Some people say, oh, can eunuchs still have wives? Of course, eunuchs can also have families. During the Tang Dynasty , eunuchs could not only marry wives, but also have three or four concubines. The great eunuchs of the Qing Dynasty could not only have sex in the palace, but also marry wives outside the palace, such as Ande Hai, Li Lianying, all had their own wives outside the palace. Moreover, eunuchs are just like ordinary people, giving wedding gifts, getting married, and visiting the court, except that they cannot consummate the marriage. Just like ordinary people get married, eunuchs get married just like that. But not all eunuchs' marriages are so ceremonial. Like those young eunuchs who have no money, power or power, they can only find a maid in the palace to comfort each other spiritually. Eunuchs don't have to have a certain wife to marry. They just see that others have families and want to have one themselves. To put it bluntly, they just want to live together. There are also eunuchs who marry for power. For example, Qiu Shiliang's wife was named the wife of the state of Lu, and Wei Zhongxian's wife was the wet nurse of Zhu Youxiao. The two of them controlled the government together, but there were too few like this. But no matter what, if an ordinary woman marries a eunuch as a wife, she still has to endure too much suffering, and she must be adequately prepared both physically and mentally.
