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016 , Xu Fan guest "Jin Xing Show ", faces the problem of "looking at her husband Feng Xiaogang keeps scandals around her".
Xu Fan smiled and said: "Our family is a man anyway. If you let him take advantage, just take advantage!" 's remarks made her "become famous in one battle"!
In fact, as early as 2008, , Xu Fan answered this question positively: "There are ones that count on ones, and I will not suffer any loss when I fall under our gun."
People who do not understand Xu Fan's love history may feel that she compromises in her relationship, and even a little bit self-deprecating.
But those who truly understand Xu Fan will know her "forbearance" and "ruthlessness"!
01. Deep in the quagmire of love
Before Xu Fan made a private life with Feng Xiaogang, he had affectionate and famous actor Wang Zhiwen .
That was in 988 , Xu Fan was sophomore in Central Academy of Drama , Wang Zhiwen, who had just graduated from Beijing Film Academy , was assigned to the Central Academy of Drama as a teacher.
Wang Zhiwen's teaching method is very distinctive. He always teaches in his own way. With his bold and unruly long hair and windbreaker moving with the wind, he has become the "male god" in the hearts of many female students.
. Another meaning of a male god or goddess is that it is not accessible to .
As a student of Wang Zhiwen, Xu Fan does not believe in this evil and will definitely become his other half.
In fact, Wang Zhiwen had two relationships before coming to the Central Academy of Drama.
The first place is Lin Fangbing , which is known as "the most beautiful Yang Guifei " .
Lin Fangbing
At that time, Wang Zhiwen entered Beijing TV as the top scorer in the literary exam. He was full of energy. Once, he saw Lin Fangbing's face while eating in the canteen, and then he pursued her fiercely.
The two are handsome and beautiful, and they are together not long after.
Lin Fangbing
We all say "Graduation season is breakup season". In the face of this "curse", Wang Zhiwen and Lin Fangbing were not spared.
First love makes everyone's youth unforgettable. In order to soothe the pain in his heart, Wang Zhiwen met Pan Jie, who is three years younger than him.
, but the relationship between the two faded away because Wang Zhiwen went to the Central Academy of Drama as a teacher.
Pan Jie
Everyone says "female chasing male compartment" . When Xu Fan launched an offensive against Wang Zhiwen, it was when Wang Zhiwen was chatting again, so the two of them got together smoothly.
Because it was a teacher-student relationship, this relationship was criticized at the time, but Xu Fan disagreed and fell in love with it very passionately.
If love needs to be proved with practical actions, then Xu Fan voluntarily moved from the school dormitory to Wang Zhiwen's residence , and her true feelings can be seen.
However, everyone didn't know that Xu Fan always put his position very low in this relationship.
After Xu Fan lived with Wang Zhiwen, he washed and cooked for him every day, and he looked like a young wife.
A man's "backyard" is well-manned, so he will definitely go smoothly in his career. Wang Zhiwen made his mark in "Noon Sunshine" and "London Apocalypse" at this time, allowing the public to remember the handsome guy.
classmates beside Xu Fan Chen Xiaoyi , Jiang Shan and others are all working hard for their careers, which is in a huge contrast with her.
Watching her boyfriend and classmates keep improving, only she stagnated, which made Xu Fan realize that in addition to being busy with her life in love, she also has to be busy with her career.
Otherwise, I should have listened to my parents from the beginning, not learning drama, and not stepping into the path of actors, and just live step by step.
991 , Xu Fan graduated from the Central Academy of Drama, and his classmates had already achieved considerable results on the screen.
boyfriend Wang Zhiwen even won the " Golden Panda Award " for "The Legend of the South", and has accumulated a certain amount of resources.
Xu Fan, who wanted to win some acting opportunities for himself, told Wang Zhiwen about his thoughts and wanted to take a "shortcut".
But Wang Zhiwen, who is extremely hard-bodied, has always been reluctant to beg for help, so Xu Fan's career was put on hold.
This laid the groundwork for the two of them to part ways.
02. The abandoned baby who is not loved
Seeing that Wang Zhiwen's shortcut would not work, Xu Fan could only rely on himself to find opportunities to act.
Fortunately, when Xu Fan was in the Central Opera, he starred in the work of "Fifth Generation Director" Tian Zhuangzhuang .
Although Xu Fan failed to become popular with this work, her potential and her face as if it were a lotus from the water still vividly remembered by Director Tian.
Tian Zhuangzhuang, who was worried about the role of "Zhenfei" in the work " eunuch Li Lianying " , saw Xu Fan's resume and hired her without saying a word.
is this work, which brought crisis to the relationship between Xu Fan and Wang Zhiwen.
At that time, Tian Zhuangzhuang was single, and with the halo of directors, , he was the "big tree" in the eyes of many female artists.
and Xu Fan saw Tian Zhuangzhuang helping him like this, which was in sharp contrast to Wang Zhiwen who gave his heart to his boyfriend.
