She is one of the four beauties in the Republic of China.
She is the number one socialite in Beijing.
is the wife of a talented man in the Republic of China and the crescent poet Xu Zhimo .
is also the " Beijing city " that is the words " Beijing city "
She is Lu Xiaoman .
Her life was controversial. Many people admire her very much, but at the same time they constantly slander and insult her.
Lu Xiaoman was born in a wealthy family in Shanghai in 1903. His father was a juren from Qing Dynasty and was also one of the founders of the later China Savings Bank. His mother was born in a famous family in Jiangnan .
Moreover, she is the only daughter in the family, and she is loved by all the people when she is born.
And Lu Xiaoman also inherited the advantages of his parents, both dignified and elegant in the north and cute in the south of the Yangtze River.
Lu Xiaoman has lived in Beijing with her parents since she was 3 years old.
Primary School is enrolled in the Affiliated Primary School of Beijing Women's Normal University. Later, he entered Beijing Shengxin Academy to study. She also specially hired a British female teacher to teach English for her.
Therefore, 16-year-old Lu Xiaoman is already proficient in English and French languages, and is also good at piano and painting. She is an absolute talent. Therefore, the students in the school call her campus queen .
17 years old, she served as the interpreter and foreign envoy of the Ministry of Foreign Affairs of the Beiyang Government. She is not only gorgeous, but also has a very high emotional intelligence.
Once a French general visited China and inspected the Chinese guard of honor, he found that the movements of the queue were very uneven, so he said with a ridiculous sneer: " Your Chinese training methods may be different from those of the world, and their postures are strange,"
. Lu Xiaoman, who was a translator, responded wisely: "In fact, it's no different, but when you see a hero like you, you can't help but feel excited, so your movements are a little messed up."
Lu Xiaoman's high emotional intelligence answer not only raised the general, but also made the country lose face.
1922, under the arrangement of his parents, 19-year-old Lu Xiaoman married Wang Geng .
Wang Geng , was born in a family of officials with a decline in family. Therefore, he has been very sensible since childhood and studied hard. He is a soldier, very cautious and serious person, but he is also a complete straight man.
When a straight man and a talented woman in steel meet, there will naturally be no sparks.
Wang Geng cannot accompany Lu Xiaoman to the romance under the moon. This gave Xu Zhimo the passionate and romantic talent.
are both poetic and picturesque, The literary youth who feel sad about spring and autumn are out of control as soon as they come into contact. The whole city of Beijing is spreading news about cheating between a married woman and a talented man who abandons his wife and a child.
Therefore, the three-year marriage between Lu Xiaoman and Wang Geng ended like this.
Immediately afterwards, she married Xu Zhimo.
This also began her other infamous life.
In fact, from the first sight of them, they were attracted by each other, and in the poetry and songs, the two of them completely fell in love with each other.
Xu Zhimo once said: My willingness to betray the world is to seek the settlement of conscience and independence of personality; to visit my soul's companion in the vast sea of people; to get it, I am lucky; not to get it, I will live; that's all!
But after getting married, the romantic passion of the love period began to return to the food, rice, oil and salt in life. Somehow, after marriage, Lu Xiaoman seemed to have completely changed, lingering in the dance hall all day long, or watching operas and playing cards.
Moreover, Lu Xiaoman has become accustomed to spending a lot of money since childhood, which makes Xu Zhimo busy for his livelihood.
Lu Xiaoman has been weak and sick since childhood, and his work and rest are irregular, so his physical condition is extremely poor.
In order to treat Lu Xiaoman, Xu Zhimo sought medical treatment everywhere.
At this time, he met Weng Ruiwu . Weng Ruiwu used traditional Chinese medicine massage to relieve Lu Xiaoman's pain,
even used opium methods to further relieve it. Lu Xiaoman became addicted to opium since then, which is undoubtedly another huge expense.
This also made Lu Xiaoman get closer and closer to Weng Ruiwu.
In order to meet Lu Xiaoman's expenses, Xu Zhimo taught in many schools in Beijing and Shanghai, and the rest of his time was spent writing articles and poetry. He even started working as a real estate agency and tried his best to make money.
1931 One day, the two had a fierce quarrel. Lu Xiaoman threw the cigarette pole at Xu Zhimo, so Xu Zhimo slammed the door and flew to Beijing the next day.
But there are unexpected situations in the world. I will never know which one will come first tomorrow or an accident. Xu Zhimo’s plane crashed.
This year, Lu Xiaoman was 28 years old and Xu Zhimo was 34 years old. Lu Xiaoman completely lost Xu Zhimo who made money for him.
After that, Lu Xiaoman could not let go for a long time and was despised by people for a long time. Xu Zhimo's family, friends and followers all believed that Lu Xiaoman killed Xu Zhimo. She was not even allowed to attend the funeral, which made her even more sad.
After Xu Zhimo passed away, Lu Xiaoman, who was weak and sick and had any financial resources, lived with Weng Ruiwu until Weng Ruiwu passed away.
or even Lu Xiaoman doesn’t drink milk, but only drinks human milk. Weng Ruiwu specially hired a nurse for her.
However, Xu Zhimo's death finally awakened Lu Xiaoman. She made up her mind to do a serious career. He began to study painting carefully and studied under famous artists such as Liu Haisu, Chen Banding, , He Tianjian, , and
also held a solo painting exhibition. And entered Shanghai Chinese Academy of Painting .
The former talented woman is back.
1965, 62-year-old Lu Xiaoman passed away. This "scenery of Beijing" ended her controversial life alone.
Her only wish before her death was to be buried with her husband Xu Zhimo after her death, but this was strongly opposed by the descendants of the Xu family and has not yet been realized.
She had no children in her entire life, so her ashes were discarded because they were unclaimed. Many years later, her nephew established an empty tomb for her as a memorial.
Lu Xiaoman got Xu Zhimo's love, but did not cherish it. It was not until Xu Zhimo passed away that he regretted it, but it was too late.
You must learn to cherish the people around you so that you will not leave any regrets...
