reporter Liu Yiting/Comprehensive report
Wang Junping (Alex's mother) married his French husband and gave birth to two mixed boys, Alexander and Andri (Fei'an). The family is highly popular on the Internet. When Alex was playing with a neighbor boy recently, he was suddenly beaten violently and smashed in the face with a wooden stick. He cried and screamed for this, making the parents who had witnessed all this sad. Afterwards, Alex's mother also posted on PO.com and said sadly, "Is too good a personality, is it a good thing to be too kind?"
▲ Wang Junping often shares her parenting life and has a large number of fans' attention. (Photo/Retrieved from Wang Junping's Facebook)
Wang Junping expressed emotionally on the 6th, "Is it a good personality to be too kind? Too good/too stupid." She believes that Alexander's personality is too good and too much. Kindness, parents are happy at the beginning, but then they are worried and reluctant. The reason why she was so sighed was that an unexpected situation occurred when Alexander was playing with the neighbor boy a few days ago.
Two days ago, Alexander learned that a neighbor boy who was 2 years older than him came to play with him. The hospitable he immediately greeted him, not only prepared biscuits and drinks, but also secretly gave out many of his beloved Pokémon cards. People are playing happily at Alexander's house, when everything is fine.
The next day, change Alexander to play at the boy's house. Unexpectedly, when two people were playing "jumping on bed" in the courtyard, Wang Junping, who was drying clothes on the second floor of the house, suddenly heard her son's screams and crying, "I hurriedly looked at the window and saw that the other party kept jumping, making Ya Li couldn't stand up and kept beating Alex all the time, with his head wrapped in both hands." Although she felt distressed, she hoped that the children would handle it by themselves and the parents would not show up, so she held back and observed how Alex would deal with it.
▲ Alexander was beaten by a neighbor boy and hit with a wooden stick in the face. (Photo/Retrieved from Wang Junping's Facebook)
Wang Junping revealed that in fact, her husband had been on the first floor at the time, watching all this angrily. Later, because her husband couldn’t bear it, he sent her to pick up Alex home, "I opened the door and yelled, "Alex is ready, go home." Who knows that the other party is also here, so they are in the courtyard. Play.” Unexpectedly, the two of them didn't know how to play. The little boy suddenly picked up the wooden stick and slammed it on Alex's face. When Wang Junping and his wife heard Alex crying, they immediately rushed out to check.
Later, after Wang Junping took Alexander home, she began to comfort and asked about the situation that day. Alex said, "At the beginning of the game, he asked me not to move, but I didn’t move. Then he jumped wildly and I fell and I couldn’t get up because he kept jumping and he didn’t want me to get up. Then he started beating me all the time. , I told him not to fight, he just kept beating." Upon hearing this, Wang Junping couldn't help but hug the child in distress.
As for the stick smashed in the face, Alexander said, "He suddenly threw it over. I have no idea. He would pick up the stick and throw me at me." Then, Wang Junping began to teach her son that he must learn to judge and protect himself, "No one can hit you, touch you, if you feel uncomfortable, you have to resist, advise not to listen, mother wants you to fight back, fight back hard. Don’t be afraid. Mom saw him beating you all the time. In the end, you were really angry. You rebelled and you hit him. Dad and I saw that you were about to win the fight. Who knows that you will stop later. You are very kind. Mom knows , Playing together is not like beating people.”
Wang Junping said that she actually hates to criticize other children. She only hopes that Alexander must learn to observe and grow strong, “don’t be too good and become too stupid.” She also confessed that when she was typing this article, she couldn’t help crying, but parents could only teach their children well, “Last night when Alex fell asleep, my husband and I went into the room. Touch his forehead, kiss him and hug him, because we are very reluctant." Finally, she also joked that if Adi was there at the time, "Adi will definitely protect his brother and hit him."
▲ Wang Junping and his wife both believed that if Adi was present, they would definitely come forward to protect Alex. (Photo/Retrieved from Wang Junping’s Facebook) After the process of
was made public, it immediately attracted a large number of netizens to leave messages and concern, “Teaching him to protect himself is really important, especially Alex is very kind and easy to be treated as a cowardly performance”, "We are all distressed by the words, and Alex's parents must be more distressed." "I am also a mother, and I really agree with your way of education." Met with Alex beforeZhang Jinglan, the goddess of China, could not help but leave a message saying, "Alex is really kind, and it's really hard for parents to hold back and stop them." There was an unexpected discussion on the Internet.
