Human is a complex emotional animal, and it gets hurt from time to time. Although it is not as painful as being stabbed by a sharp weapon, it is almost the same. Moreover, one has medicine to cure, and the other is no medicine. . Human feelings are as thin as paper, people are as cruel as wolves, warm and cold, and self-knowledge, friendship, family affection, and love change when they say change, and they are no strangers before they can say goodbye. Looking at the world, who has not been hurt in feelings?
Friendship, as a teenager, do you think that your classmate friend is your closest partner? However, after many years, when you contact him again, maybe he will not care about you. He will remember you only when he has something to ask for.
After you entered the society, you value friendship very much, and tell him what you said about your heart. As a result, when the lie appeared, you realized how stupid you were. There are many brothers who are rich and alcoholic. Whenever I meet someone in a hurry, I realize that I don’t have many friends and I need to keep improving. The so-called life has a confidant is enough.
Family, if you say that the person who will not hurt you the most, it should be your parents. When your brothers have clear accounts, they are by my side. There are many real examples of this kind, brothers Because of the money, he cut his robes and cut his righteousness directly, and did not interact with each other in old age. No one would admit his mistakes, and he would not move around during the holidays. In addition to the anti-purpose relationship between brothers, there are also family relationships. When encountering difficulties, let relatives take care of them and make emergencies. As a result, I know that distant relatives are not as good as neighbors, and the relationship is really as thin as a piece of paper.
Love, between couples and husbands and wives, either you hurt each other or the other hurt you. In fact, it has been known for a long time that people are fickle, and even couples have the principle of "flight of each other in disaster". No one can withstand the fierce attack from love, the love came unknowingly, and walked quietly, so he thought that the other party had changed his heart, he was not as good as he was before, and he made a quarrel every few days. Dissatisfied, left angrily, even friends were unwilling to do it.
In the world of emotions, everyone has been hurt by friendship, family, love, and tasted bitterness. If you have been hurt, or hurt by others, you might as well read Zhang Ailing I believe that the mood will be much better. The text is as follows:
If you know me in the past, maybe you will forgive me now——Zhang Ailing's "Love in the Fallen City"
You in the past, or yourself in the past, must be an inviting person Like it, otherwise, someone would be willing to be your friend, someone would be willing to talk about love with you, and the same is true for family relationships. In the past, there were always a few relatives who cared for you, even if you grow up, you still remember When I was young, who treated myself well. However, after sensible, I went to see people and found that they were different. The reason why people change is that they are growing up, and those who stay safe and sound are the most vulnerable to injury.
The charm of text, if you don’t savor it carefully, how can you call it a classic, and how can you make people want to collect it? Having said that, we might as well learn together, this passage by Zhang Ailing Quotations, feel it seriously, and then reflect on yourself.
Once upon a time, what kind of person you were
"If life is just like the first time, what is the autumn wind and sad picture fan", friendship, a meal, a game of time You can build up and make friends, often based on first impressions, love, and similar, the person who just pursues you, everything about you will make him heart-stirring, as the saying goes: Beauty is in the eyes of lovers. In short, people who are willing to associate with you and pursue you will make you extremely satisfied at first.
A long time ago, I broke up with a good friend because of dishonesty and more and more hypocrisy. He played me like a monkey several times and deleted everything in his anger. Recalling the past, he used to be a broad-minded, open-minded, energetic, and energetic with him, and full of enthusiasm for his career. Later, perhaps because of the economic pressure, people became unaware of gratitude and became selfish. Even good friends cheated. For this reason, he deleted his contact information very reluctantly.
Rao Xueman said such a sentence, which makes people impressedVery deep: Don’t say forever, the person you love is dying and alive, it is very likely that you will not be able to understand his walking posture, that is the guy who gritted your teeth, it is very possible that he might even remember his name. Incomplete. There are no eternal friends, and no eternal enemies. If you can, life will be as best as you can see.
It’s not that I have changed, but that we have all changed.
It is said that this time the pneumonia epidemic has caused many couples to have conflicts that have never been seen before. It is not you who can’t understand me, it’s me. I can't understand you, and after arguing about the end of the epidemic, I will divorce. "Wait for leisure to change but the heart of the old man is easy to change." In the past, when you pursued her, you could say that her shortcomings were advantages. Now, you have changed your heart, but you say that her is not good.
I don’t know if you have heard the song "If we go back to the past", the lyrics are beautiful, indeed, if we go back to the past, you will still have the current dissatisfaction, it is terrible Will your mood improve? It's not that I have changed, but everyone has changed.
If you know me in the past, maybe you will forgive me now. Zhang Ailing’s quotation is not wrong at all. In the world of love, everyone has difficulties, and every family There is a hard-to-read scripture. If he leaves you, don’t have to hold grudges, and there will be better ones waiting for you. When you encounter difficulties, look at the problem more from the perspective of others. The relationship between friends has faded and you are no longer in contact. Just remember that he once gave you happiness.
In this emotional world, if people want to live more comfortably, they must learn to forgive. At the same time, they must know that the world is their own and live for themselves. If you have someone around you who is hurt in your relationship, you might as well let her read Zhang Ailing's quotations, and I believe she will feel much better.
