On the evening of December 14, the 31-year-old male celebrity Wang Lixin announced his divorce on Weibo. It was really sudden, and the topic suddenly became "boiling."
His post said "I'll get out of the car first", and his former wife was "roommate". Although there is no tearing and resentment in language, but from the sentence "If you live a happy future, I will bless you ; If you are in trouble, I will still be your best friend standing behind you" You know, the two are really past tense.
If your life is good or bad in the future, I am just a "goodwill" bystander.
Then, the woman Wu Yating also issued a simpler sentence: choosing another way to get along is perhaps the best end for us. Be well and wish you happiness.
left a bunch of question marks to the netizens .
01 The term "roommate" has become a true word:
Wang Lixin, due to his debut in "Happy Boys", belongs to the rare "early marriage" among male stars.
In 2015, when he was 26 years old, Wu Yating, an outsider in hand, entered into marriage.
The combination of the two at that time can be said to meet the best you at the best time.
all know that a male celebrity is basically not a traffic star after getting married, so when Wang Lixin resolutely married at that time, he really moved a group of netizens: this is definitely true love.
After nine months of marriage, the young couple excitedly welcomed their first child. Wang Lixin said: Deciding to spend the next year with this little lover, being a dad is full of happiness.
He also knows how hard his wife gave birth, accompanied and cared for the whole process, and was grateful for everything.
gave birth to the "little lover" almost exactly the same as his father, and later also appeared in the parent-child variety show "Let's Go Home and Eat", and the little girl has countless fans.
On the show, Wang Lixin said that he participated in the show because his wife wanted it. He felt that since he loves a woman, he should give her whatever she wants, and set up a proper husband.
But in fact, Wang Lixin, because of work, he rarely can accompany his wife and children.
For example, the show requires him to go home and eat with his family before 7pm. Although Wang Lixin promised, he broke his promise on the first day because he wanted to record the show, so he couldn't keep the agreement.
usually can be seen. There are also complaints between husband and wife in the
show. Wu Yating smiled and said, "Her eldest son is Wang Lixin, because he can hardly take care of himself."
but at the time everyone regarded it as the daily routine of a loving young couple, and laughed away.
At this time, their second child has been born. If Wang Lixin is as his wife said, it is equivalent to Wu Yating taking care of three children, two small children and one older child in her life.
Daily life will not be easy.
However, in the interaction of their social accounts, it is rare to see the life of a chicken feather, but more happiness and joy. Each photo looks like a brochure of "deceiving a second child".
But after the interaction between the two of them before, Fanjie found the word in the divorce statement: "roommate".
So they called each other roommates. The words
became true, and the former loving couple today became real roommates.
The surface of the loving couple is actually surging under the current.
02 became roommates and became the "bitterest joke of the year"
Another couple who slept as roommates were celebrity talk show couples Siwen and Cheng Lu.
In July this year, the two became "real brothers."
As the "talk show queen" thinking, there was once a very popular paragraph:
Who said there is no pure friendship between men and women, you try to get married. Make sure you dress transparently, and he can treat you as transparent;
Since you treat your husband as a buddy, don’t worry about the two people who will sleep in separate beds after a long time, so you can directly switch to the upper and lower bunks, then he will sleep on you. Brother on the upper bunk.
Cheng Lu also talked about the quarrel between the two in marriage. He said, "In the end, I won and the family was gone." The joke is really funny, but the person involved is really sad.
"Marriage is not there, brothers are still". The core of comedy is tragedy.
Siwen frequently mentioned a theme in last year's paragraph "She got a serious illness", but because the two people were too busy and too "independent", when Siwen was ill, Cheng Lu had almost no company, and Siwen was only seeing the doctor and working alone. On the way to fight the disease.
What is the meaning of marriage? Just like that saying, if you are not there at a critical time, you will never need to be there again.
In the most helpless time, Siwen needs the care of her husband, not the care of her roommate.
But if you were still a roommate then, then, be your roommate for life.
Just like Cheng Lu said, marriage has a lot of homework to do, such as "accompanying". In some moments I did not accompany her, and the emotional damage was actually quite big.
The paradox is that 2020 is not over yet. At the beginning of this year, the "Tucao Conference" held a "husband and wife" special. The guests invited were three star couples: Gillian and Lai Guohong, Yi Nengjing and Qin Hao, Siwen Two of them have divorced with Cheng Lu.
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Gillian swore in the first two days: never marry again.
Hong Kong media reporter interviewed Gillian: "Is there any chance of reunification between you and Lai Hongguo?"
Gillian replied categorically: "No." "Z2z
Gillian said: "I don't think I won't get married again, it's enough to get married once. I don't think I'm suitable for marriage, there is no need."
Her decision actually speaks to a lot of girls' aspirations to some extent. : People just have the ability and conditions not to marry, if I have, I choose not to marry.
In modern times, when women are more and more able to protect their living conditions, our need for marriage is no longer satisfied with the material level, and the physical passion is relatively short-lived, and more comes from spiritual needs.
But we can only say that marriages that can satisfy each other's spiritual needs are lucky.
eventually became "roommates" and "brothers on the bunk bed" because of too many marriages. Not only can they not give each other spiritual companionship and pleasure, they also constantly add to each other mentally, such as cold violence, cheating, PUA Wait.
The rising divorce rate and the falling marriage rate all seem to tell us: marriage is not a necessity.
who originally wanted to provide a new kind of "roommate marriage" ended up becoming real roommates.
Just like Cheng Lu said:
We have provided you with a kind of marital lifestyle "brothers on the upper and lower bunk", I think you may like it, and slowly, we are separated in this way.
Wang Lixin and Wu Yating did not officially announce that they were divorced, but starting today, they have also caught the stick of "couple sleeping as real roommates". I don't know who will pass the next one?
Marriage is not easy, and it is easy and cherished.
