And his father Lao Cheng, in order to save his child, also put all eighteen weapons together, but he could not stop Xiao Cheng from being addicted.
Xiao Cheng believes that playing games can make him proud. He can make money in the game again, this is the path he wants to go and his glory lies.
Two father and son, two new and old ideas collision. What suggestions will the experts in gold medal mediation give?
1, "Internet addiction" teenagers' e-sports path
Parents' love for their children is selfless, but strong controls often put things on the opposite track.
Xiao Cheng has been not good at studying since he was a child, which makes him feel inferior. Especially in the face of his parents' expectant gaze, he could only ask himself to seek comfort in the game.
But Xiao Cheng found that he had talent in playing games. He not only could defeat his opponents on the Internet, but also made the classmates who played games in the class praise him very much. He seemed to have found his confidence, and thus became unexcited in the game.
In order to play the game, Xiao Cheng confiscated his phone, so he secretly used his mother's phone to play. Later, when Lao Cheng saw that it was really not possible, he promised Xiao Cheng that as long as he studied hard, he could let him play games every Saturday and Sunday.
But Xiao Cheng is no longer satisfied with just being able to play games. What he wants is to be able to play with the feel and sensitivity. He cannot be called gods in real life, so he must be called gods in the glory of kings. What he needs to experience is the recognized glory.
Just like that, Xiao Cheng played games extensively since the first year of junior high school. By the second year of junior high school, even the class teacher gave up on his management, just asked him not to disturb other students in class. The teacher also found Lao Cheng and asked him to see if it didn't work, let the child not go to school first.
Xiao Cheng didn't care about these things at all. After he returned home, he was immersed in the world of games. Every day, except eating and sleeping, he devotes all his body and mind to the game, and he has also become a serious Internet addicted boy in people's eyes.
All of this is unbearable in the eyes of Lao Cheng, who thinks that everything is inferior and has a high level of study. Seeing that his beating and scolding was no longer effective, he decided to use extraordinary means to help Xiao Cheng quit his Internet addiction.
Lao Cheng did not expect that his decision this time almost ruined Xiao Cheng's life, and also brought their father-son relationship to freezing point.
2. Internet addiction school almost kills e-sports teenagers
The dignity of parents cannot be challenged. Children who do not accept discipline must use coercive means to control them until you obey.
Lao Cheng also used this method to discipline Xiao Cheng, and he saw that he had no choice. He found a school online that promoted the ability to quit Internet addiction, and he found several relatives to force Xiao Cheng to send him.
Xiao Cheng had almost no room for resistance and was dragged into the car by Lao Cheng. After a journey of more than a thousand kilometers, he and his two relatives drove to the place overnight.
After arriving at school, Lao Cheng didn't even take a look or understand it. He paid the money. After throwing Xiao Cheng down, he drove home with his relatives.
Lao Cheng didn’t even know how this school quits Internet addiction. He had only one thought in his mind, which was to let Xiao Cheng suffer a little and let him know the value of learning.
But Lao Cheng's choice became Xiao Cheng's nightmare. This school that quits "Internet addiction" is near Shaolin Temple. The way it quits "Internet addiction" is to strictly guard against it and solve it by force.
Xiao Cheng said: "That half a year of life is the nightmare in his life. You have to adapt to the managers who come out anytime and anywhere. They advocate using force to solve problems. As long as students have strong force, they can be less bullied, and those half a year are like rats crossing the street, and they will be bullied at any time."
Xiao Cheng couldn't stand it in the end. He drank a bottle of hand sanitizer and a bottle of facial cleanser to get rid of it. Later, Xiao Cheng was sent to the hospital by the teacher to wash his stomach, which allowed him to get rid of his nightmare and return home. After
, the relationship between Xiao Cheng and Lao Cheng and his father-son reached a freezing point. Xiao Cheng even swears in his heart that he would break off the father-son relationship with Lao Cheng. Although Xiao Cheng didn't do that afterwards, he and Lao Cheng really had zero communication.
But Lao Cheng still did not give up. He didn't take Xiao Cheng to participate in the gold medal mediation program, so he hoped that experts could help him bring his son back to the right path. What suggestions would the experts give?
3. To have glory, to have plans
People often say: "Every family has difficult sutras, but no one has thought that it may be just a choice of the wrong way. "
At the gold medal mediation site, Xiao Cheng showed his achievements on the road of e-sports. The national registration for the Glory of Kings National Server Competition was 163, and the character Cheng Yaojin will always be the first in the country.
In the past three years, Xiao Cheng has earned more than 100,000 yuan by playing games. Not long ago, the Shangrao City competition won the first place in the city. His goal is to participate in provincial and national competitions, and now someone has found him. I hope he will be a game anchor in Wuhan and can officially sign a contract.
These are what Lao Cheng doesn't know. In his eyes, Xiao Cheng abandoned his studies to play games, and now he has achieved nothing and relied on games to survive.
Experts pointed out: In 2018, the IG team won the League of Legends World Championship, and the country classified e-sports as a professional sports competition and performance event, coded as: 020210210, the same type as the three major footballs, football basketball volleyball, and China's e-sports has also begun to be recognized by the state!
Although many of us cannot change our concepts, the alternation of new and old ideas of the times is inevitable. And Xiao Cheng's performance also means that he has an impressive talent in e-sports.
In fact, the competition in this industry is very fierce, and can your thinking always stand at the top? When you become an eliminated person, where is your future future? This has become an expert Real worries.
Lao Cheng also felt his simple and crude behavior in the mediation of experts, which made him an outsider who was excluded by his son.
Xiao Cheng also realized his father's concern and love for him. He also expressed that he would find a way to communicate well with his father and let his father understand what he was doing.
was written at the end:
people's lives are always making progress in continuous learning. Lack of learning ability will make you unable to develop further in any industry.
Lao Cheng's idea is good. He is afraid that Xiao Cheng will not study and will become a member of the eliminated army in the future. He is afraid that Xiao Cheng will not be able to carry on his life alone in the days without his own protection.
But Lao Cheng forgot. His repeated denial of Xiao Cheng is the cause of Xiao Cheng's lack of presence and desperate bets.
Love the child, so he respects him. Children also have their own dignity. If he can stand up, he must give him the courage to stand up.
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