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With the implementation of the policy of relaxing the epidemic, more and more people are in the "sheep" pen.
Many celebrities and artists have also been recruited.
Many celebrities have shared their experiences in fighting the epidemic.
and Zhu Dan wanted to cheer everyone up when he shared his family’s experience in fighting the epidemic.
did not want to attract a lot of complaints from netizens in the comment area.
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When the new coronavirus infection becomes "one person is infected, the whole family is down", I believe that most families have experienced a moment of fear.
A few days ago, the famous host Zhu Dan showed off his two-striped antigen test strip online.
We all know that this means that she is pregnant, and it also means that their family is going to die soon.
This is also true. Zhu Dan became positive first, and then the family of seven became positive one after another.
Zhu Dan said that he had Yang without warning, and then started to have a low fever. In order to prevent the infection from spreading to the elderly and children, she self-isolated in her room.
did not use any medicine. After two days of high fever, her whole body ached, but the symptoms disappeared quickly. She overcame it directly.
It can be seen from this that Zhu Dan's physical fitness is still good, and her symptoms are relatively not serious and she recovers quickly.
When Zhu Dan thought he could breathe a sigh of relief, the aunt who was taking care of the child also became infected, and the two children were also infected.
So three "sheep" lived in Zhu Dan's isolation room again. The only people outside were my parents-in-law who were not infected and another aunt who was cooking.
The two children continued to have high fevers in the evening. They were given antipyretics three times in a row to lower their temperatures and the situation improved.
Maybe every mother is worried about her sick child. This kind of worry cannot be described in words, so seeing her two children having high fevers, Zhu Dan had an emotional breakdown.
infections are like a relay race, one after the other.
My parents-in-law and the aunt who cooks are also positive, and my husband who is away from home is also positive. The whole family finally enters the "sheep" pen neatly.
Zhu Dan collapsed and cried in the bathroom, blaming himself for having implicated the elderly and children.
Her husband is not at home, and she is now the mainstay of the family. She cheered up after crying.
After confirming that her husband had friends around to take care of him and that she didn’t need to worry, she focused her energy on everything at home.
After 6 years, Zhu Dan stopped making soup and once again took on the responsibility of feeding the family.
On the fourth day, Zhu Danyang started cooking according to the video and worked hard to make a large table of dishes.
cooked meals for two days in a row, and Zhu Dan’s efforts were unanimously recognized by the whole family.
So when the family's fight against the epidemic was coming to an end, she wrote an anti-epidemic diary.
However, this attracted complaints from netizens.
Some people are complaining that Zhu Dan has a nanny to help take care of the children, and she still cries, which seems to be otherworldly.
Some people say that she is hypocritical. She is already a mother of two children. How could she have no experience in taking care of a child with a high fever, and why would she collapse?
Some people can't understand her self-blame. The virus infection is not under her control, and she is also one of the victims. Why should she blame herself so much?
Some people say that she has not been in the kitchen for six years, and her life is really a life without touching the spring water. What is so hard about such a life?
Are celebrities too pretentious? Or do we, the general public, lack empathy?
is obviously a positive post, but why is the comment section full of complaints?
In fact, the reason for this phenomenon is really simple: different levels of life have different people’s concerns.
Therefore, it is difficult to have empathy between celebrities and ordinary people.
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When people share food, diaries, moods, happiness, etc., in addition to expressing their own emotions, they also long for others to empathize with them.
Otherwise, if you just want to keep it as a souvenir, you can keep it in your mobile phone and there is no need to publish it at all.
But in order to gain everyone's empathy, there is a basic premise - the same concerns.
Netizens complained that Zhang Han 's new drama is too ridiculous. The reason is that in order to show the hard work of migrant workers, the drama arranged a scene where migrant workers eat instant noodles in a taxi.
Perhaps the focus of celebrities is: taking a taxi and eating instant noodles are equivalent to poverty, which means life is very hard.
But in real life, no one is willing to take a taxi unless absolutely necessary. Those who can travel by bus will choose to take the bus. Sometimes it is even common to walk to save a few dollars.
And in reality, who is willing to eat barreled instant noodles? Basically I buy them in bags because they are cheaper.
