" bottom line " has been released, as the plot develops, it has shown a polarized reputation, and the audience shouted to abandon the show, which has sparked heated discussions among fans.
The drama also showed a trend of opening high and closing low and closing . Many old actors gathered together, and the lineup was so luxurious, why can't everyone stand it anymore?
Some people think the judge is too handsome, some people think the lines are too familiar, and some people think they ignore the feelings of the parties involved in the "real case".
From this point of view, most people watch this drama out of the mentality of "watching the fun" and ignore the true educational significance of the drama , such as the "real estate division" case.
is not important because it is an "outsider"?
This case is a relatively ridiculous scene that most people think. It is vividly displayed by the dependents and hurts the hearts of many young people.
A mother and her brother and sister went to court. Qiao Dazhuang asked the judge with confidence: "From ancient times to the present, how can you leave a house for your daughter?"
Very inconspicuous lines brought all thoughts back to real life for a moment. Since ancient times, in order to protect the elderly, the status of sons and daughters has always been a contradictory topic.
Some people think that as the only child in the family, since he assumed the responsibility of pension, he should inherit the inheritance.
The water splashed by the married daughter is already the one from her husband's family who has no right to play wildly in her parents' family. But when Qiao Xiaomei took out her mother's will, she wrote very clearly and left the last house to herself.
From this subtle detail, many parents should recognize the seriousness of the problem.
Both boys and girls have legal inheritance rights. Should the married daughter give in?
If this is true, what role does the daughter play between her parents’ and her in-laws’ family? Is life a little unfair to this group?
has drawn a clear line with her parents' home since a woman got married. She basically has no say in her home if she has anything at home.
has a special situation, that is, the closest relatives and beloved are sick. At this time, the so-called "outsider" acts as a "nanny", which seems to be in return for raising her.
is actually more like a high-end and elegant excuse. In the eyes of parents, I raised my daughter and arrived at my in-laws' home by the time the child would make money.
So the two are not equal, no matter whose daughter owes her original family, this has become a habit.
Many girls are also very conflicted about this issue. As a married person, how to deal with the two has become the biggest problem. If you spend money on your in-laws, you will feel that you owe your parents.
A person’s energy is limited. How can he support two families by relying on his own strength?
Over time, in order to balance the guilt in my heart, many girls try to serve them in a bowl of water. My husband’s family and my parents’ family are both happy, but my little days are beginning to become shaky.
I believe many married people have deep feelings about this, which is also the norm in many people's lives.
Are you wronged in your heart? Of course I feel very wronged, but I don’t know what to do. I even think that if I can’t treat everyone equally, it’s an unfilial act.
In the process, there are many sisters and sisters who play the role of taking care of their brothers or younger brothers. Their dowry lays a good foundation for marriage for their close relatives and loved ones.
Family ugliness must be exposed on certain occasions. These heavy burdens have always been the sadness that many girls endure. The property division case is combined with the "sudden death case of Internet celebrity".
are both daughters but have different endings. Isn’t it a kind of sadness? Luo Youyou and Qiao Xiaomei are two completely different life trajectories.
A diligent work, like a money tree, was overdrawn by his close relatives and loved ones, his life was a mess, and he even had the idea of suicide.
The more the performance between Qiao Xiaomei and her family was calm and rational. Even if her brother made unreasonable requests, she bravely said no.
all say that in the face of interests, many problems can be reflected. Qiao Xiaomei is also a daughter, Luo Youyou, but the different experiences and results of these two daughters are not worth everyone's deep consideration.
is also writing about her own life. Why did Luo Youyou become a tragedy? Qiao Xiaomei is proud?
First of all, it is the original family. Luo Youyou's original family does not have much human touch. Apart from her younger brother, she cares about her feelings.
The parents have the attitude of making the best of their own things, and she lives like a puppet. Don’t know how to refuse, don’t know how to complain, and being sensible makes people feel distressed.
Before getting married, Luo Youyou had already shouldered the burden of his younger brother's loan, let alone the future? If this girl has no accidents, will she be happy in her subsequent life?
