Four years ago, a feng shui master said that my family’s feng shui was not good, and predicted that I would be unlucky in the next few years; my father also found a fortune teller, who also said that I would have bad luck for a few years, but predicted that I would have bad luck in the next few years. It will change when you are old, that is, this year.
Last Wednesday, two new "guests" came to the family in surprise. They were two pigeons, and they built a nest on the window sill of the child's room.
I learned about the auspicious meaning of this phenomenon on the Internet, and I couldn't help but think of the prophecy that the Feng Shui master and my father gave me four years ago.
Indeed, since four years ago, I have not been very smooth. Mainly at work, first I stumbled through job-hopping and starting a business, and then the job was unreliable, and the money I earned was getting less and less.
As the pillar of my family, I have three parents, two children, and a mid-life crisis. This is extremely painful.
This is true, and I never dare to attribute it to external factors. I can only bury my head and keep getting up from falling down again and again, stumble towards every possibility, and bury my ideals, face and dignity in the support of my family .
One day, a friend of my mother-in-law who is said to know Taoism and Fengshui came to our house as a guest. He heard about my situation, inspected my house, and said seriously: "The Fengshui of this house is not good."
He suggested that we adjust some Arrangement of furniture and decorations, and later came several times, chanting practice, arranging some objects, comforting me that it will gradually get better in a few years.
Regarding Feng Shui, I have only heard about it but not seen it myself, so I have a devout heart, but I am not superstitious. But at this moment, his words seemed to have a ripple in my extremely dull heart.
In addition, I really have "understanding" of his "opinion" on my other house: I also have a house, because it is far away, I seldom live in it, and it should be a place for vacation and relaxation. Every time we go there for a short stay, we are very open-minded, very relaxed and happy. When he went there for the first time, he exclaimed: "This house has very good Fengshui."
So, I do look forward to what he said "in a few years".
Also in that year, my father discovered the clues of my unconcealed sadness through video thousands of kilometers away. Under his constant questioning, I finally said the words "it's not going well recently".
Although I try to use a very relaxed tone and pretend nothing happened, how can there be parents in the world who can't see their children's thoughts? !
My father didn't say much after hearing this, he comforted me "relaxedly" and then hung up the phone.
Two days later, my father called: "I found a fortune teller to show you, and said that you have been unlucky for the past few years, and you will gradually get better. When you are 38 years old, you will Good luck, and it will continue for ten years."
I don't care whether my father found a real fortune teller, but I still want to believe this sentence, because it is my father who told me this, and it is also my father. shared aspirations with him.
Father continued to comfort and encourage me, I listened quietly, echoing, the warmth and touch in my heart was also a kind of "transfer".
As for why my father deliberately stated the specific time and numbers, I think he probably wants me to give myself more time and not be too anxious.
We are all looking forward to it in our hearts, yelling to cheer up, exerting our strength on our bodies, the matter of "transfer" will come sooner or later.
So, every time I talked to him on the phone, after asking about my situation, he would always count down the time for me. I actually started to get used to it and looked forward to that time even more.
Four years later, last Wednesday morning.
As soon as the eldest daughter changed her habit of staying in bed, before my wife and I got up, she ran over excitedly and shouted: "There are two birds outside the window. They were cooing on the window sill very early. They're all awake."
When we went to check, we didn't see the shadow of the bird. I thought it was just a coincidence, so I didn't take it to heart.
The eldest daughter got up early in the morning for several days in a row and told us the same thing. This caught the attention of my wife and I. We deliberately waited for the two birds to appear and saw that they were busy picking up a lot of small birds. branches. This really made us two and two very happy.
At noon on Saturday, my wife brought back a definite message: "Those are two pigeons, looking for a place to build a nest, lay eggs, and hatch young pigeons."
Everyone was even more happy, discussing and jumping, as if something happened at home A big event in general.
Finally, there are living creatures that can attract the attention and joy of the children. I have always wanted to buy some small animals as pets for the children, such as dogs and cats.
