The entertainment industry is a world of fame and fortune. No matter how glorious many actresses are, their final destination is almost always to marry into wealthy families, quit the entertainment industry, and live a life of a rich wife. But there is a saying that goes: "As soon as you enter a wealthy family, you are as deep as the sea." Life in a wealthy family is far more complicated than everyone imagines. For example, the actress we are going to talk about today, debuted at the age of 23 and married into a wealthy family at the age of 27. However, after just 8 years, she left her two young children and leaped down from the 28th floor, ending her young life.
she is shen Lijun .
Before his death, Shen Lijun left a suicide note of ten thousand words, denounced the so-called life of a wealthy family. What exactly has she experienced? Why did he leave two young children behind and end his life at a young age? How did she expose the life of a wealthy family in her suicide note?
In fact, when it comes to Shen Lijun, there may not be many people who know about it. She was born in an ordinary family in Shanghai in 1983. Her parents divorced when she was very young. It was her mother who worked hard to raise her alone. However, Shen Lijun has been very sensible since she was a child. She knew that her mother worked very hard, so she often swears secretly that she must work hard to make money in the future so that her mother can live a better life.
Shen Lijun has been very beautiful since she was a child and has a very good figure. She started working as a model when she was in school. With super high appearance and perfect figure, she is often called "the number one beauty in Shanghai".
23 years old, Shen Lijun endorsed a Korean online game called "Eternal". Her pure appearance and extraordinary temperament are very similar to the elves in the game. Therefore, they are also praised by many gamers as "the elves in the reality of ".
In that era when the Internet was not very developed, Shen Lijun began to endorse online games, so to a certain extent, she should be regarded as the originator of the Internet celebrity industry.
After gaining some popularity, Shen Lijun began to enter the entertainment industry. Her first work she starred in was the movie " No. 601st Phone " directed by Zhang Guoli. You should know that there are many popular stars in this drama, such as Cecilia Cheung , Zhou Bichang, Hu Ge , etc. She has partnered with so many big stars as soon as she debuted. Shen Lijun is very lucky.
26 years old, Shen Lijun partnered with Huang Baiming , Ng Junru , Louis Koo , Louis Koo starred in the movie "Happy Events in 09", and played the role of the innocent and lovely dessert house owner in the film. After
, her career was smooth sailing, especially in the movie " Transformation into Contract " starring with in 2008. Shen Lijun has gone from an unknown supporting actor to the third female lead in the film, and her role has also been much more than before.
In just a few years, Shen Lijun has made considerable progress in the entertainment industry. If she continues to develop, her future will definitely be immeasurable. But it is regrettable that Shen Lijun, like other actresses, is eager to marry into a wealthy family and live a carefree life.
But how could she know that this so-called wealthy life not only did not change her destiny, but instead made her lose her life.
In 2010, Shen Lijun met the rich second-generation Wu Kaixin at a party. Although the other party was not handsome, he was very humorous. The two had a very happy chat when they first met. After that, Wu Kaixin began to pursue Shen Lijun crazy. Just like many rich people pursuing girls, he was not stingy in spending money. He often gave Shen Lijun various luxury goods, and was even more caring about her. Soon, Shen Lijun agreed to his pursuit.
But what was unexpected was that the two of them had only known each other for 8 months and entered the palace of marriage. After marriage, Shen Lijun also quit the entertainment industry and became a housewife. Perhaps Shen Lijun didn't know that this inadvertent flash marriage and the decision to give up her career had caused her life.
After getting married, the in-laws asked Shen Lijun to have a child, but who knew that her husband's sperm deformity rate is high, and the quality is poor, and the survival rate is very low. This makes it difficult for Shen Lijun to get pregnant, and even if she is pregnant, she is prone to miscarriage.
Three years after getting married, Shen Lijun finally got pregnant. In order to protect her fetus, she received hundreds of fetal injections, and spent almost all her pregnancy in bed.
After a hard ten months of pregnancy, Shen Lijun finally gave birth to a boy successfully.
However, although the in-laws' family is a wealthy family, they insist on not hiring a nanny when it comes to seeing the children, and the mother-in-law rarely helps, which means that the child's matter is on Shen Lijun. But after giving birth, Shen Lijun continued to show her loneliness, and she was very weak every day, and sometimes it was very difficult to get out of bed. But she still endured the pain and fatigue to take care of the child, feed the child and change the diapers.
Shen Lijun endured the pain at home to take care of the children, but her husband often went home at one or two o'clock in the morning on the grounds of work. After returning home, he rarely communicated with Shen Lijun and never cared about whether his wife was tired or not. Because in his eyes, Shen Lijun is just a housewife with children.
Since marrying into the so-called wealthy family, Shen Lijun not only did not enjoy the treatment of a rich wife, but instead became the nanny of this family. Not only do you have to take care of your children every day, but you also have to cook. But even so, her husband can still find out her faults. Wu Kaixin likes to clean her house. He asked Shen Lijun to clean her house completely, and even her clothes must be folded as neatly as in the mall.
The husband doesn’t help, what about the mother-in-law? Unexpectedly, Shen Lijun's mother-in-law often picks on her. It is Shen Lijun who should take good care of her children, but it is Shen Lijun's fault if she doesn't take good care of her. If the child wears too much clothes, her husband and mother-in-law will blame her. If the html is cold for 2 days, she will wear less clothes and the child catches a cold, she will blame her.
