Text|The original heart
When a woman reaches the age of 30, if she cannot marry, she will become an older leftover woman in people’s mouth. Then, what is the main reason for not marrying?
Not long ago, many people have watched the TV series "Thirty Only". The epitome of the three women (Gu Jia, Zhong Xiaoqin, Wang Manni) in the play, has never been a portrayal of women’s lives at the moment,
Gu Jia, an excellent Can no longer be excellent people; in career, to give advice to her husband Xu Huanshan; in family, to seek the best educational resources for children, this kind of life is not exactly what thousands of women pursue.
Wang Manni, a sales elite of a brand clothing store, a woman with outstanding performance and excellent body and appearance, but in love, she is in a mess, missed the cafe owner, actively dedicated herself to "Sea King" Liang Zhengxian, and gave up her stable job Single men, in the end, still did not marry himself out.
Look at the female character Zhong Xiaoqin, a female clerk who works in a property company and anyone can scream and drink. After quarreling with her husband Chen Yu, divorce, and remarriage, she became the happiest woman in the play.
Through the stories of three women, let’s discuss the reason why older leftover women can’t get married? Is it true that the older leftover women cannot marry because the men are not good enough?
Divorced female star Ma Yili’s view of marriage and love is confusing
Speaking of female star Ma Yili, many people are familiar with her. Ma Yili’s ex-husband is an article. Later, because her husband’s article has an affair with Yao Di, a sentence of "Go ahead and cherish" maintained the marriage for several years, but it ended in divorce.
After the divorce, Ma Yili occasionally talked about love and marriage during the interview.
Recently, the results of the census will be announced. For this census, some people think that the number of men is more than half of the number of women. However, even so, there are still many older leftover women who cannot get married.
Regarding the topic of "older leftover women can't get married", Ma Yili expressed his views and opinions in a recent interview program. The content is as follows:
"You go to calculate the population ratio, it must be more men than women, but Why are there not so many girls married out? Because women are so good, women are constantly self-successful, self-improving, self-examination, and self-change. At the same time, too few men are making progress, so they become girls. The feeling of not being able to marry."
briefly summarized, meaning "women can't marry, because women are too good and men are too bad."
When I heard Ma Yili’s view of marriage and love, I couldn’t help but smile. That’s why, when I saw a comment left by a netizen, I smiled again on my face. This netizen left a message: “A good man, Looking for an older leftover girl?"
Women are "too picky" in marriage, and the ending is very miserable.
Which girl does not want to marry a rich family, or to marry into a good family, it is best not to worry about food or clothes , Living the same life as Futai. Of course, this kind of life is too vulgar for women in the upper class.
A woman who has no strength to tie her hands and can rely on, some people say she is herself. In fact, to be realistic, she can’t do without a man. There is a saying that “women work better than marry well”.
So, women want to marry a "quality" man, what is a "quality" man?
is the standard for high-quality males. In the eyes of most parents, means having a house, a car, a good job, and a savings ; I would like to ask, before the age of 30, a man can create such a "good" How many standard boys are there?
A bad situation is inevitably caused by a vicious circle.
Women are too "picky" in choosing their spouse, and they are getting older and older, and they prefer not to be indiscriminate. This is the main reason why women cannot really get married.
Before the age of thirty, there are not many excellent "conditions" for men. After the age of 30, the first choice for men with conditions must be young and beautiful girls.
as in "Thirty"That's it" Wang Manni missed the coffee shop owner and gave up Zhang Zhi, a civil servant, destined to become an older leftover woman. Looking back at Xu Huanshan and Chen Yu, they are "excellent" men? It is estimated that in the process of watching the drama, there are many women who scold them.
Marriage first considers the character of the man, and then the financial ability. Whether it can be long-term, it needs to be maintained and managed by each other.
men all have a common problem. They do everything possible to pursue them. They don’t cherish them after they get them, and they regret it after they lose them. If
attributed all the reasons that older leftover women can’t marry out, it’s a wrong view that men are too bad and not good enough. You should find your own reasons.
Why other people's husbands are always excellent in your eyes. An excellent man must have a powerful woman behind him. When marrying a man, don't be short-sighted, but take a long-term view.
Don't always stare at the rich second generation. Sometimes, by marrying potential stocks, you may become the woman behind a good man.
"Don't bully the young and poor", women, don't underestimate the men before the age of 30. One day, they will make you unaffordable.