's wife has been hesitant and tangled, needless to say, the reason is the same as many people who want to keep pets but have never had one. The arrival of these two pigeons,
, was like a flash of lightning, breaking through the entanglement and hesitation of adults and satisfying the desire and expectation of children. It was a huge surprise.
Actually, this fulfilled a childhood dream of mine.
I don't know a few kinds of birds, but the fact that birds come to my house to build nests is something I have longed for since I was a child and feel sacred.
When I was a child, my family lived in the countryside, and I often saw swallows building nests under the eaves of others. There is also a saying: "Swallows come to make a fortune, and swallows go to beg for food."
So I very much hope that swallows can also come to my house to build nests, not for getting rich, but because I really like small animals by nature.
Finally one day, two swallows came, and they took a fancy to a corner directly above the entrance of my main house. About ten days later, a new swallow's nest was built that was a little different from the other houses I saw.
The excitement and joy I felt at that time is still fresh in my memory. I watch, cherish, be happy, and think about it every day.
However, not long after I came home from outside, I saw the swallow's nest fell to the ground for some reason.
I tried many ways to put it back but failed. I also thought about many reasons why the swallow's nest fell, but I have no way of knowing.
I thought, my sadness and loss at that time must be the same as that of Little Swallow.
Since then, no swallows have come to my house to build a nest. I even cut bamboo and made a small fence for them to use as a support, and put bugs on it to attract them. Master
said: "As long as someone's swallow's nest is destroyed, there will be no more swallows to build a nest in that family." This made me depressed, powerless and regretful.
Today, these two pigeons let me feel the innocence and agility of my childhood again. Everyone quietly watched and observed from a distance, and quietly added some water and food when they were away, for fear of disturbing and scaring them away.
What's even more amazing is that they start to 'cuckoo' on time around 6 o'clock every morning.
This is a very effective "alarm clock". Everyone doesn't want to stay in bed every morning. Following the "call" of the pigeons to get up early, watching them busy and cute, makes me feel very happy.
The youngest daughter's "wake up breath" disappeared, and the eldest daughter began to be interested in the singing of various birds. I also looked up information about pigeon nesting.
A statement on the Internet caught my attention:
In Feng Shui, animals are often representatives of anger. If there are animals that are willing to take the initiative to get close to humans, no matter what, it is a relatively auspicious sign. The feng shui sign of pigeons building nests at home is a special omen of fortune.
Some people say:
Animals pay close attention to human beings, which means that the owner of the house is noble and virtuous, and it is also a proof of the good feng shui circulation in the home.
Regardless of whether there is any scientific basis for this, this kind of statement really makes me more excited.
I linked this incident with the prophecy given to me by the Feng Shui master and my father four years ago, is it true?
We hope to be true, and we all take it as true!
We have not specifically proved this, and we have no way of proving it and are unwilling to prove it. It is enough to think it is true in our hearts.
After the little pigeons hatch in a few days, I will also share this matter and its meaning with my father, and he will be very happy too.
My father's prophecy has nothing to do with superstition. It is my encouragement and expectation when I am in a downturn. It is full of his care and worry for the future of his children and grandchildren.
Father and mother are already old, they can't help their children materially, they can only meditate and pray in their hearts. It is precisely their meditation and prayer that accompany us throughout our lives.
As for the feng shui master, I also thank him, regardless of whether his predictions are true or not, and whether the adjustments he made really have an effect. I regard it as encouragement and comfort to me.
Probably everyone has a mood of looking forward to "transfer", which is our psychological sustenance and hope when we can't change the real predicament.
The inner tenacity is strong, so making efforts and striving to realize what you want is not a kind of prophecy for yourself? !
Luck and transshipment, of course, cannot fall from the sky, and all results have a process. Effort, struggle, struggle, with these processes, wouldn't it be possible to realize those "prophecies"?
Work hard to strive for and create. Compared with self-pity and resignation, the chances of good luck will always be higher. In fact, the former in turn has a more positive impact on "feng shui" and "transit".