I have paid so much, but in the end I am disliked by my husband and mother-in-law. At this time, Shen Lijun had the idea of getting a divorce in her heart. But since she got married, she has long given up her career. She has no income and doesn't know how to continue to live.
When his son was 2 years old, Shen Lijun unexpectedly became pregnant with her second child. Like her first child, she insisted on taking fetal injections since the day of her pregnancy, and she received more than 200 injections in two pregnancy periods. But what she never dreamed of was that during her pregnancy, her husband, who had been using work as an excuse to not go home, had another woman outside.
When her husband was not paying attention, Shen Lijun secretly checked his phone. It turned out that her husband had cheated on him when he was pregnant with his first child. In fact, based on the woman's intuition, Shen Lijun had a premonition, but she had never believed it. It turns out that in Weibo , there has been a woman constantly provoking her. Every time Shen Lijun posts on Weibo, she will comment below, and her words are very provocative.
When Shen Lijun announced her second child, she commented again below: "It is not easy to be a wife in a family business, so you can only continue to lay eggs."
And in 2015, Shen Lijun posted a brand-name bag given by her husband on the Internet. Unexpectedly, this person commented below again, saying that she shared it with Shen Lijun.
At the beginning, Shen Lijun didn't care about these messages, thinking they were black fans. However, this person repeatedly provoked him, which made Shen Lijun suspicious. Later she discovered that this person was the third party.
Shen Lijun becomes more angry the more she thinks. After her husband returns home, she filed for divorce and wants to abort the baby in her belly. When she heard that she was going to abort the child, her husband changed his previous attitude and kept comforting Shen Lijun, saying that she was wrong and would definitely correct her mistakes. The mother-in-law also came to persuade her, saying that the child was pitiful after divorce, and that she would discipline her son and asked him to correct her.
Seeing this, Shen Lijun forgave her husband. Not long after, she gave birth to another daughter.
At this time, Shen Lijun still naively thought that her husband would turn back to justice, but she was wrong. During the confinement period, her husband was still living a life of food and food, and he ignored her and her two children.
More than that, my husband is becoming more and more blatant, often taking Xiao 3 around to play and sending all kinds of luxury goods. What's even more disgusting is that in order to stimulate Shen Lijun, Xiao 3 also publicly posted the photo of the two online.
However, in addition to the husband's cheating, Shen Lijun discovered another new problem, that is, her husband had gotten married once before, and the reason for the divorce was that he was too fickle, so his ex-wife left him. However, when Shen Lijun questioned, he said: "The first marriage was forced to get married by his parents. Because the two had different personalities, they divorced soon."
not only ignored Shen Lijun, but also did the same with his two biological children. He gave all kinds of luxury goods to women outside, but asked Shen Lijun to wear 50 yuan shoes for the children.
The husband's indifference and mother-in-law's accusations made Shen Lijun extremely depressed. But the next thing was even worse for her. Life was worse than death, that was, she suffered from cervical cancer. When Shen Lijun told her husband the news of her illness, who would have thought that her husband not only did not care about her life and death, but instead blamed her for not getting sick and delaying raising the child.
For Shen Lijun, she had long been used to her husband's indifference. Seeing that her husband didn't care about her life and death, she said, "You don't care about me, you should always care about your child, right?" Unexpectedly, her husband said, "I will definitely take care of you when you are gone."
His husband's words made Shen Lijun very angry. She said to her husband: "Let's go now." Just divorce, go and live with another woman." Unexpectedly, the husband's next sentence was even more ruthless. He said, "The reason why I don't divorce is to collect your body."
husband's words made Shen Lijun unable to bear it. She slapped her husband. After seeing her son being beaten, her mother-in-law not only did not help persuade him, but instead angrily scolded Shen Lijun, saying that the reason why the two's marriage developed like this was caused by Shen Lijun.
I suffered from cancer. Not only did my husband and mother-in-law not care, but instead became even worse, which made Shen Lijun, who was already depressed, have the idea of suicide.
On September 9, 2018, Shen Lijun, who had been married into a wealthy family for 8 years, endured the swelling and pain of ascites, vomiting and insomnia, wrote a suicide note of ten thousand words, denounced her wealthy family life.
On September 10, 2018, Shen Lijun jumped down from the 28th floor, ending her life at the age of 35.
Shen Lijun was most worried about before her suicide, and she was two young children. In fact, she had wanted to take the two children away together, but she couldn't bear to deprive them of their right to survive. In her suicide note, she wrote: "Your life has just begun, and I can't bear to take you away. In the days without a mother, you brother and sister must love each other and learn to be strong. Although you can't see your mother, your mother will always love you. The brightest star in the sky is your mother."
since childhood, and his parents divorced and achieved a career through their own efforts. If they had not married into a wealthy family, perhaps Shen Lijun would have become famous and realized financial freedom. However, in the rising period of her career, she quickly married into the so-called wealthy family without knowing her. In the end, she not only did not change her destiny, but she even lost her life.
In fact, Shen Lijun's experience also tells us that women should not only think about marrying a wealthy family. Even if they marry into a wealthy family, they must learn to be independent and not give up their career easily. Because once a man doesn’t love you, you will be useless, or even have nothing!
