Xie Nan posted a recent photo of his 6-year-old son, shocking netizens: How awesome is Wu Jing's hard-core parenting?

Some time ago, Xie Nan posted two so-called cooking photos of his son Wu on social platforms, and he was envied by the real name of netizens.

Although Wu said that he had just turned 6 years old, but he started to cook in a good manner, he was completely a small adult.

He stood on a small bench and concentrated on stirring the lump soup with a wooden spatula. He looked very sophisticated. Although he is young, his cooking skills seem to be pretty good. The pimple soup is red and yellow and looks very appetizing.

Xie Nan happily wrote: “It’s another day to be supported by my son.”

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With pride and pride, netizens also praised one after another, saying bluntly: the color, fragrance, and taste are delicious.

Some people also said: "Xie Nan is really a master of parenting, and he trained his son so well."

Actually, there is a reason why everyone admires Xie Nan. Wu said that he is not only good at cooking, but his hobbies It is also very extensive, boxing and ukulele are not bad in everything.

In addition, Wu's so-called English is also the envy of many mothers.

was able to give interviews in English when he was 4 years old, and also made a wave of international fans. When he was 5 years old, he could write a film review for a movie starring Wu Jing in English. Is it a typical "child of someone else's family"?

Of course, behind Wu's so-called excellence is inseparable from the hard-core education of Xie Nan and his wife, especially Wu Jing. As a hard-core guy, he very much agrees with the tiger mom and tiger dad-style parenting methods.

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Wu Jing on the screen has portrayed the role of many passionate men, and he is also very busy at work. This gives many people the illusion that Wu Jing should be a shopkeeper at home.

In fact, Wu Jing is also dedicated to the growth and character development of children, and he has his own set of parenting methods.

In Wu Jing's view, children should be loved but never spoiled.

Dzerzhinsky once said: "Parents doting and spoiling their children, and satisfying their willful requirements, they will grow up to degenerate and become weak-willed, selfish people." _span2pspan

Wu Jing, who is familiar with this principle, made a plan to send him to learn martial arts when Wu called it only a few months.

Wu Jing said frankly: "Martial arts can cultivate his physical coordination ability,It can also give him more suffering, more exercise, more health, and more masculinity. "_Span10span

Wu Jing’s education and training of children is definitely not a slap in the face. He is very hardcore about what Wu calls education.

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Since the age of two, Wu Jing has developed a set of exercise plans and insisted on taking him to run and fight with him.

Although the process is very difficult, Wu Jing hopes that through these exercises, he can have a healthy body and a masculine mentality. He always emphasized: "Nowadays boys have too much smoke and powder, I don't want my children to be like this. "_Span10span

Wu Jing was very bold about children's exercises. When Wu was two or three years old, Wu Jing took a stick and let him sit on it, and then began to swing left and right. The child makes fun, but Wu Jing actually exercises his courage.

Because of the unsteady sitting, Wu fell down directly. Although he was on the beach at the time, Wu's so-called appearance was still quite miserable. He ate a mouthful of dirt. _Span10span

At that time, Wu cried with a so-called wow. If the parents were ordinary parents, they would be nervous enough, but Wu Jing just swept the soil out of the child's mouth and said lightly while scanning. "It's okay, it's okay."

It is Wu Jing’s bottom line not to let children be flowers in the greenhouse. Only after thousands of trials can children thrive.Only then will he become an indomitable man.

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Many modern families are only children, and there are no more than two children at most. Some parents are very squeamish when raising their children. They will get nervous when they scratch their skin, and they will sweat when they fall.

In fact, this kind of overprotection is depriving children of opportunities for self-growth, resulting in children not being able to withstand setbacks, and it will inevitably lead to a "giant baby" in the long run.

Wu Jing did a good job in this regard. When Wu was so-called younger, Wu Jing began to exercise his grip on the basketball hoop, saying bluntly, "This can exercise arm strength."

When shooting the movie "The Wandering Earth", without any protective measures, Wu Jing asked his son to climb freely. As a result, the height that Wu had climbed made the staff very nervous, but Wu Jing still showed up. He waved his hand and said, "What are men afraid of."

Under Wu Jing's conscious training, Wu said that he was bolder than ordinary children, and he was very strong. Every time he went out, he would take the initiative to help his mother drag the suitcase and take the initiative to hug him. The younger brother is completely a little adult.

