A 2-year-old baby smashed a glass bottle while playing. Father went barefoot to the pool and picked up the glass shards.
Mr. Gu said that he wanted his son to learn to take responsibility.
netizens: The power of role models!
Many parents hope to send their children to the best schools and receive the best education.
makes every effort to create the best educational environment for children.
But when everyone comes to this world, the first teacher they contact is their parents, and the first school is their family.
kids are good at imitating, imitating our words and deeds, imitating our temperaments...
even imitating something you can't even notice.
In fact, what kind of person you want your child to be, you should be what kind of person
Parents are the first teachers of the child, your words and deeds are the first object of imitation after the child came into the world. The influence of
is profound and almost unavoidable.
Mr. Tao Xingzhi: "Life is education".
"The father decides how high the child flies, and the mother decides how far the child flies".
is indeed the case.
For children, parents are equally important beings in life.
However, if words of encouragement and affirmation are spoken from the father, the influence on the child is far greater than that of the mother.
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About father
Father's love is deep and unremarkable, like a beacon standing at the end of a dark road.
pointed out the direction for the child to move forward. To reach a distant place, the child needs to work hard to move forward.
has a movie about the affection between father and son-"Galaxy Tutorial".
son Ma Fei's academic performance is at the bottom, his father Ma Haowen encourages him from beginning to end. Every small improvement made by
son is regarded by father as a great leap.
Compared with the teacher's accusation and the mother's nagging, his father Ma Haowen chose to lead by example.
influences and changes his son's behavior in daily life.
The sentence "You are the smartest child on this earth" gave his son a steady stream of confidence.
Even if Ma Fei's grades are poor, Ma Haowen never forces his children to study.
He worked silently by candlelight, and he was busy late into the night when his son was influenced by his father and picked up a book.
The German philosopher Jaspers has a famous saying. The nature of
education means that one tree shakes another tree, one cloud pushes another cloud, and one soul awakens another soul.
Say ten million times, it is better to do it once.
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About mother
Compared with father's love, mother's love is much softer, and it is the most intimate existence in the eyes of children.
Mother's words and deeds are seen by the children, imitating and learning.
Mother's education penetrates into the subtleties and is the root cause of the child's life.
Do you still remember a heart-warming advertisement called "Mom Washing Feet" that we all saw when we were young? After the public service advertisement of
was broadcast, it moved countless viewers. The meaning of
is self-explanatory. In the advertisement, the little boy saw his mother washing her mother's feet.
thoughtfully, when we saw young children know how to wash their mothers with a basin of footwash, we understood the meaning of precepts and deeds.
Love is mutual influence.
The older generation said, "It's not easy for mothers to ruin three generations." Although this is extreme, it makes sense.
became a loyal and loyal Yue Fei because of his mother-in-law tattoo. "Mengmu's Three Moves" cultivated a generation of "sub-sage" Mencius...
mothers taught their children how to understand the truth from life through personal actions.
The mother is the first textbook in the child's life, and every word and deed are in the eyes of the child. The pattern of
mothers will make a child's life.
Mother's thoughts, words and deeds not only affect the growth of children.
also affects the atmosphere of the whole family.
"Three views are regular, morals do not lose", good tutoring is reflected in the behavior of every family member.
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Misunderstandings of precepts and deeds
While educating children how to do and think, they must also be consistent in their words and deeds.
This is the key to affecting children in essence.
So, before the parents say it.
First of all, you must do it yourself first, and don't be too casual, otherwise, your child will feel cheated.
will have some deviations in the understanding of integrity in the future, and even become a person who does not speak integrity.
Therefore, in the early education of children, both words and deeds are indispensable.
and to be unified, so that it is really beneficial to the growth of children.
Tolstoy once said.
The essence of educating children is to educate themselves, and self-education is the most powerful way for parents to influence their children!
In the process of children's growth, parents should be good teachers for their children's education.
teaches by example and leads by example.
Because parents are always the first teachers of their children, and they are also the ones that children will trust most.
Only when the parents do a good job, the child can do better.
education starts at the knees of the parents. What the child sees and hears comes from the parents,
so parents must pay attention to precepts and deeds, and our children will naturally be excellent. Class starts.
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