Xu Banxia took all his belongings, rented the site, and built a yard. A woman followed four rough men to Russia to buy scrap steel in the north, but was deceived. Wu Jianshe brought Qiu Bizheng and others back to the country in shame, but Xu Banxia had no way out and stayed alone.
Xu Youren, who learned that several people were cheated in Russia, was very angry at Xu Banxia's deception. He scolded Xu Banxia at the phone, and then asked her angrily, " do you want money, or do you want to come back to ?"
Xu Banxia answered firmly: wants money!
In the original work, Xu Banxia's life is not awkward. Her uncle is in the clothing business. She has been with her uncle since she was a child in the business world. So although her father Xu Youren ignored her, she is actually much better than ordinary people in terms of finances.
In order to make more money, Xu Banxia can put down her figure and please Wu Jianshe, help Feng Yu as a shield, and even pollute the beach in order to rent cheap places (the idea of Xu Banxia in the original work of was Xu Banxia).
The reason why Xu Banxia worked so hard to make money was not because she lacked food and drink. On the contrary, her life was much more decent than that of ordinary people. She also had a nanny at home to take care of her. The original book described:
She has been mingling among the pile of boys since she was a child, playing with Tong Xiaoqi and Xiao Chen and other partners. Because of the fact that the Xu family’s ancestors were not very good at martial arts, she started to help her uncle do business since high school, and she had a lot of money on hand.
And she tried her best to make money because of Xu Youren, a man who has never fulfilled his father's responsibilities and hated her to the core since she was born.
01 Kuan Jieer
Xu Youren's remarried wife, also known as Xu Banxia's stepmother, calls Xu Banxia "Kuan Jieer", as the name implies, it is the ATM of this family.
Xu Youren has no affection for Banxia at all, because Xu Banxia's mother died of dysfunction when giving birth to her, so Xu Youren passed on all the hatred of "dead wife" to her and named her "Banxia", which means "Banxia, poisonous".
Here I have to advise some women not to be moved by themselves when it comes to giving birth to children, thinking that if they use their lives to give birth to a man, they will care about you and be grateful to you for your whole life. If you die, the child you gave birth is a burden in the eyes of others.
Just like Zhang Lijun, who gave birth to a child for her husband in the documentary "The World", she once expressed her affectionately to her husband at the last moment of her life, " My husband is only 27 years old, I can't just tell him to live alone, and he needs someone to accompany him when he is old."
After the documentary was broadcast, it moved thousands of netizens, but just after Zhang Lijun's death, the man she once loved with her life married a new man 10 months later, and the child she had born to her death became a stumbling block for his remarriage. In order to remarry, he adopted the child to his cousin.
is so sarcastic, just like how affectionate and noble Xu Youren said he was so affectionate and noble, would take his anger on his children because of losing his beloved wife, This is just to cover up his selfishness and indifference in his bones. As the saying goes, even if the tiger poison is poisonous, how affectionate do you expect a person who doesn’t even love his own children!
Pinxia's childhood can be said to have grown up freely and wildly. Due to her lack of parental love since childhood, her thoughts and life planning are much more mature than ordinary peers.
Xu Youren lives in the house left by his ex-wife to Xu Banxia, spending the living expenses given by his daughter who had never raised before, and having a happy family with his current wife and daughter, and his life is prosperous and happy.
Banxia visits Xu Youren once a month, and she never gets empty-handed every time. In Xu Youren's eyes, Xu Banxia is not his daughter, but just an ATM for improving the quality of life. She asks her to buy whatever is missing at home and what she needs.
And only by working hard to make money can Xu Youren find a little presence in him, and only by using money can he buy some so-called father-daughter family affection.
She is the sucker in the eyes of stepmothers, and she is also the "Jia Er" who maintains the unity of Xu Youren's family.
02 300,000 yuan to change houses
Wu Jianshe plans to go to the north to add a batch of scrap steel. After deducting costs, freight and taxes, at least half of the profits of can be made. In order to gain a foothold in the business world, Xu Banxia is struggling with Wu Jianshe and finally gets a chance to go to Russia with him.
There is a chance, but the money is a lot different. Xu Banxia borrows everything he knows to piece it together, of course, including his father Xu Youren.
My daughter is back on a day when she is not going home. Although Xu Youren and her stepmother are very surprised, they think that they can take advantage of "Jie Kuan" by taking advantage of it. The two are very enthusiastic, adding food and asking about their well-being. At the same time, they secretly signal her to buy a piano for her younger daughter.
When they learned that Xu Banxia was here to borrow money, the two of them turned against each other faster than reading books. The stepmother said sarcastically:
It’s true that the little thoughts of doing business are used on the family. Is the money I give every month hurting and want to go back at one time?
It would be understandable if the stepmother turned against her. After all, Xu Banxia had nothing to do with her, but Xu Youren's attitude once again showed his meanness and ruthlessness towards his daughter. He directly pushed Banxia out of the house, while saying unambiguously: You come to our house now to destroy our family!
Even Dr. Su, who only met her once, knew that she was short of money, gave her 70,000 yuan without hesitation. , which spends the living expenses she gives every month, and uses her biological daughter for food, drink and clothing, but he is not as affectionate as a stranger.
