In the recently aired "Happiness Trio", Xi Mengyao talked about the experience of being a new mother, afraid of losing contact with the child, and almost suffering from postpartum depression. After that, she still posted on social media, thanking Bao Wenjing for her help during her most sensitive period of postpartum and helping herself find an outlet for her emotions.
Nowadays, there are more and more news about women's postpartum depression. For example, Anita Yuan once exposed in a program that she was almost affected by postpartum depression in her married life. Huo Siyan also said that her postpartum mood swings were very large, but this is only something that is well known to the public and has not caused serious consequences. Cases are only, compared to all the cases of postpartum depression that are occurring in life, it is just the tip of the iceberg.
Maybe many friends have forgotten it. Not long ago, there was a news that "a woman pushed her nephew and niece into the river to drown due to postpartum depression", and then the woman wanted to commit suicide by jumping into the river with her own daughter. Only when he was stopped in the end didn't cause a bigger tragedy.
The total news is not only that we have realized the prevalence of postpartum depression among women, but also the hidden dangers and harms. In this regard, at the two sessions this year, a major representative put forward the suggestion to "include the cost of postpartum depression treatment into maternity insurance", which was highly praised by netizens.
Many male friends think that childbirth is just a process of conception, conception, childbirth and nurturing. During this period, the vast majority of pregnant women can get 100% attention and care from their family members, and they can also receive the best material treatment, and they can also enjoy state-given allowances and more than 100 days of maternity leave. What else can be depressed of?
If you really think so, you would be very wrong. Ma Yun has an identity, status, and wealth. He looks healthy and his family is very harmonious. It is logically a perfect life. However, he will also encounter negative emotions such as troubles, anxiety, depression, and sometimes unhappy. , Let alone an ordinary mother.
Postpartum dissatisfaction with the gender of the child, the pain felt during the birth process, the loss of body shape and stretch marks, the confusion about the future, the transformation of oneself from a girl to a mother, the shift of focus on family members, and even Any detail that is different from that before giving birth can make them feel that they have been neglected may become a factor of depression, which is very difficult to prevent. Therefore, it is most important to learn how to vent the emotions and enlighten the mind.
Not only that, perhaps many friends don’t know that emotions are inseparable from conception. Negative emotions will not only harm the mental health of women after childbirth, but also have a great impact on couples' pregnancy.
Studies have shown that excessive long-term mental stress will affect the secretion of dopamine and norepinephrine, thereby inhibiting the secretion of hypothalamic gonadotropin releasing hormone, causing ovulation disorders, fallopian tube spasm, changes in cervical mucus, pelvic congestion, and sexual dysfunction When the problem is serious, it will cause infertility.
To put it simply, too much bad emotions may cause a variety of gynecological diseases, hinder pregnancy, and risk infertility, so you must also maintain a good attitude during pregnancy! Some friends of
may ask, I have chosen IVF because of the delay in getting pregnant, but the results of the tests are not satisfactory, so I am in a bad mood. Will this have any impact? Of course
will have an impact! Even if the success rate of IVF is relatively high, it is necessary to get healthy and high-quality sperm and eggs before the first treatment can be carried out. However, if women are affected by bad emotions for a long time, not only ovulation may be hindered, but also the quality of eggs and uterus. The internal environment and other factors will also be affected, and pregnancy will naturally be difficult. Therefore, in addition to observing the arrangements and following the doctor's instructions, you must maintain a positive attitude when doing test tubes!
Childbirth is not easy, and do it and cherish it. Emotions are very important to everyone, not only the impact on fertility, but even life may lose hope, and eventually lead to self-giving up, so learn to relieve stress, understand the venting of emotions and adjust the self mentality. Only by shaping the best state to welcome a good pregnancy can we usher in the most promising future.
Finally, I wish every couple who do test tube implantation success, a happy family and a good pregnancy, and get the most satisfactory pregnancy results.