Ni Hongjie In "Listening to Sisters", half of the sad ridicule, the underwear advertisement she shot when she was 20 years old, now her parents have avoided talking about it, making her feel like she was a child with her parents When watching TV, something like "kiss" suddenly appeared in the screen.
"Listen to Sisters Say" fragment
Coincidentally, Yang Mi posted his "comic waist" on Weibo some time ago, and she cursed instantly, and finally she had to delete the micro Bo, and post an apology to finish.
In life, we often hear people talking about XX wearing too explicit clothes, who is going shirtless, which passenger bus is too sexy to be a pervert... etc., makes people want to ask, dress Where is freedom? Is it wrong for people to show their bodies?
01 Matter Xiangxin Sheng
Song Dynasty's great writer Su Dongpo and Fayin Zen master are good friends, they often sit together and talk about the Dharma, but Su Dongpo often loses to Fayin Zen master, it is inevitable to be unwilling. One day, two people were sitting together again discussing things. Su Dongpo suddenly said: "I use my eyes to see the master like a pile of shit." Fayin only smiled indifferently: "I use my eyes to see the scholar like a Buddha."
Su Dongpo, who got a cheap verb, was very happy. After returning home, she couldn’t wait to show off with her sister . Su Xiaomei, but Su Xiaomei shook her head and said: " has bullshit in her heart, and she looks like bullshit. ; I keep Tathagata, and everyone is Tathagata.” Su Dongpo suddenly felt that he had lost completely this time.
This principle is the "birth of matter and mind" in Buddhism.
I often see news like this on public transportation,Someone took advantage of the crowding and bumps in the car to stretch out "salted pig hands" to the well-dressed passengers. After being stopped, they still plausibly said, "You wear so little, don't you just come out to be touched"?
The picture comes from the news screenshot
"excuse me?!" Others wear less, not the reason for the perverts to stretch out the hand of the salty pig. Strong15strong is a wretched person in his heart, seeing someone show his arm , All felt that they were sending him an "invitation letter."
Just as Mr. Lu Xun said: When they saw short sleeves, they immediately thought of white arms, and immediately thought of full nudity... they immediately thought of illegitimate children. Only at this level can their imaginations leap forward.
02 There is nothing wrong with showing your figure moderately
First of all, there is nothing wrong with work.
Now, I can still think of the soft-spoken, beautiful figure in Ni Hongjie's health underwear advertisement. She said that when she first heard that it was an advertisement for health underwear, she cried as soon as she turned her head. It can be seen that her usual tutoring is traditional. However, this is part of her work after all, and the advertisement for that underwear is true now. Is considered conservative, the only thing that is wrong, that may be the set of health underwear, which shows Ni Hongjie's bumpy figure, eh, like the man in black in "Detective Conan"?
Model is the second profession, "Silicon Valley Iron Man" Elon Musk 's mother Meyer Musk, when she was 63 years old, accepted her first naked appearance and appeared in New York Magazine The cover of "To discuss the growth of women over 50 years old." Different from the attitude of Ni Hongjie's family, Meyer's three children are very supportive of this job offer and think it is a very meaningful thing.
"New York Magazine" cover,Note: Pregnant belly is P
Of course, the work here refers to the scope of the law, please don't associate it.
Secondly, there is nothing wrong with being sexy.
Sexy is a very individual temperament. Although it refers to the sexual impulse that can attract and even arouse the opposite sex, it is also an appropriate display.
Sexy not only refers to the external appearance of a person's figure, clothing, appearance, etc., but also includes internal cultivation such as conversation, temperament and connotation.
When it comes to sexiness, some people immediately think of pornography. But Liu Yan is sexy, but she is filial, independent, and thoughtful. Who can say that she is pornographic? Marilyn Monroe is sexy, but she is brave, intellectual, and loves to read. Who can say that she is pornographic?
Just like, we can’t comment on a person, whether he likes to eat salty or light-mouthed, sexy itself should not be right or wrong .
