nexpectedly, Joy Yung’s reputation has also turned bad, but a generation of queen was called “good green tea” by netizens? !
th matter starts with the variety show "Makino Family". Joey Yung, Prince Wang , and Wang Ziwen's boyfriend Wu Yongen are all guests of the show.
and Joey Yung's performance in the show caused controversy.
Many netizens complained: Joy Yung, you are so close to Wang Ziwen's boyfriend...
For example, when playing games, you have to hold hands:
https://www.com/ ml1 The game is over, and you have to take the initiative to come forward and hug:
Then, when you arrived at the dinner table, you actually enthusiastically picked up food for her boyfriend in front of Wang Ziwen:
I don’t know if it was the editor who did it on purpose or if Wang Ziwen suddenly revealed his true feelings.
The next second after Joey Yung finished picking up the dishes, Wang Ziwen's expression didn't look very happy:
Just like that, a few intimate clips, coupled with the unhappy expression of the genuine girlfriend, things continued to ferment on the Internet.
No surprise, Joey Yung was scolded: "She is so tea, she always goes to Wu Yongen who has a girlfriend!"
overnight, Joey Yung was almost becoming a new "tea art master".
However, anyone who has watched the full show will know that this wave of scolding is a bit unfair.
The reason why Joey Yung is better to Wu Yongen is that is actually completing the "Guardian" game formulated by the program team.
In this game, the guardian object that Joey Yung draws happens to be Wu Yongen.
Then according to the rules of the game, she needs to complete at least six things to express love to Wu Yongen.
Therefore, there were scenes such as holding hands, hugging, and helping picking up food in the show.
However, the game belongs to the game. Since Wu Yongen has a girlfriend, many people still think Joey Yung's performance is inappropriate.
Everyone’s controversy is summarized as: She doesn’t know how to avoid suspicion while getting along with her, and she has no sense of boundaries.
Looking at the entertainment industry, this kind of performance without a sense of boundaries is quite a few, and it causes bloody storms almost every time.
Take recent variety shows as an example. When Yang Mi Ding Chengxin , Han Dongjun rubbed his face and touched his head, netizens talked a lot.
Some people questioned that Yang Mi is too close to the opposite sex, and some people mentioned that this is no different from male stars sexually harassing female stars, right?
Just imagine, if a male star in his thirties touches Xiaohua's face, he will probably be scolded to death.
At the same time, details of Yang Mi's interaction with other male stars were also revealed.
During filming, she and Li Yifeng read the script hand in hand, or put their hands in Huang Xuan pocket to keep warm.
When recording a variety show, she liked to play Hua Chenyu 's hair and clothes rope.
Even if Hua Chenyu tried to pull the rope back, she would still grab another rope and continue playing...
This happened repeatedly, and some netizens couldn't help but start talking:
March and have children Yang Mi (the divorce was not officially announced yet) , shouldn't she keep an appropriate distance from the opposite sex? The appropriate distance of
is also an appropriate sense of boundary. Maintaining the boundary can avoid misunderstandings, and if you cross the boundary, you are easily controversial.
Check out the Hu La Tang incident a few years ago, Qin Junjie has a girlfriend, does not shy away from inviting Zhang Xueying to eat a bowl of Hu La Tang .
At the beginning, they each took a spoon and shared a bowl of soup.
But the director called him to film the film halfway through, and when he came back, he got confused.
At this time, Qin Junjie said at ease, "I don't care." Zhang Xueying was not polite, and drank directly against the bowl, and the controversy followed.
A netizen later explained that Zhang Xueying couldn't tell the difference between the two of them and was afraid of using the wrong side of the bowl.
But no matter what, Both of them lost their sense of boundaries when the man had a girlfriend, and has been scolded for several years.
and weekly and female assistants share a straw to drink milk tea. It is also questioned that married men should not do this, right?
Just when netizens were controversial about the siege on the week, Zhu Dan responded.
She maintained Zhou Yiwei very generously, said that her assistant looks like a sister and does not want her husband to be detained as a "scumbag" or "infidelity".
even the wife of the person involved said it was okay, so the onlookers respected and blessed.