In order to repay Tian Zhuangzhuang's kindness, Xu Fan worked very hard while filming, and Tian Zhuangzhuang also saw what the other party wanted to express.
When filming, Tian Zhuangzhuang would also ask Xu Fan about his well-being. The two sides went through this and it was a little ambiguous in the eyes of others.
The people in the crew even joked that the two were "couple couple" . Not long after, the news reached Wang Zhiwen's ears.
Tian Zhuangzhuang
Wang Zhiwen, who is extremely macho, heard that his girlfriend actually had a unclear relationship with other men, immediately returned to their rental house to question Xu Fan.
Xu Fan knew at that time that in addition to thanking Tian Zhuangzhuang, he had a different feeling in his heart, but when she looked at the man she loved deeply, she did not admit it.
In the end, the two of them had a big fight because of this, and even alarmed the neighbor . Xu Fan's luggage was also thrown outside the door by Wang Zhiwen, and the relationship came to an end.
Xu Fan, who was kicked out of the house, felt sad every time he recalled that relationship experience, and even cried: "I feel like an abandoned baby, just throwing it away ruthlessly."
It is indeed as she said. Xu Fan has always made unreserved efforts in his relationship with Wang Zhiwen, but Wang Zhiwen takes her good deeds for granted for granted.
And we all know that feelings are the affairs of two people, just like multiplication. If one of them is "zero" in the relationship, then how hard the other party works, this relationship will not have a good result.
So, it is inevitable that Xu Fan and Wang Zhiwen will break up, but there is another reason for the separation of , that is, Wang Zhiwen's bad temper.
Anyone who knows Wang Zhiwen knows that he is noble and arrogant, just like his later Ding Yuanying in " Tiandao ", and he is unwilling to be with the world.
Once, Wang Zhiwen was chewing gum, the female reporter who had made an appointment with him to interview came over and handed the business card to Wang Zhiwen before the interview.
Because Wang Zhiwen did not carry paper on his body and could not spit out gum anywhere, he spitted it on the business card given by the female reporter.
Afterwards, the female reporter had arguing with Wang Zhiwen, and he also apologized at the beginning, but the other party refused to give in. In the end, Wang Zhiwen's temper became stronger and did not get too entangled with the other party.
It can be imagined that Xu Fan must have been very angry with Wang Zhiwen in his relationship.
Xu Fan pulled out of Wang Zhiwen's emotional quagmire, turned around and entered another quagmire.
Her relationship with Tian Zhuangzhuang verified what Li Shaohong said: "I think you two will have to break up after filming."
Tian Zhuangzhuang
Although the two failed to have a good ending, when Xu Fan left, he got a lot of money given by Tian Zhuangzhuang, and the two completely broke up.
Two consecutive relationship failures made Xu Fan feel that he is an "absent baby" who is not cherished and loved by others.
Until Feng Xiaogang's appearance, she truly found her other half in her life.
03. The constant scandals of Director Feng
The fate of Xu Fan and Feng Xiaogang began in the work " Dasheba ", which was in 1992.
Although Feng Xiaogang is the screenwriter of this work and Xu Fan is the heroine of this work, the two do not have much intersection.
Until Feng Xiaogang saw the sample of the work, he said: "Everything else is good, but the heroine's acting skills are almost meaningful."
Xu Fan in "The Great Saba"
At that time, he didn't know that Xu Fan was behind him, and his evaluation went into Xu Fan's ears without saying a word.
, eyes facing each other, neither of them spoke, the atmosphere on the scene was a little awkward, and no one knew what they were thinking.
But no one expected that Feng Xiaogang, who looked down on Xu Fan's acting skills, would eventually come together!
In "Big Saba" finished , Feng Xiaogang and Xu Fan started chatting about the "small friction" that occurred while watching the sample. The two seemed to be old friends who wished they met too late, and they had a very speculative chat.
In the following time, Feng Xiaogang always called Xu Fan to call me, just to relieve the pain of longing in his heart, and even took the initiative to invite her to dinner to express her apology at that time.
frequently calls a woman and invites her to dinner. We all know what this means.
In the past two relationships, Xu Fan has always been the one who takes the initiative to give. Now, facing the care of a man, his heart is naturally very touched, and the calmed heart beats again.
Feng Xiaogang's next words made Xu Fan fall in love with him.
993 , Feng Xiaogang went to Guangzhou to participate in the Golden Rooster Award event. He met Xu Fan in the waiting hall. When the two were talking and laughing, the acquaintance around him asked: "Gangzi, who is this? I won't introduce it."
Feng Xiaogang replied humbly: "My girlfriend" seems to be testing his position in Xu Fan's heart in front of outsiders.
The result Xu Fan did not refute it. Perhaps she didn't want to miss Feng Xiaogang who loved her, and this scene made everyone around her smile. After returning from the
event, Xu Fan and the other two became a couple.
