Someone asked me: "What do you think it feels like to meet the right person?"
I said: , "It's probably not an encounter, but a reunion!" Z18z
is the kind of feeling of seeing before you, you You will find that after waiting for so many years and finally waiting for the person who can release his gentleness, you will get a positive response from him for your efforts. All the beautiful illusions in your heart will be added to him, because you know that he really understands you and everything you give is worth it. As long as you think of him, the corners of your mouth will lift up, revealing a silly smile. People who don’t know thought you were a nympho!
Speaking of meeting the right person, I think of a girl friend next to me. She has a female character and usually does not move: "Hey, buddy, do you have anything to eat? Give me one!" , You can't handle this, I will do it myself." As long as she is there, there is basically no need for a man, and it is all done by one person.
But later, when she saw us one day, she suddenly changed her appearance. She wore a small floral dress and spoke a lot more softly. Even her eyes seemed to flash with blingbling stars. At that time, we joked: "Hey, have you been in a relationship recently, which has changed so much? Say, who took you this monster?"
took a look at us, and then took out the phone, I don’t know where to slip. For a long time, I finally found a picture of a boy. Well, the image of boys is very kind and handsome. She said, this is my boyfriend, and then she blushed and shy after she said, tusk tusk.
She told us that they had only known each other for only a month, but they felt that they were familiar with each other for the first time, and wondered if they owed any debts in their previous life, which they will pay in this life?
then talked about the details of their relationship. She mentioned one thing that impressed me. When two people chat, it is just like opening a chatterbox. If you say something, I’m poor, it can inspire a friend’s humor in minutes. .
I asked her to give an example. She said that she told her boyfriend: "Do you think I am blind to see you?" The boyfriend said, "Yeah, then why didn't you wipe your 24k titanium alloy? Golden dog eyes, take a good look." A word blocked his friend's speech, but he laughed.
It turns out that when you meet the right person, you can even get a joke from you. Even if you talk about some nonsense, you can enjoy it.
I remember seeing the Venus Show before, and Venus interviewed Zhao Youting. He said that he was rather bored and he returned to his house. Later, Venus asked him how much he had talked with Gao Yuanyuan at home. He used a word: "Crazy talk." It also means that both of them are talking crazy.
You see, a good love, two people will always have endless words when they are together. They can share a day’s experience at the dinner table, and they can drink tea and chat at home. I understand what you say, I say You all respond. Only in this way can you meet the right person.
A previous reader told me about her experience. She had a 4-year-old son after 5 years of marriage, and her marriage life was very bad. When she returned home, she always criticized and criticized her coldly when she was always fair, without a word of encouragement or affirmation.
"Look at this place is dirty, you don't know how to wipe it at home. I'm so tired from working outside, do you still expect me to come back to do it?"
"Can you save some money, what else do you buy? Everyday I know that I was wasting Lao Tzu’s money.”
In fact, this man did nothing. His monthly salary of 4,000 yuan, and the living allowance for the family, was not enough to buy milk powder for the child. But he relied that he was the only source of income for the family, so he regarded himself as an uncle and asked his wife to be the cow and horse for him.
I asked her, do you think this kind of life can survive?
She said, at the beginning, I had been tolerating it and felt that I could make it through. But now I don't want to bear it anymore. This person doesn't care how I feel at all. Now my son is sick and doesn't have much money to take care of. I have to leave this bastard.
I don't believe it, I can't live without him? Tomorrow I will find a job and study, and he will be an uncle who he likes to be an uncle!
When a woman is married onceThe marriage is so heartbroken that even ten cows cannot be brought back. And the energy in her lays the foundation for meeting better people in the future!
She temporarily gave the child to her mother to take care of her, and she enrolled in a training class to learn skills. However, in the process of learning, a man felt that she was working hard and had a good personality. After that, the two people began to help each other and encourage each other.
Now they are married. This husband treats her very well. He knows how to share housework and treats children as his own. He is very profitable, and he is more considerate of his parents. The two have a happy second child.
is going out now, and his husband is holding her hand, and he says what if she is afraid that she will be lost? Recalling the painful marriage before, she said what life was like before, it is simply not as good as a pig and a dog.
So, who you marry is really different. When you meet the wrong person, he will make your otherwise good life plummet and destroy all your energy and dedication. When you meet the right person, all the injuries you have suffered before will be resolved by his warmth until the smoke disappears.
Regarding love, Qian Zhongshu once wrote a beautiful text to Yang Jiang. He said: "Before I met you, I never thought about getting married, meeting you, getting married, I never thought about being with anyone. "
It's probably this feeling to meet the right person. I just want to be with you, I just want to marry you, and I don’t want anyone else, so I will depend on you for a lifetime.
When Qian Zhongshu and Yang Jiang met for the first time, Qian Zhongshu excitedly said: "It is said that I am engaged to the outside world. This is not a fact. Please don't believe it." Yang Jiang also quickly explained: "There are rumors that there are boys who pursue me. There are so many Confucian disciples "72 people", and some people say that Fei Xiaotong is my boyfriend. This is not true either.
So dear girl, please believe: no matter how bitter lovesickness is, no matter how tiring the pursuit, no matter how long the wait is. After you really find a lover, happiness will come to life. This is the comfort of being naked and immersed in hot water after being so tired. The whole soul relaxes and can lean on one shoulder and fall asleep peacefully.
Love is actually very simple, that is, after meeting this person, your whole life will be relieved.
does not have the age to marry, only the feelings that should be married. After all, you are still so good, and it is better to treat marriage than to be indiscriminate.
Because you will find that if you really meet the right person someday, all your waiting before will become worthwhile!
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