Again, there is nothing wrong with it to please yourself.
I admire Ni Hongjie’s comment in this episode of Wang Ju: “I feel that everyone’s perception of beauty is different now, and girls’ sexiness is not for pleasing others, but for self-confidence from the inside out.”
More and more people have jumped out of the vicious circle of "to please yourself", and more and more people are beginning to advocate the freedom of dressing...
In the recent variety show "Chasing the Light, Brother", many people shouted , Span1span Chen Zhipeng, one of the former members of the "Little Tigers", has returned to normal clothes. He does not feel weird and greasy, and he still feels handsome. Before that, people sneered at his appearance. Everywhere you go, people feel hot eyes.
"Follow the Light, Brother" stills
Actually,No matter before or now, Chen Zhipeng has his freedom to dress. Even under the spotlight, he is exaggerated and weird. In private, he is still the modest gentleman. When interviewed, he did not have the state of being on stage at all, on the contrary. His face was calm, humble and polite.
Of course, as a public figure, he has received a lot of attention, and it is inevitable for some people to make comments. However, the personal attack is very wrong, and there are even people who went to his parents’ house to set fire. After the exposure, many people applauded him. It is inevitable that people sigh, what is wrong with doing what you like and tolerating yourself?
03 Moderate enough, too much is not enough
As the saying goes, "It’s too much too much." We advocate freedom of dressing, not to say that there is no bottom line, but to follow basic etiquette and pay attention to the occasion.
On the one hand, pay attention to influence.
Speaking of Yang Mi's "comic waist", I have to say that with that figure lying down from the chair, I am fascinated by the same sex.
However, after searching for the keyword "comic waist" on Weibo, all kinds of imitating bloggers came out all at once, many of which were more standard than Yang Mi's actions, but more of them were not so good, because, watch A seemingly simple action is too difficult to operate, and the risk factor is not low. Some people even challenged the "comic waist" but were sent directly to the orthopedic hospital without completing the challenge.
I think Yang Mi and her work team should have also realized the influence of Yang Mi's celebrity effect, so they issued an apology and deleted the original Weibo later.
I believe that in this incident, people are more concerned about the safety factor rather than the appearance of the body.
On the other hand, respecting oneself must also respect others.
The freedom of dressing that we advocate is not unlimited and does not matter what you want.
*First of all, exhibitionism is not freedom of dressing.
Those who take pleasure in exposing one's body at will are actually a crime, not freedom of dressing.
The picture comes from the Internet
*Secondly, the freedom of dressing depends on the occasion.
For formal occasions, try to wear formal clothes and formal dresses. It is best not to wear too casual for work. It is best to wear school uniforms at school.
YouGov once launched a survey of 1,700 British adults of different origins, ages and classes on the question of "what to wear to work". As a result, only 21% and 19% of them support "sleeveless". "Vests" and "flip-flops" appeared in the workplace.
*Again, you have the freedom to dress, and others have the freedom of speech.
There was an article a few years ago, "I wish Chinese girls will dress freely soon" stated that "except yourself, no one has the right or the right to judge you."
At first glance, many people will raise their hands to agree. Think, is it possible that only people who wear and take off clothes have freedom according to their own thoughts, and other people have no freedom to say it? If you can't help but don't say anything when you see it, do you have to wear a blindfold when you go out? Real freedom is not obtained by letting others shut up and not discussing it, but by gaining oneself.
04 Conclusion
Everyone has the right to show themselves, and everyone has the right to freedom of speech. We cannot fight for our own rights and hope that others will not exercise his rights.
The picture comes from the Internet
No matter how tall, short or thin, modern people are becoming more and more confident, and more people are willing to show their bodies moderately. There is nothing wrong with others. Give an opinion,However, malicious attacks or indecent assaults, even personal attacks, rapes, and arson are all crimes.
Finally, please remember that is “born in the heart”, please treat people with kindness, everyone will be the most beautiful yourself.
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