of money borrowed. If the relationship is very close and you don't have much money to borrow, it doesn't hurt to borrow him. If you really don't want to, it's no big deal to tell the other party directly, why bother frowning. My colleague said that it was because the person who borrowed the money was a bit special that he didn't know how to deal with it. After his description, I realized that the person who borrowed money from him was actually his child's elementary school teacher.
's colleague’s child is studying in an elementary school near his community. Usually, his colleague pays more attention to the relationship with the teacher, and both get along very well. During the holidays, he often takes the child to the teacher’s house. The original intention of this is nothing more than to hope that the teacher can pay more attention and take care of their children. Unexpectedly, this time the teacher would even ask him to borrow money, and everything was 20,000, which made him a little at a loss.
He thinks that it is the relationship between parents and teachers after all. This relationship cannot be said to be very close. Borrowing 20,000 yuan is a bit too much, but he is worried if he does not lend to the teacher, will he lose it? If he offends him, he will not. What negative effects will it have on your children? That's why he feels really hard to choose.
He tried to ask a few other parents to find out what he said, but he did not expect that other parents said that they had not received any information from the teacher. He asked the teacher why he borrowed money. The teacher told him that because his father was sick and he was in urgent need of money in the hospital, he wanted to ask him for help and should be emergency. This made my colleague even more embarrassed. It seems that the teacher really regards himself as a friend, so he opened his mouth to talk with himself instead of opening his mouth to other parents. And the teacher is not just borrowing money, but there is something urgent at home, is it possible that you can die? As a result, under the double torment of relationship and conscience, my colleagues have become more embarrassed.
I thought for a while and gave my colleagues an idea. I said I’m afraid you can’t borrow this money unless you really think that the teacher is important to you, and you also plan to stop asking for the 20,000 yuan after borrowing it. . Otherwise, don't borrow it. My colleague asked why, I gave him an analysis. Teacher
doesn't know that the relationship between parents and teachers is actually not so close. He has already asked to borrow money from you. It has shown that he has already borrowed all the places he can borrow, and he can only borrow from you. It is conceivable from this that he is also burdened with huge debts. It may be impossible to repay the money for a while, and you, as the parent of his students, may not be embarrassed to open your mouth and ask for money.
In addition, no matter what kind of difficulties your family encounters, you should not give money to your parents. It is impossible to justify public or private. From this it can be seen that this teacher is either in a hurry, or there is still a problem with his character. Such a person cannot be borrowed, and it is suggested that he can ask the school to report the problem. If you are worried that your children will be negatively affected by not lending money to teachers, you can ask the school to adjust your children to a class. Facing the problem, we must actively solve it. If you blindly tolerate the rape, I am afraid that not only yourself but also the children will be injured in the end.
Frankly speaking, the parents are ill and go to the doctor in a hurry. Although they borrow money from the parents and do not repay them, they are indeed forgiven. However, you must pay attention to methods and methods in everything, and you cannot ignore the public order and morality of the society because you are anxious, and ignore your duty as a teacher. In modern society, it is believed that there is still a way to lend a portion of the money as long as it is willing. If you are really desperate, you can also raise funds in the form of social donations. This behavior of borrowing money from parents is obviously taking advantage of their unequal social relationships. If the circumstances are serious, it may even involve duty crime. The "Code of Professional Ethics for Primary and Secondary School Teachers" clearly stipulates that teachers are prohibited from taking advantage of their positions for personal gain. Teachers in
tend to have a high degree of social attention due to their professional specialties, and a little behavioral flaw may be magnified, causing damage to the image of the entire group. In particular, some young teachers today are less influenced by traditional teacher ethics education, and are more tempted by economic benefits. They may cause improper behavior in certain behaviors. Schools should find out and correct them in time, and don’t cause them. Only when the catastrophe began to shirk responsibility, the construction of teacher ethics remained on the surface.
maybeIt's easy to talk about, but the matter is really up to my own head, I am afraid it is not so easy to choose. If your child’s teacher asks you for property or asks for help, how do you choose?