They are a happy family of three. So how innocent Xu Banxia is as sad as his daughter?
The most shameless thing is that Xu Youren, who refused to lend money to his daughter, brought 300,000 yuan to Xu Banxia the next day, first asked her to write an IOU , and then asked her to mortgage the house. If she could not repay the money on time, she would compensate him for the house.
House is the only thing my mother left to Xu Banxia. When Xu Banxia heard that her father and stepmother were actually fighting for a house, she decisively rejected the unreasonable request and accused her father of being too "selfish". For so many years, she has been a cow and a horse for them, buying whatever she wants, and spending money every month. They are still thinking about what her mother left her.
Xu Youren said shamelessly:
We live in this house well. Your troubles will affect my family happiness. You are the boss and have an office, and our family still has to rely on you. This is your ability. Every family is like this. What if parents raise children?
I really don’t know where Xu Youren came from. He lives in his ex-wife’s house, but drove his ex-wife’s daughter out of the house. He has never raised his daughter and has not fulfilled his father’s responsibilities. After marrying his wife and having children, he is still plotting against his ex-wife’s house.
From beginning to end, he was like a vampire, sucking Xu Banxia's blood, using her money to buy his comfort and happiness, and raising his family. He asked to enjoy the fruits of her labor with confidence, and asked her to support herself with confidence, while despising her for being poisonous.
After learning that Xu Banxiajin's steel was trapped, the creditors came to the door to force debts and their daughter fell ill in various lawsuits, what Xu Youren was most worried about was not his daughter, but the house they lived in would be sealed and auctioned by the court:
I am not worried about her illness, but I am worried about this house!
In order not to waste his money, he found Xu Banxia like all the creditors and asked her to pay back the money. He also wanted to go to court to sue her, and even forced her to sign an agreement that "if the property auction is for priority, the money will be returned to him."
What does a father do to make his heart so hard on his biological daughter!
03 Some people are not worthy of being parents
Xu Youren once had a rare "true love" to Xu Banxia:
You have to understand me, no matter how bad your stepmother is, she has given birth to a daughter for me and can take good care of her. I can't make a fuss with her. Don't worry, I'll find a way to do money.Keep the house book, you are right, that is the last thing your mother left to you, and we father and daughter must protect it.
Xu Banxia, who had never received fatherly love from Xu Youren, had a soft expression at that moment, especially the sentence " is the last thing your mother left to you. We father and daughter must protect it well ." Even I couldn't help but sigh that Xu Youren may not be as affectionate towards her daughter as we see on the surface. At least at that moment, he had a good understanding.
Until later, Xu Banxia was forced to debt, and Xu Youren said to Liu Meilan timidly, " returned the house to Xu Banxia ." Only then did I realize that Xu Youren, who suddenly turned into a "loving father", was the most ruthless plot against Xu Banxia.
He only uses it from beginning to end, without any blood and family affection.
He has always played the role of being bullied by Liu Meilan, with an honest and submissive image. Although everyone sees the coldness in his bones, it always makes people hate him. In fact, this is the most powerful thing about Xu Youren. He wants to use such a "cowardly" image to make his daughter feel sorry for him and sympathize with him, in order to make him live a better life and meet his various calculations and requirements.
Xu Banxia grew up with her grandparents since childhood. Every time she saw Xu Youren's attitude towards her sister Qianqian, she would reveal a hint of envy in her eyes, which was something she had never enjoyed in her life.
She worked so hard to make money because his relationship with Xu Youren is maintained with money. Xu Youren asked her for living expenses and all kinds of things, and she would rarely show her tenderness as a father. Even though she knew it was fake, even if she knew that the "true love of a father" he rarely showed was purposeful, she was as willing as she was.
There is a classic line in the American drama "causal": Parents spend their whole lives waiting for our gratitude, and we spend all their whole lives waiting for our parents' apology, and we can't wait.
Children cannot choose who to become their parents, but as parents, they have the opportunity to choose who to become their children. If you don’t like the children, you can choose not to. If you stay, you should fulfill your responsibilities as parents.
There is not a selfish father like Xu Youren in real life. When they need to take on their father's responsibilities, they can find various excuses to clear their responsibilities. Once the child becomes a talent, they kidnap the child with family affection.
Xu Banxia has been independent and lively since childhood, and she lived a very transparent life. However, the love she lacked in childhood made her always lack some ruthlessness when facing Xu Youren, just like when her father forced her to pay debts, she could not hide the coldness in her eyes, and her heart was warm and ice. She turned to make money. Xu Youren licked her face and pulled her to buy a piano for her daughter. She also smiled as he wished.
Cai Kangyong once said: Those who lack love, as long as you give her a little sweetness, she will be very satisfied.
Xu Banxia doesn’t want much. As long as Xu Youren loves a little bit, even if this "love" is false and purposeful, she is also very satisfied!
I hope all girls like Xu Banxia who lack love can find their own sunshine and warmth as soon as possible, instead of sacrificing their own interests, trying to gain the love and attention of their parents. A selfish and self-interested parent who only needs interests in your heart, even if you give all your money, will never be able to satisfy their greed, nor will you get the love you want.
Only by saving yourself can you save yourself!