However, no matter how strong Luo Youyou is, he cannot withstand the uncontrollable harm of his parents, regardless of the harm.
Life needs a spiritual pillar, and Luo Youyou never understands what he means in the family from beginning to end.
Qiao Xiaomei is relatively rational. Judging from her actions at the trial, she is a very opinionated person.
When Qiao Dazhuang swallowed the will, she smiled and said, "You are eating a copy."
shows that in life, she is rational enough to face her family. Although Qiao Dazhuang has always emphasized that she is a family that passes on to the family and the house should belong to her.
In the face of this behavior, Qiao Xiaomei did not tolerate it, but instead exposed her brother's various inactions in front of the judge.
When the family was demolished, Qiao Dazhuang coaxed and deceived him and took away three houses, leaving only this house.
Qiao Xiaomei knows her position very well and should not compete with her brother.
Qiao Dazhuang was not doing his job properly because of gambling and he lost all three houses. He was unwilling to give up and even thought about the elderly’s pension and beat him up.
After his mother passed away, Qiao Dazhuang sued his sister, and the brother and sister went to court. The moment the will was taken out, I felt sad for the old man.
As an old mother, she is still guarding against her own son at the last moment of her life, isn’t this a sadness?
The reason why Qiao Xiaomei can obtain the inheritance rights of this house is not to enjoy the benefits. It’s when my mother was seriously ill, she got the property only after she was serving her clothes without any care.
Some people find the gap between children absurd, but it is more ordinary in real life.
Qiao Xiaomei’s situation and her approach to problems have reminded many girls.
No matter what kind of family disputes are faced, you must say no bravely instead of blindly endure it. Otherwise, it will become "Luo Youyou", the feelings will be ignored, and the feelings will be demanded unscrupulously.
Marrying does not mean being an "outsider"
In addition, Qiao Xiaomei also sounded a wake-up call to many parents, especially those families that prefer boys over girls.
Many people’s perception is to raise children to prevent old age, but when life really comes, how many people can have a clear conscience?
The richest property that parents leave to their children is not the property but the correct values.
In the process of educating children, most people ignore this level and always feel that working hard for half a lifetime and accumulating more wealth can bring happiness in their later years. Is this really true in
? As parents grow older, their children also have their own families. Whatever their lives in their later years does not depend on money.
If children are filial to their knees for the sake of inheritance, this is the sorrow of a family. has no affection, just having a purpose, isn’t it disappointing as parents?
I hope every elderly person can look at it rationally and don’t really make mistakes, to the point where it is irreversible.
The person who truly determines happiness in his later years is not his own son or daughter, but his daughter-in-law and son-in-law.
Some people will feel ironic when they see this, but those who have really experienced it understand that this is the truth. If the daughter-in-law is reasonable and cooperates with her son to support the elderly, she will have a very happy life in her later years.
If the son-in-law also joins it, how happy it is to visit "splashed water" frequently? It is said that family harmony is prosperous, and marriage requires two people to run, and a big family needs everyone to maintain it.
There will be conflicts in any level, and conflicts will breed, which will affect the essence of life.
The nourishment of spoiling is not to repay kindness, it is very likely that it is natural to rely on the parents. Only when a person is lying on the hospital bed can he feel true "filial piety".
The idea of favoring boys over girls has been abandoned, and girls can also bring honor to the family. Marrying does not mean being an "outsider".
Whether children can shine their ancestors is not determined by gender, but by their character.
No matter who it is, you should respect the other party and love yourself well.
The water splashed by the daughter who was married is like a cancer, which is too unfair.
With such thoughts, many parents have started to think about their daughters before they get married, especially in some rural areas.
The drama "Bottom Line", we should not be watching "lively", , but thanking the other party for putting these "sensitive topics" in front of everyone, presenting different educational significance.
View other people's units and combined with their own situation, although they cannot empathize with it, I believe that every audience feels emotional resonance. What do you think about this?
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