Speaking of this, everyone has different perceptions of the sense of boundaries.
Some people don’t mind their husbands drinking a cup of milk tea with the opposite sex, while others mind the distance between their husbands and the opposite sex.
For example, Li Xiang. Before she divorced in her early years, Wang Yuelun had rumors of dating a beautiful woman in a hotel.
According to Wang Yuelun, the so-called beauty is a friend’s girlfriend.
But Li Xiang may not buy it. He first sent a WeChat message to question his friends, and then posted the chat history of the two on Weibo .
Her copywriting is very domineering: My friend’s girlfriend can’t take my car, get out!
. If you can’t grasp the boundaries well in getting along, you will cause controversy in minutes, or even bigger scandals.
But everyone is adults, can’t tell me what is cross-border behavior?
The answer is not. Take the entertainment industry as an example, some celebrities know how to maintain a sense of boundaries.
For example, Zhu Yawen . Previously, he showed "the feet don't fall to the ground and the fancy hug" in " Happy Camp ". He would choose to hug He Jiong .
Hi Jiong didn't understand very much and asked Zhu Yawen why, there was obviously a female guest on the scene?
Zhu Yawen said directly: I am married.
Later participated in " Voice Immigration ". The host asked Zhu Yawen to say a marriage vow. A audience all suggested to say to Du Haitao .
Originally the host was a little hesitant, Zhu Yawen first took episode: Choose Haitao I am safe too. A clear statement like
not only actively draws the boundaries, but also avoids scandals.
Like Deng Chao . In the game play session in variety shows, he needs to eat a cookie with Nazha .
Just after listening to the rules of the game, Deng Chao's first reaction was - I am a family member.
Immediately afterwards, he began to explain to the camera: Wife, this is a game, I promise not to touch my lips.
Answer sounds full of desire to survive, but in fact it grasps the sense of boundaries.
includes interacting with Jiang Yiyan . Seeing the other party leaning into his arms, Deng Chao blurted out again: I am a family member!
also has a desire to survive, and there is also Ren Jialun .
When he participated in an event earlier, he was teased whether he would flirt with girls. He said bluntly: What else do I flirt with? My task is to take care of children.
Knowing that you have a family and a child, try not to do things that make people misunderstand . This is a clear boundary.
is like Lu Yi. When she went out to play, she met a male fan and asked for a photo. she would say she was married and invite multiple people to take a photo.
Lu Yi is really rigorous, and after taking the photo, he also gave an explanation:
"I want to pull a girl to avoid being misunderstood. I am traveling with him."
Look at Gao Yuanyuan . In the variety show, Nicholas Tse invited her to eat a scallion pancake with her.
She smiled and said, "I don't want to share with you, I want to eat one by myself."
and Wu Qilong , Song Yi said he would give him half of the sandwich.
He will clearly refuse: "It's okay, you eat it."
Wu Qilong is very conscious and responsible for being a husband. He was also on the hot search earlier because he refused to hold his hands on his fans.
At that time, he took a photo with a female fan at the event. A fan wanted to hold Wu Qilong's arm.
Wu Qilong immediately sent a reminder: Be careful, I have a wife.
In this way, it is not difficult to find your "owner" identity and pay attention to the boundaries when getting along.
However, some people just lack a sense of boundaries and do things that cross the boundaries intentionally or unintentionally, which makes people feel uncomfortable.
Of course, this kind of cross-border relationship is not limited to getting along with the opposite sex. is also reflected in daily interpersonal communication.
The seven aunts and aunts in the family always like to ask: How much is your salary? Why don’t you get married? When do you have a child?
Then develop to friends and colleagues around you, and some people do not manage the boundaries well and regard impolite as being straightforward.
For example, explains that it is just a joke while saying harsh words.
After all, this is the lack of boundaries.
In any relationship, without a sense of boundaries, it is easy to offend others or cause misunderstandings.
But having a proper sense of boundaries will make both parties more comfortable.
has established boundaries, and both parties know how to do what they do not do. This is respect for each other and the basis for friendly getting along.
Image source / Network
Editor in charge / Niuhulusang
Editing / Jiajia
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