Chinese people go to Africa to work, mainly by accompanying aid companies to build various infrastructure such as bridges and roads in Africa. However, it is still difficult for Chinese people to do business in Africa. The main reason is that Africans have different thinking from

The aesthetic view of Chinese people regards whiteness as beauty, and there is also a saying that "one white hides a hundred ugliness", which means that as long as the skin is white, it doesn't matter even if it is ugly, so white girls are more popular.

African black girl has dark skin and short and curly hair. In the eyes of most Chinese people, African black girl is "ugly". No matter how beautiful her face is and how good her figure is, few Chinese people would say she is beautiful.

I have worked in Uganda, Africa, and there are basically all local black girls in the factory, and there are more than a dozen Chinese colleagues. Most of the African black girls are enthusiastic and open-minded and have a very good attitude towards Chinese people. I often joke with those Chinese colleagues: "So-some, so many African black girls like you, why don't you marry one?" Their answers were basically the same: "They are so black and can't do it." It can be seen that Chinese people are very repulsive to African black girls.

Chinese people are very repulsive to African black girls. Why do some Chinese marry African black girls? What kind of mentality is that?

I have been working in Africa for five or six years, and I can say that I am quite familiar with this aspect. Overall, most Chinese people do not like African black girls, and they even reject them. However, there are still a small number of Chinese people who marry African black girls. What kind of mentality do they have? You will know after reading it.

1. The reason why some Chinese marry black African girls is to make their business stronger and bigger in Africa.

China is increasingly aiding projects to Africa, and more and more Chinese people are going to Africa to work and do business. Chinese people go to Africa to work, mainly by accompanying aid companies to build various infrastructure such as bridges and roads in Africa. However, it is still difficult for Chinese people to do business in Africa. The main reason is that Africans have different thinking from Chinese people. For example, Chinese people open shops in Africa, Africans buy things from Chinese people, and collect money from Africans. Then they think that Chinese people have made money from Africans, so they do not want Chinese people to do business in Africa.

If you want to make your business stable and stronger in Africa, the only way is to marry a local black wife. Only by doing this will they recognize you and have the opportunity to make your business stronger and bigger.

Uncle Chen can be said to be an old Africa. He has been in Africa for more than 20 years. He is now doing a big business in Africa, mainly operating hotels, shopping malls, etc. His wife is the daughter of a local chief. He has given birth to three men and two women in total, and lives a very happy life.

When I was working in Africa, I often visited Uncle Chen’s hotels and shopping malls. I was very familiar with Uncle Chen. We often had dinners and chatted with him. Uncle Chen told me that when he first came to Africa to do business, he didn’t have a smooth sailing. At first, he opened a shop on a relatively prosperous section of the capital of Uganda, Africa, mainly selling some second-hand Chinese clothing, shoes, etc. Due to the cheap price, the business was extremely popular, but the good times did not last long. His shop was quickly targeted. After that, people kept levied various "taxes" from him. I thought it would be fine if I paid once, but he was too naive and someone came to collect taxes almost every few days. In this way, even if the business was better for a month, there was not much left.

Uncle Chen said that he was very handsome when he was young. After arriving in Africa, many local blacks pursued him, including his current wife. At that time, his wife told him: "As long as you marry her, no one will come to collect his taxes in the future."Uncle Chen was half-believing and half-doubted, thinking that she was the daughter of a local chief and should be in power in the local area. Although Uncle Chen was unwilling to accept it at that time, he married the chief's daughter for the sake of the business here. It is strange that since they got married, no one would collect taxes from him. In this way, Uncle Chen's business grew bigger and bigger. After making money, Uncle Chen did a lot of good things in the local area. Seeing that children from poor families could not afford to go to school, he took the initiative to pay for money to run a school and built many cement roads in the local area.

Uncle Chen's deeds have a great influence on the local area. Almost all local people in a radius of dozens of miles know him. It can be said thatUncle Chen has established a good image for us Chinese in Africa. In addition toUncle Chen, there are also many Chinese who have married black African girls with the same situation. After their careers are successful, they also rely on their own abilities to help some people who really need help. Therefore, now Chinese people are always warmly welcomed by African locals when they go to Africa!

2. The reason why some Chinese married black African girls was to "have someone successors".

Some older young people may miss the age of marriage because of their careers, and some may be for the sake of playing! When they want to get married, it is already a difficult task. When they go to Africa to work, they find that they are still so popular in the local area. There are still many local black girls who pursue them. They may still be very repulsive at the beginning, but the days of working in Africa are very lonely. At this time, when they suddenly have suitors, they always feel warm in their hearts.

Thinking about it, it is difficult to find a partner after returning to China at the age of thirty or forty. Once the partner cannot be found, the fireworks of their family will be broken in the hands of their generation. In order to have someone to succeed, they can only face the facts and marry an African black girl as a wife. Even if they are reluctant, they are always much better than being single.

3. The reason why some Chinese married black African girls is because they are too vanity and want to be face-saving.

Some Chinese people live a good life, and many things need to be compared. For example, when they see a neighbor marrying a foreign wife and you marry a white wife, then I will marry a black wife for you to show you. To put it bluntly, it means that they have too strong vanity and are willing to sacrifice their face. Marriage is based on emotions. If it is a marriage without emotions, it will not last long.

When I was working in Africa, I saw many single mothers, mainly because African men are not very responsible for marriage. It is difficult for them to get married with their children after divorce. I have also seen several single mothers in Africa saying that her husband is Chinese and said that she has something to come back to China. I felt very angry after hearing this. Even if it is not sincere, why bother to deceive others’ feelings? What is the difference between this and abandoning your wife and children? So I think people should be down-to-earth and upright, and be responsible and responsible Chinese. If you don’t love, don’t hurt them!

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