People who are familiar with Feng Xiaogang said that Xu Fan was his girlfriend and smiled at each other because Feng Xiaogang is already a family member.
As early as 984, Feng Xiaogang, who was also a trade union officer at Beijing Urban Construction Development Corporation, accidentally met Zhang Di who came to visit his relatives in the company.
Feng Xiaogang fell in love with Zhang Di at first sight and pursued her fiercely. After the two entered the marriage hall, they gave birth to a daughter.
But Feng Xiaogang still ignored the age difference of 9 years old, as well as his wife and three-year-old daughter at home, and was with Xu Fan.
A man with a family will naturally be despised by the world if he has an affair. But no matter how the outside world comments, for Xu Fan, Feng Xiaogang's arrival has extraordinary significance in her life.
The sentence " Feng Xiaogang adopted my soul, he is my lifelong benefactor ", fully demonstrating the importance of Feng Xiaogang in Xu Fan's heart.
Faced with Feng Xiaogang who respects and cares for himself, and is still a talented person, Xu Fan naturally doesn't want to let go and is willing to be despised by the world.
Zhang Di, who learned that her husband had an affair, did not choose to leave at the beginning, nor did she make a big fuss, but used the word "drag" .
Because in Zhang Di's opinion, the reason why a married man in has an affair is nothing more than to be fresh, and the two will be separated soon.
Who would have thought that this delay lasted for five years, and in the end she had to sign a divorce agreement to help Xu Fan and the other two.
999 , After Feng Xiaogang divorced Zhang Di, Xu Fan naturally entered the Feng family, and ended his seven-year underground relationship.
Feng Xiaogang also knew that he had let Zhang Di down, and even bravely admitted his mistake in front of the camera: "The most important thing is me, I must be flirting with the old and old."
's remarks really revealed Feng Xiaogang's habits to the fullest, especially when his career was booming.
04. The winner is the last one.
In addition to 009 , Feng Xiaogang spent 8 hours of "spring night" with the beautiful host Shen Xing , He also maintained a deep relationship with "beauty in the world" Xu Qing .
Feng Xiaogang once said bluntly: "Xu Qing is the dream lover of our generation of men!"
In order to realize his dream, in 2015, Director Feng played the starring role in " Old Cannon " produced by himself, and Xu Qing played his lover, which was considered a disguised dream.
, especially the passionate clips in this work, can be said to be very large in scale, and Feng Xiaogang can also be regarded as the true character of his role.
After the completion of the movie, I wonder if Feng Xiaogang was "too deeply involved in the show" or if he asked his old friends to reminisce about the past, he specially invited Xu Qing to travel abroad. This is the case with
, which is somewhat similar to Xu Fan’s experience.
As for how Director Feng and Xu Qing play outside, we don’t know, but judging from the photos, Feng Xiaogang in seems a little restrained, like a child who did the wrong thing.
Whether it was Shen Xing or Xu Qing and other scandals, Feng Xiaogang did not respond too much. Instead, Xu Fan, who was already the true wife of Director Feng, stood up. attracted the attention of the masses to himself with generous words.
"People can't bear to see it. I think it's useless to see it if you die, so I won't watch it." "Our family is a man anyway, just take advantage of it."
This remark directly attracted the focus of public opinion to Xu Fan, while Feng Xiaogang fell into "purity".
As for Shen Xing became a victim, and both love and career waved goodbye to her.
It seems that it was from this time that Xu Fan became Feng Xiaogang's "shield".
Xu Fan is also an actor as the wife of director Feng Xiaogang, so he often appears in her husband's works.
When the box office of the work is good, Xu Fan will say that it is Feng Xiaogang's credit, and when the box office is not satisfactory, she will say that it is her own reason.
And Xu Fan's "literary and reasonableness" made Feng Xiaogang feel that this is the quality that his wife should have. This seems to have brought Xu Fan back to the low position in the two relationships.
Perhaps it was Xu Fan's "generousness" and "forbearance" that made Feng Xiaogang, a big director with constant scandals, not choose to marry a new love.
, and Xu Fan also saw what he really needed from Feng Xiaogang, so the two of them took the need and "appropriate".
In fact, in love, there is no right or wrong, but more of which party is willing to give and tolerate .
But in the eyes of the public, Xu Fan is definitely a difficult person to mess with. Otherwise, how could she be imprisoned as Feng Xiaogang's wife and not follow Zhang Di's footsteps.
Through the polishing of time, Xu Fan's acting skills have been recognized by everyone and have achieved excellent results in her career. In her relationship, she has already got what she wants in Feng Xiaogang.
Xu Fan is no longer the ignorant woman who needs care for others, but a mature woman who is fearless in the face of storms.
We only see her forbearance in the "wife of famous directors", but we do not see the wisdom behind her.
Perhaps as everyone said: "The winner is the one who laughs to the end!"
