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Before the article starts, let’s do the questions first.
For this question, the 41-year-old love queen Xiao Yaxuan answered: Of course.
However, her 25-year-old boyfriend Huang Hao directly replied: No.
So, the two were sent to the hot search together.
In the latest issue of "Daughters' Love", Xiao Yaxuan's boyfriend Huang Hao got this problem when playing the game "Truth or Dare".
’s answer is: “If you can be friends, it’s not true love.”
but Xiao Yaxuan bluntly said “I can”, because “you love will produce feelings, and feelings will be sublimated into friendship. These are all feelings. It's all love."
also responded to her previous birthday wishes to her ex: "The phone reminds me to forget to change it. By the way, I say happy birthday as soon as I sublime."
Although netizens admire Xiao Yaxuan's free and easy and generous, but In the comments and discussions, most of them agreed with Huang Hao's point of view: it is impossible for to truly love someone to become a friend. The best result is to become the "most familiar stranger".
In subsequent programs, the guests also discussed the topic of "whether to say hello to the ex".
The generally accepted practice is: if you meet on a narrow road, it is better for everyone to calmly treat it as if you have not seen it.
Love is easy to die, but life is long, and it is inevitable that when you meet again- passing by is undoubtedly the best way.
Any piece of love is precious, even if it does not reach the end, it is also a memory that is worth keeping forever on the road of our life. What we have to do is to respect the past love and the current life.
The story of Lin Huiyin and Xu Zhimo need not be repeated. However, I have to say that when Lin Huiyin, who was only 16 years old, faced the breakup, he revealed a sense and calmness over his age. "Those who love and those who do not love are in the farewell. In the farewell, if you don't cross the boundary, knowing to advance and retreat, maybe there will be a clear sky after wandering."
Compared with Lin Huiyin’s transparency, Zhang Ailing broke up after experiencing the pain of love, "I don’t like you anymore, you don’t like me anymore... Don’t come to me, or write , I don’t read it either."
The famous Austrian writer Stephen Zweig described in "A Letter from a Stranger Woman" another "love that never started but seems to be breaking up all the time." . In this story, love is one-way, there is no feedback and no response- love is a matter of one person, love is a matter of two people. So I love you, it has nothing to do with you.
Xu Jinglei once adapted "A Letter from a Strange Woman" into a movie. This pipa song with a long and poignant mood has been intermittently interspersed in the movie, as if a woman was crying in a low voice.
This is a story about love, but not just love.
A writer received a letter on her 41st birthday, from a woman who was about to die.
"You, you who have never known me!" is the beginning of the whole letter. The
letter tells an unforgettable love story-18 years ago, a woman just met that man, and she fell in love with him. She followed him silently, obsessed with love for half her life, but men didn't know that there was a woman who would love herself so much and loved herself for a lifetime.
This is a love that takes a lifetime to footnote, the ultimate secret love.
was thirteen years old. The moment she met a man for the first time, she fell in love at first sight and couldn't help herself. In the torrent of years, that extreme love keeps increasing. She committed herself to him three times and waited for his call all her life. She went to pick up the cigar butts he had smoked, stroked the doorknobs he had touched, and even shed dust for their children. He knew nothing about all this, and he couldn't even remember the face of the familiar and unfamiliar woman.
"My whole life, my life has always belonged to you, but you never know anything about my life", this woman's life is nothing more than waiting, waiting for a smile from the other side, a chance encounter, waiting Know again.
Xu Jinglei, Jiang WenThe starring "Letter from a Stranger Woman"
"I am always nervous for you and trembling for you; but you have no feeling about it, just like you have a pocket watch in your pocket, and you have no feeling for its tight clockwork The same; this clockwork patiently counts your hours for you in secret, counts your time, and accompanies you around with its inaudible heartbeat, while you are tickling millions in it. I only glanced at it once in a second.”
can hardly believe that such a story of a woman with delicate brushstrokes was written by a male writer and was the author of the excellent biography "When the Stars Are Shining" by Zwei grid.
In fact, Zweig has also received two letters from "stranger women" in his life. It is these two letters that inspired Zweig to complete such a rich and colorful work based on artistic processing. Lonely image.
Gorky’s comment on this novel is: “This short story is deeply moved by its amazing sincere tone, superhuman tenderness to women, originality of the theme, and the bizarre expressive power that only real artists have. Reading this novel, I laughed happily-you wrote so well! Because of the sympathy for your heroine, because of her image and her sad heart song, I was so excited that I could not control myself, I was not ashamed I started to cry."
The storyteller used imagination and art to depict an extreme possibility in the world of love.
People who read the story lamented the innocence and despair of women, but also wondered whether this love exists?
Or, does this count as love at all?
I remember every detail enthusiastically, I clearly remember the first time I heard someone talk about you, the day I saw you for the first time, no, that hour, it just happened today, I How can you not remember? Because it was then that the world started for me. Be patient, dear, wait for me to start from the beginning, I beg you, listen to me and talk about myself for a quarter of an hour, don’t get bored, I will never get bored if I love you for a lifetime!
But there is no one around me, I can’t tell others what I’m thinking about, no one to point me, remind me that I have no experience, no thoughts: I plunged into my destiny like I fell into an abyss .
He felt as if an invisible door had suddenly opened, and a gust of cold wind swished from another world into his quiet room. He felt a death and an immortal love: for a while, he had mixed feelings in his heart, and he missed the invisible woman, without substance, full of passion, like music from afar.
In this world, there is nothing more terrifying than being in a crowd and living alone. After
broke up, Love turned around.
Whether you are the most familiar stranger,
is still willing to be an unnamed crush,
"letting go of the past" is always the most important thing.
doesn't worry about it in the name of the enemy,
doesn't mess around in the name of friendship,
is a positive answer.
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