A few days ago, I was shocked to hear that the female streamer had a happy event. After a closer look, I saw that it was an engagement party.
As a well-known Internet celebrity with a successful career, she is a 34-year-old intellectual young woman. It is not too late. She has been in a relationship with her boyfriend for many years. I wish them happiness.
doesn’t know if it has anything to do with this. The famous 37-year-old DOTA2 game commentator and anchor DC quietly changed his game ID to “Sexy DC Online Marriage ~ I have a super tough mouth.”
Let’s talk about this interesting little thing: Why do tough words and self-deception often appear in pairs? Who is
DC?
My readers, if you don’t play DOTA2, you probably don’t know who DC is. In his early years,
DC was one of the oldest professional players in DOTA and won some ancient championships; later he became a GTV host, which is also a youthful memory of a generation; later he became a DOTA2 game commentator, an older generation with both hosting and gaming abilities; now he mainly In live broadcast, the effect of the program depends entirely on scolding the audience.
’s biggest characteristics in his live broadcast are two. First, he is dishonest. Compared with other colleagues, he is a bit obvious. Second, he is tough-talking. No matter it is a barrage that has nothing to do with him, he will always refute it. Some of what
says is quite reasonable. For example, he often makes comments such as "China did not win the championship in Dota 2 because it values money too much" and "a certain team will only win against the Chinese team and lose against the foreign team."
However, there are times when there are unreasonable things, but DC is very knowledgeable and sophisticated, and has a good level of education. He can say the opposite of what is right and what is right, and he can say right things to the point where others can't breathe, and even if it is unreasonable, he can make others feel at ease. But the energy is coming.
has the ultimate trolling personality. I have never seen such a bellicose "troll", not even on the Internet. With a personality like
, it feels great, but the result of habitual rebuttal is that you think you have no problem at all.
Others say he weighs more than 200 pounds, but he says I like it.
Others say he has been single for too long, but he says I like him.
When others say his words are too damaging, he just says that I like them.
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Yes, as long as you like it, that's fine, but the question is, do you really like it? Still don’t have the courage to face yourself and lie to yourself with words like “like you”?
People who often say how happy they are when single are also "seeking marriage online". I have to say that my youth is over.
It’s okay to deceive everyone, but don’t deceive yourself too
Others ask, why don’t you study hard to get into college? Of course
can answer that college doesn't make sense, I don't need it.
Others ask, why don’t you work hard to save money to buy a car or a house?
Of course, you can answer that money is dirty, I don’t need it.
Others ask, why don’t you fall in love and get married? Of course,
can answer it alone, which is fine, but I don't need it.
But when answering these, give yourself two seconds to think about it, do you really think so? Or do you just want to refute others?
When I was in college, I saw that student unions in other societies were booming, and I thought that I didn’t want the students messing around without doing their jobs. I saw that other people had good academic performance, guaranteed postgraduate studies, studied abroad, and I thought that the university would judge me only based on my grades. But don't... It's not that I don't want it, I'm just upset, and I don't want others to see that I'm upset.
The result is that you have nothing, and four years of college is like eating for nothing.
Some words are said to deceive others, and they also deceive themselves. You don’t need to use
, or you can ignore it. As long as you think clearly, you really don’t need it, instead of trying to save face.
For example, if someone says that I am a bad game player, I won’t even blink, and I don’t care at all (actually, there is still a little bit, which is about zero); if someone says that I am ugly, I will feel a little uncomfortable, but I can understand myself. I don’t rely on this to make a living; but if someone said that I was eating and waiting to die, I would feel very uncomfortable.
When I feel very uncomfortable, it means that I care about this matter.
If you care, change it instead of insisting on saying "actually I can't feel more comfortable".
If you want to be single, you must first figure out what you want to offer
Get married, fall in love, or even just have an affair, it's a two-way street.
didn’t say that I would definitely catch up with whoever I fell in love with – on the contrary, in most cases, failure is a high probability.
When we were young, we could be passionate in the name of love without hesitation, but as we get older, everyone has matured, and even if we fall in love, we are always weighing it.
For us ordinary people, the ideal state is that most of the conditions are passed, there are no fatal shortcomings, and there are a few shining points, or even key advantages, at least rarely vetoed by others.
For example, it’s not that a person who weighs 200 pounds cannot fall in love, but when it comes to falling in love with such a person, everyone will hesitate, right? Whether it's a bad figure or not, physical health issues, eating habits, self-control issues... are the key factors behind it that will be measured more.
For another example, it is not that people with low emotional intelligence cannot fall in love, but when falling in love with such a person, everyone will hesitate, right? I usually get a few words of criticism, but family relationship issues, children's education issues... are the key factors behind it that will be measured more.
are all ordinary people. They are not so handsome that they are earth-shattering, nor are they so rich that they have a life without worries, but they may be so fat that people and gods would be angry, or they may be so lazy that they can’t lift their legs... Let’s not imagine whether there is a person who is willing to tolerate all his shortcomings without hesitation. If you are in love, should you think more about whether you are worthy of being loved?
If you want to be single, you have to make yourself look presentable first.
It doesn’t mean that if you are a mess, no one will love you, or if you look like a dog, someone will love you. This is a matter of probability.
Improving your probability of being accepted must be a less pleasant and even a bit torturous thing, but it is also the only way to get along with others. Of course
can say "I don't need", but before saying it, remember to think for two seconds.
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