A soldier's heart can be extremely hard, but from his side as an ordinary person, his heart can be extremely soft. He can be full of sweetness for love, taste the warmth wrapped in family affection, or enjoy the peak scenery with his two or three confidants. This kind of emotion unique to humans can make a ruthless person become a bit fleshy. So feelings are the best seasoning in life. Whether it is giving or accepting, it is a very pleasant thing.
The iron-hearted tenderness presented by those soldiers who fought hard on the battlefield is even more touching. This tenderness allows us to see the other side of them, and also makes their image more realistic and closer to ordinary people. For example, the famous Marshal Lin Biao, his military achievements and military achievements naturally make everyone look up to, but the feelings he devoted to the children can make him a friendly object in the hearts of many admirers.
In 1971, Lin Biao received a gift from his daughter Lin Doudou and smiled very happily. His wife Ye Qun also hurriedly recorded the moment with the camera. What kind of story is there between Lin Biao and his daughter? What is the living atmosphere of their family? Let’s learn about it together.
Father and daughter meet, very happy
As descendants of soldiers, often needs to taste bitter fruits that other children cannot taste , such as separation from their parents for a long time. Lin Doudou has a good say in this topic. Lin Doudou is Lin Biao's daughter . She is recognized as a tiger girl in the general. Everyone only sees the halo brought to her by her father, but few people pay attention to what her inner world looks like.
A child, who doesn’t want to live by his parents? Especially a little girl, she must be more eager to sit on her father's broad shoulders. Go and see a farther world. Lin Doudou often sees such scenes, but the protagonists of the scene are often other little girls and their fathers. Whenever a similar scene occurs, Lin Doudou feels envious.
At the same time, Lin Biao felt guilty towards his daughter. He is a soldier, which is his first identity, so he must always bear the responsibility of the country on his shoulders, and therefore ignore the care and care for his children. We cannot have both feelings and responsibilities. Lin Biao chose responsibility as soon as possible, and means that he and his daughter are not so close to .
If Lin Doudou was a child, it would definitely be impossible. However, after gradually becoming sensible, she also understood what great things her father was doing, so the resentment in her heart gradually disappeared, replaced by worship, but the sense of distance did not completely disappear.
This strangeness between father and daughter made Lin Biao very regretful, and also made him cherish every opportunity to see his daughter . In 1971, Lin Doudou took Zhang Ning and other friends to visit Lin Biao, and he was so happy. When he learned that his daughter was coming, he told the people around him to prepare in advance, and personally planned his daughter's food, clothing, housing and transportation, which was very concerned.
For Lin Biao, the child has grown up and he must be very pleased to take time to visit him, the old guy. So he must take care of everything so that the child can be satisfied.
brought back the gift, and was overjoyed
At that time, Lin Biao happened to be in Beidaihe, and there were many scenic spots in Beidaihe, so after Lin Doudou came, Lin Biao also reminded her to take her friends out for more walks and have local famous snacks. Young people must not be able to hang out with the elderly all day, so after two days, Lin Doudou took his friends out for scenic spots and bought some gifts as souvenirs.
Their group saw many interesting things on the street, and many things in are also full of local folk culture , which is very interesting.Zhang Ning, who was traveling with him, has always been taken care of by Lin Biao, so when she saw these things, she asked Lin Doudou: "Do we want to bring something to my uncle? He will definitely be very happy to see it."
In fact, Lin Doudou had this idea before Zhang Ning spoke. She knew that her father was a soldier and a real man with iron bones, so she must not be interested in ordinary cute gadgets. , so she chose a very exquisitely designed mechanical soldier . This thing can not only make many difficult moves, but also from the appearance, it must be very popular with tough guys like Lin Biao.
果不其然，当林彪看到女儿出门给自己带的礼物时，内心别提多开心了。他没想到女儿在与朋友欢聚的时刻，内心还能想着自己，而且还多么了解自己的喜好，带回来了一件自己真正喜欢的东西。所以林彪一边玩着林豆豆给他带回来的机械兵，一边开心的嘴都合不拢。这个样子，倒跟老小孩没有什么区别。
这一幕是非常罕见的，待在一旁的叶群看到之后，赶紧拿出相机，想把这一幕给抓拍定格下来。 With the camera's "click", Lin Biao and the smile on his face were recorded together. When people look back at these photos, they will find it very meaningful.
mother controls, father indulges
However, this family is not as stable as it appears on the surface. At least for Lin Doudou, the existence of his mother Ye Qun is a time bomb. 叶群是一个控制欲非常强的女人，她不仅要掌控孩子们生活的各个细节，甚至还要直接干涉孩子们的爱情和婚姻。
林豆豆当时喜欢上了一个人，但是叶群死活不同意，甚至还利用职务之便把人家给调了出去。而她强迫着林豆豆去相亲，去认识孩子根本不喜欢的对象。 这种直接插手孩子的婚姻大事的行为，让林豆豆非常反感。
And the daughter's attitude was supported by her father Lin Biao. Lin Biao has always adopted a free-range policy for her children. As an enlightened father, he does not think that parents have the right to decide the future of their children.
Conclusion
A small gift can win Lin Biao's favor, and this scene must not be easy to see normally, so Ye Qun thought about taking pictures. It can be seen from this that it is not easy to make Lin Biao happy.
生活在那样一个控制欲极强的家庭之中，想必任何人都不会开心的。 Learning to let go, learning to respect, or what an enlightened parent should do.
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