But the poverty in the eyes of celebrities may be the life we may not be able to have after working hard in reality.
has different focuses, which has led to Zhang Han’s new drama being criticized by netizens.
came up with that sentence - we are trying to live, celebrities are pretending to live.
This is why many variety shows have become less popular in recent years. This is because celebrities regard the daily lives of ordinary people as games and feel that such a life is too hard.
Sober viewers all know that the life of ordinary people is like this. The lives of celebrities on the show are actually much better than in real life, but they still complain about hardship. So how can we continue to live?
After all, there are so many ordinary people in this world, who doesn’t want to live a good life? In an observation program
, a cashier intern encountered a foreign guest who could not pay for the meal with only a credit card. The intern patiently explained the reason. In the end, due to payment problems, the foreign guest had to put down his plate and leave.
observers Huang Xiaoming and Qiao Xin couldn't sit still when they saw this, so a puzzling scene appeared.
Huang Xiaoming believes that the performance of the intern proves that she is still lacking in life.
Qiao Xin immediately took over and said: "I think I can give him a copy and leave this list to the boss."
Huang Xiaoming then said: "Under normal circumstances, I will help him settle the bill."
The boss of
was speechless and said a normal approach: "If you don't know what to do, talk to the store manager as soon as possible."
Netizens joked: I hope Xiao Ming and Qiao Xin will open a restaurant together, so that they can become good people who save people in need.
As soon as Huang Xiaoming and Qiao Xin opened their mouths, they knew that they did not understand what interns were like? Especially restaurant interns.
So the focus is really different, and everyone’s ideas will be different.
Huang Xiaoming and Qiao Xin focused on the foreign guest who put down his plate and left.
The focus of the general public is on interns, because everyone has internship experience and sometimes encounters similar things. Many people will make the same choice as interns.
Lin Gengxin went to the logistics center to experience life, and he began to swear that he had been trained in this kind of body, and he must be okay. As a result, the administrator said that their speed was too slow and there was too much backlog of goods.
didn't work for long before he went on strike. Lin Gengxin said that he hadn't eaten, was a little hypoglycemic, and felt that his small body was not good enough, so he gave up on the spot.
He only worked for such a short time before feeling tired and unable to bear it. What about the guy who has been working in logistics all year round? In a situation like his, how many people can just walk away calmly?
Huang Zitao had to finish his work at the end of the day. He wanted to end his work early because he was tired.
He said: "I can keep changing jobs until I find a job I like. I must find a job, no matter how hard and tiring it is, I like it."
The co-workers who came with him advised him to finish it.
The worker said: "I don't care whether I like him or not, I just want to make a living. People like us don't have many choices, and we have no choice."
In contrast, we have no sympathy for Huang Zitao at all.
Because in reality, most people actually have no choice in life.
Yang Mi once said this to Zhang Dada: "If you tell people about this, how many people can relate to it? You have no choice in life. It's not about how you want to live. You can start living like this tomorrow."
Yang Mi then pointed at the window of the high-rise building and said: "Everyone is working hard, so why do you want others to understand your hard work?"
These words let us know why celebrities are doing so badly and the audience basically doesn't buy it.
This is like a famine among the people. The minister told Emperor Hui of Jin : The people have no food to eat and can only eat grass roots, tree bark, and Guanyin soil.
Emperor Hui of Jin Dynasty was puzzled and asked: "Why not eat minced meat?"
The two principles are the same, but everyone's concerns are completely different.
This is exactly the case. Now that we know Zhu Dan’s anti-epidemic diary, why are netizens so sarcastic?
At least during the epidemic, Zhu Dan had a nanny to help him, and his quality of life was not greatly affected.
But for ordinary people under the epidemic, not only their jobs have been affected, but their incomes have also shrunk. They are more anxious and stressed than Zhu Dan.
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The focus is different, the things that are paid attention to are different, and there is no emotional resonance and no empathy.
If you really need empathy, then the best way is to focus on the public and pay attention to the same points, then you will naturally be able to empathize.
A frog in a well cannot speak of the sea, and a summer insect cannot speak of the ice.
is limited by time, space, etc., and there is a gap in people's cognition. You cannot force anything, and others can empathize with you.