On weekdays, Wu Jing would also let Wu So-called as his own assistant. When he was shooting photos, Wu So-called came to the studio. Of course, he was not here for fun, but to help Wu Jing. He took clothes and sometimes served his father with tea and water.

As long as Wu says they can do things on their own, Wu Jing and his wife never intervene, buying vegetables, peeling garlic, carrying bags, repairing mechanical toys, etc.Over time, Wu so-called developed an independent character.

Actually, Wu Jing never asked children to be good and strong. What he values ​​most is whether a man can take on the responsibilities that society and family give you. If his personality is too weak, how to protect a family? How can it make a difference.

Wu Jing's education of his two sons is indeed "harsh". Xie Nan once said in the program that he would tell his son that he should not cry when something happens, because "a man is bleeding." Do not shed tears".

Once, Wu said that he fell on the road and would cry when he opened his mouth. But Wu Jing did not comfort him, but said seriously: "Cry when I fell, it's too hopeless."

Even though Wu felt wronged, he obediently shut up, and then raised his small fist to cheer himself up: "I am a man, I am very strong."

See this, maybe Some people will say: "Wu Jing is too cruel to children."

But these are really smart parents, because children are like root saplings, how can they grow into towering trees without going through the wind and rain. What?

There is no absolute smooth sailing in life. If you don't have the ability to resist stress, how to face this cruel society when you grow up, so let your children grow up from failure and exercise during growth is the core rule of cultivating children.

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Actually,The reason why Wu Jing adopted a "hard core" education for his son has a huge relationship with his own growth experience.

Wu Jing was born in a family of martial arts. Three generations of his family have been practicing martial arts. When he was 6 years old, he was sent to Beijing Shichahai Sports School to practice martial arts.

As a result, shortly after entering school, Wu Jing had an accident and was interrupted by his classmates. But his father did not take him home to recuperate. Instead, he told him: "There is no injury in martial arts training. ."

It is because of his father's "not spoiled" that Wu Jing has developed a determined character. During the process of learning martial arts, he was injured in his head and his arm was cast in plaster.

The most serious one was a spinal injury. Wu Jing was almost paralyzed. The recovery process was long and painful. Every time he got up with a strong support, Wu Jingjing would sweat his back, and even felt unhappy.

But in the face of severe pain and injury, he still did not choose to surrender. Instead, he forced himself to overcome various difficulties and step out of the predicament step by step. In the end, the pain was also defeated by him.

's strong, brave, and unrelenting character, finally made Wu Jing won the national martial arts championship at the age of 16 and became a leader in the industry.

If then Wu Jing would retreat, maybe there would be no " Wolf Warriors" nowadays. When watching movies, many people feel that Wu Jing has a fierce and murderous look in his eyes. , Not so much that he played well,It's better to say that he is acting in his true colors.

The experience of martial arts has not only made Wu Jing a standard "tough guy", it also gave him a perseverance that is different from ordinary people. He has also experienced downturns in these years of filming.

When preparing for the filming of "Wolf Warrior", the crew was once in trouble, unable to attract investment, and the fixed starring starring temporarily went on strike, etc., but these setbacks did not make Wu Jing give up, because in his opinion , Failure is not terrible, the big deal is to start all over again.

It is precisely because of these experiences that Wu Jing is so cruel and bold when educating his son, because he himself is also a beneficiary of "hard core" education.

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Of course, although Wu Jing is a bit harsh on children, it is definitely not a suppressive type, nor is he absolutely ruthless. There is no lack of iron man’s tender care.

is usually busy with work, and Wu Jing does not accompany his children much, but whenever he has free time, he will accompany them patiently while educating them.

He would kneel on the ground and play games with his children. He would also try to catch dolls to meet his son's small needs. He would also play role-playing with his son, one as a policeman and the other as a criminal.

Wu Jing is a typical Chinese traditional father, strict and caring coexist, his love for children is relatively restrained, but he is absolutely unambiguous in educating children, which will help them develop a character that can endure hardship, because he Know how much pain you can endure,You are destined to achieve much.

Whether you like it or not, one day, the child will leave his parents and go alone. If the wings are not full, what should he fight for?

Therefore, Wu Jing's "hard core" education seems a bit mean, but children who grow up in this environment will definitely be more sunny and more confident in the future. Text/morning evening

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