When people are embarrassed, they always blush, lose their responsibilities at a loss, feel regretful, and are always ashamed of the past. At this time, if someone gives a step, follow the escalator, take the slope and go down the donkey, relieve the embarrassment from tacit understanding, turn the embarrassment from invisible, and cultivate the mirror to reunion, wouldn’t it be good?
2700 years ago, such a sad story happened in China's history. The story begins with hatred between momentum and water and fire, and ends with a happy reunion. The mother and son meet each other and let go of their past grudges.
This story took place in 722 BC and was recorded in an article " Zheng Boke Duan in Yan ". "Zheng Boke Duan Yuyan" is the opening work of the first chronicle historical book in China, "Zuo Zhuan", and is also listed on the homepage of the exhibition volume of the Chinese classical Chinese literature selection "Gu Wen Guanzhi".
The Zheng Bo in the article is one of the countries of the Eastern Zhou Dynasty
The title of the article is translated, which is: Duke Zhuang of Zheng defeated Gongshu Duan in Yan (now Yanling, Henan).
When Zheng Zhuanggong was born, he had a difficult labor, which made his mother Wu Jiang frightened and suffered a serious crime. Therefore, Wu Jiang extremely hates this eldest son who brought him pain, and hates him to his bones and named his son 期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期期"未" is all fake in "英" and means against your will. The heart-wrenching pain made her think that this son was a monster and disobedient who should not have come to the world, and almost called him a beast.
As the saying goes, mother and son have deep affection, and the palms and backs of hands are flesh, but Wu Jiang does not think so. She truly hates the life that brings strong pain to herself, and gives all her maternal love to her younger son Duan.
Perhaps it was when the youngest son Duan was born, Wu Jiang gave birth smoothly. When he grew up, Kong Wu was handsome and handsome, which made her fully appreciate the happiness and comfort of being a mother. Therefore, she particularly favored her younger son. She actually exceeded the rules and repeatedly proposed to her husband, , Zheng Wugong, to make her younger son Duan the crown prince, and to deprive her eldest son of the king of the throne. However, her proposal was repeatedly rejected by her husband.
After Duke Zhuang ascended the throne, Wu Jiang asked Huang Sheng to enfeoff the Jianyi (now Hulao in the northwest of Xingyang, Henan) to his youngest son. Duke Zhuang refused and said, "Correction of the country is a dangerous place. Once upon a time, , Guo Shu died in that place. If you ask to enfeoff your younger brother to another place, I will do it as I will." Wu Jiang also requested that his younger son be enfeoffed to Jingyi (now southeast of Xingyang, Henan). Duke Zhuang agreed and called his younger brother Duan the Taishu in Jingyi.
Under the protection and indulgence of his mother Wu Jiang, Taishu Duan did not know that the world was high and the earth was strong. He built a large-scale construction and expanded the capital. The city wall built alone grew more than a hundred pheasants (about 300 meters today). The doctor Ji Zhong advised Duke Zhuang, "The previous kings have laws. The largest cities in the country cannot exceed one-third of the capital, the medium-sized ones cannot exceed one-fifth, and the smallest ones cannot exceed one-nineth. Now, the city walls of the capital are no longer legal, which is an ominous sign for you!" In response, Duke Zhuang of Zheng said helplessly: "If Jiang wants to do this, how can I avoid this disaster?"
Ji Zhong advised again He said, "How can Jiang's time to be satisfied? You must eradicate the root of disaster as soon as possible and never let it spread. Once the weeds spread, it will be difficult to remove them. What's more, he is your favored younger brother?" Duke Zhuang said calmly, "If you do more evil, you will die. Let's wait and see."
Not long after, Tai Shu Duan instigated the Bianyi in the west and north to betray Zheng State and turn to him. Prince Lu quickly came to Duke Zhuang and said, "There is no second master in the country, what are you going to do? If you plan to hand over Zheng State to Uncle Tai, then I will serve him; if you don't give it, please get rid of him quickly to avoid people's hearts from floating and dreams are long and there are many dreams." Duke Zhuang said coldly, "Don't care about him for now, he will be in trouble."
Seeing that Duke Zhuang had no movement to his misconduct, Uncle Tai took over all the border areas of Zheng State, which were both sides of the capital and the country were for his own possession. Prince Lu came to Duke Zhuang again and said, "It's time to act! His territory is getting bigger and bigger, and he is afraid he will abduct the people's hearts."Duke Zhuang still said slowly: "He is unrighteous to the monarch and is not close to his brother. No matter how big the territory is, he will collapse. "
In this way, Tai Shu in the capital became more and more unscrupulous and blatantly gathered people to build a city, prepare for war, and prepare for the attack on the capital of Zheng with Wu Jiang as the internal support. After obtaining accurate information, Duke Zhuang issued an attack order and ordered Zifeng to lead 200 chariots to attack Tai Shu in Jingyi.
Faced with the rumbling chariots, the people in Jingyi who were already unable to bear the exploitation and oppression of Tai Shu Duan turned against each other, and Tai Shu Duan, who had lost the support of the people, was in a hurry Escaped to Yandi. Duke Zhuang's chariot pursued him relentlessly and conquered him to Yandi. In the end, Tai Shu Duan threw away his armor and armor in Yandi, and fled to . The Tai Shu Duan, who had saved his life, became Gong Shu Duan.
