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Today, Guo Jingjing and Huo Qigang are on the hot search again! On the 8th anniversary of
's wedding, Huo Qigang posted a close group photo, which made countless netizens shout "good happiness".
This is not the first time Huo Qigang "shows" his love.
A few days ago, when he saw something while choosing stationery with his son, he said sweetly that Guo Jingjing had given it to him. What is
?
turned out to be a paper origami star!
Huo Qigang "shows off" to the camera with a happy face: I have it at home, and it was made by my wife...
The dignified "diving queen" will be like an ordinary girl and give lucky stars to those you like!
netizens shouted too grounded: This is very similar to us, the memory of turning stars after 8090!
In fact, Guo Jingjing and his wife have been praised for popular searches for their simple and low-key behaviors.
Guo Jingjing wears 5 woolen ropes and carries a one-hundred-yuan bag. Huo Qigang goes to the supermarket to buy discounted bread and carries woven bags with him...
In addition to their unpretentious love story, the two are also very low-key and grounded in educating children!
The daily routine of nurturing their children, let us know:
how can there be a wealthy education! The best education of
is never material, but a contest between the parents themselves!
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Being busy with children is never an excuse
Some time ago, Deng Yaping conducted an interview with Guo Jingjing as the host.
From the interview, it can be seen that Guo Jingjing and his wife attach great importance to the company of their children.
Guo Jingjing personally transports her children to and from school almost every day. When the school holds sports games, she also joins the family committee and actively participates in the preparation of various matters.
And Huo Qigang, no matter how busy he is at work, every day he takes time to go home to have dinner with his wife and children.
Even if there is socializing in the evening, if there is an hour in between, he has to go home to see the child first, and then go out.
Just because I am afraid I will come back too late, the child will go to bed. What a great love and companionship! Before
, when Huo Qigang attended an event in Guangzhou, when asked how to balance family and career, he bluntly stated that being busy with work is not the reason for absenting the child to grow up.
He said that the time was arranged by himself.
If you don't cherish these time with your child, your child will grow up soon.
not only that, but he also emphasized that “ don’t think that if you hand over your children to school, you are not responsible. ”
couples attach so much importance to companionship and family education. In their daily companionship, we often see this Scenes.
accompany the baby to read together, wander the ocean of knowledge:
take the baby to the supermarket and enjoy each other's intimate time:
In life, there are always people who are busy at work and have no time as a reason to ignore the company of their children.
When the children grow up and become rebellious and disobedient, they complain that the children are not close to them and are ignorant!
But in fact, a good parent-child relationship comes from "accompanying".
psychologist David Elkind said:
children most need to know that they are important to their parents and will always be surrounded by love.
Children who grow up in love, they are nourished by enough love, life will be more calm and calm.
parenting experts have always emphasized that parent-child relationship is more than all education.
The best starting line for children is actually the high-quality company of their parents.
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Raising a child should be "ruthless"
Although, Guo Jingjing and Huo Qigang are very gentle with parents in accompanying their children.
However, for cultivating good habits for children, she is a tiger mother, a wolf father, bothStart "relentless" parenting.
Deng Yaping mentioned in the interview that Guo Jingjing’s father-in-law, Fok Zhenting, once commented on her that she is very strict with her children.
Guo Jingjing responded to this: When grandpa
came over, he was doing his homework, and I would let him finish his homework before going to play with grandpa.
I want him to develop good habits and plan his time instead of doing what he wants.
Homework is the first, and play is the second. Even if it is grandpa Huo Zhenting, he cannot easily interfere with the child's good habit of focusing on learning.
Huo Qigang also attaches importance to the cultivation of children's habits:
, in order to prevent children from developing the bad habit of buying whatever they want, he asked his 6-year-old son and 3-year-old daughter to help him wash the car.
To get pocket money through labor, children will understand that money is hard-won.
Many parents feel that their children are still young, so they can relax a little bit and wait until they are older.
But Confucius once said: " is like nature, and habits are like nature. "
Some habits that children develop when they are young are like human nature, which is naturally firm and difficult to change.
Therefore, true visionary parents, when it comes to cultivating children's good habits, they should be "ruthless" and "ruthless", and never soften their hearts.
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The ultimate truth of wealthy education:
does not rely on money, but hard work
Every parent wants to give their children a better life, but the parents’ beloved son should make far-reaching plans.
Guo Jingjing and Huo Qigang, although they are wealthy families, try their best to "poor" their children in their lives.
Not long ago, a photo of Huo's living room surprised many netizens!
A normal-sized LCD TV, glass bottles everywhere, and a yellow on-hook air conditioner.
This is a far cry from the magnificent mansion that people imagine.
But this is also the brilliant way of parenting Guo Jingjing and Huo Qigang:
gives children full of love and company, but never takes them to the luxurious road.
They will buy clothes and shoes for children at street stalls and discount stores.
Once some netizens pointed out excitedly that Guo Jingjing's son also has more than 200 shoes, which are very common.
not only raises children materially, but Guo Jingjing and his wife take their children to bear hardships.
For example, let the children participate in housework, not clothes to stretch out their hands and food to open their mouths.
is too young to reach the pot platform? It's okay! Standing on the stool, start learning to cook too! What about
hot summer?
wants the children to learn how to cherish food. Tiger mother and wolf father take the children directly, roll up their trouser legs, and plant seedlings in the farmland.
After planting the seedlings, a family of three went to the villagers’ homes to eat farm meals. Although
worked hard, his son Huo Zhongxi had a happy and content smile on his face. There is a saying in
, it is better to nourish the poor than to nourish the poor. This intention of
is not only embodied in the material "endurance", but also embodied in the spiritual guidance of setting an example.
Not long ago, Huo Qigang ran for the general election of the Hong Kong Legislative Council and received a lot of support.
As the eldest son of the Huo family, he is not only the leader of the family business, but also the vice chairman of the All-China Youth Federation Committee. He has never stopped his pace of self-improvement and is called the most promising "rich three generations" by netizens. .
And Guo Jingjing's career is not inferior to her husband.
Whether it’s self-study before marriage, or as the chairman of the family’s Nansha culture after marriage, actively participating in various charity activities...
Dong Qing once said in "Face to Face":
"What do you want your child to be like? People, what kind of person do you want to be first!"
Even the family of Guo Jingjing’s husband and wife has reached a career beyond ordinary people’s reach.However, they are still trying to be better themselves and set the best example for their children.
In the past, many people dismissed the term "fighting father" because it was fighting father's financial resources and rights.
But now, we are beginning to be popular to fight parents, but the fight is the degree of parental care.
How can there be any wealthy education? There are parents like Guo Jingjing and Huo Qigang in the
wealthy family, and there are also parents who want to indulge their children with unlearning and skilllessness;
also has parents who teach the champion who is admitted to Tsinghua University, and some raise white-eyed wolves who beat and scold their parents.
The essence of all education is nothing but a parenting practice for parents.
At the end of the article, I click "I'm watching", no matter whether it is rich or ordinary people, it is only through hard work and dedication that you can educate outstanding children!
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