Recently read "Selected Works of Zhaoming", checked the information of Prince Zhaoming, and read the allusion of "Wax Goose Has Disgusted to Pray". Allusion records, Xiao Tong Because he tolerated a eunuch, the eunuch was ungrateful and falsely accused Xiao Tong, and Xiao Tong died of depression. It makes people sigh.
Chinese people pay attention to tolerance and generosity, and pay attention to the past and not to investigate the past. Once the scar is healed, no longer pursue the past pain. Tolerance is good at forgetting. Even if it is not good at forgetting, it is also deliberately forgetting. This is because carrying the shackles of morality and holding themselves high above. Little do they know that the villain has seen this point and took the opportunity to fire a gun at the right time, either harming a gentleman or taking advantage of a gentleman. A gentleman may have a different body and head, or may not be able to withstand his troubles. As the saying goes, it is easy to be a small person gun.
A gentleman is like a butterfly sucking the fragrance, and a villain is like a fly sucking the stench. The aromatic fragrance soaks the heart and the foul odor is soaked in the heart. The heart contains fragrance and the chest is wide, and the heart contains foul smell and narrow heart. Broad and tolerant, narrow and mean. Because of their broadness and neglect to prevent, and because of their narrowness, they are good at attacking. A villain is good at drilling holes, while a gentleman cannot defend himself. The so-called: a gentleman is open and honest, while a villain is always worried.
You must not have the intention to harm others, and you must be careful of others. Defense is a kind of protection, and harm is an attack. Prevention protects yourself and hurts others. I personally think that a gentleman should be vigilant against villains and not tolerate villains. Tolerance to villains is actually a harm to oneself.