After drawing his sword and drawing his sword, Duke Zhuang not only drove away his brother who was planning to be ill-inducing, but also no longer tolerated his mother. He moved Wu Jiang out of the capital and drove to Chengying, and sweared with gritted teeth: "I am not as good as the Yellow Spring, and I have no meeting! "The implication is that in my lifetime, I no longer want to recognize this mother who wants to kill me.
However, soon after, Duke Zhuang regretted: Even if Wu Jiang ignored the mother and son's affection and was devoted to living in death, he should not move his mother to the border area far away from the capital!
was heartbroken by Duke Zhuang of Zheng. Yinggu, who was guarding the border for Zheng State, heard about this and took the opportunity of giving tribute to see Duke Zhuang. During the meal, Duke Yingkao put the meat rewarded by Duke Zhuang aside and was reluctant to eat it.
Duke Zhuang asked him why this was like this. Uncle Yingkao replied, "The villain has an old lady. She has tasted all the food I have eaten, and she has never tasted the meat soup eaten by the king. Please allow me to take it back and give it to her for food. "
Hearing this, Duke Zhuang sighed and said, "Oh! You still have me to respect, but I don’t! "Uncle Ying Kao struck while the iron was hot and asked, "What's wrong with you?" "Duke Zhuang told him all the regretful and anxious mood.
Ying Kao Shu then calmly comforted him: "You don't have to blame yourself. Isn’t Huangquan underground? This is easy to deal with. Just dig an authentic tunnel. When you can see the water, you mother and son will meet in the authentic tunnel. Who would say that you have violated your former oath? "
Duke Zhuang praised this good idea repeatedly, so he followed the plan and immediately ordered people to dig an authentic tunnel and walked into the authentic tunnel to meet Wu Jiang. In the authentic tunnel, the mother and son met again, and the revenge of the past disappeared. Duke Zhuang excitedly wrote a poem and sang: "In the big tunnel, the joy is also harmonious! "Duke Zhuang helped his mother out of the tunnel, and Wu Jiang was excited to write a poem and sang: "Outside the big tunnel, the music is also blew! "The mother and son are happy and returned to the capital together with warm family affection that they have never had.
Since its publication, "Zuo Zhuan" has been regarded as a classic by the world, praising it as "the clan of hundreds of writings and the ancestor of ancient Chinese for generations". "Zheng Boke Duan Yuyan" is the beginning of his predecessor. For thousands of years, it has always been regarded as a classic among classics. The "multiple actions of unrighteousness will perish themselves", "Meet in the underworld", "Digging the ground to see the mother" and so on have become popular stories of history.
From the adaptation of the villain's book with pictures and texts to the unchanged university Chinese, between the lines of "Zheng Boke Duan Yuyan", historians found the trajectory of history, writers discovered the charm of literature, and sociologists revealed After the ethics of the world, strategists have summarized the art of struggle, young children have learned to distinguish good and evil, and adult men and women have realized the principles of being a human being...
Although Wu Jiang's spoiling and paranoidness, Shu Duan's stupidity and greed are the root causes of the tragedy of , many people say that Duke Zhuang of Zheng hid in a deep state, played hard to get, and lost the responsibility of discipline to his younger brother, resulting in the brothers not being brothers not being brothers, and embarked on the road of no return of relatives to part ways. His sinister murder with his heart and viciousness should be added to the first level.
I personally think that in the process of the tragedy, although he is scheming and responsibilities are inevitable, but between him and Shu Duan, he has difficulties that he has to protect himself.After all, he finally repented and saw his mother, which showed that he still had the feelings of mother and son in his heart, and he did not completely repay him with revenge and revenge, but he tried his best to do his best to do his filial piety that a son should have.
The reason why this story makes people feel heart-wrenching is that there is a perfect good person in the story, that is, Ying Kao Shu. If it weren't for the good man Ying Kao Shu, the story of Zheng Boke Duan Yuyan would only be a complete tragedy. All the characters in it would become clowns and sinners who could be criticized, and there would be no classic article "Zheng Boke Duan Yuyan" that has been passed down through the ages.
Ying Kao Shu is a good man. Fortunately, he is a filial son first. Fortunately, he has a kind heart to relieve anxiety and help others. Even more, he has used the best working method that does not embarrass people. , old me, and young me, and has saved enough face for Zhuang Gong who is in a difficult situation, preserved his reputation, repaired the steps, and brought a ladder, which leads to happiness and the ladder to happiness.
Therefore, the author Zuo Qiu Ming At the end of the article, he used the words of a gentleman to express the unanimous voice of the world: "Ying Kaoshu is pure filial piety, he loves his mother, and Duke Zhuang. The poem says: 'The filial son is not scarce, and he will never be as good as the one.' Is that what this is!"
Give someone a rose, and the fragrance lingers on his hands. In this story, the roses that Ying Kao Shu gave to Zheng Zhuanggong are "stairs" and "ladders".
When people are embarrassed, they often need an invisible step and a kind help. In this world, you, me, and them always hold the roses that are moved by others, and always keep the "stairs" and "ladders" that are moved by others. How beautiful it is
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